Who's on top?

Willing and Unsure said:
I'll try to answer this one. For me, it has nothing to do with the media, it's just a preference in what I like. Personally, I cum the hardest when taken from behind, but I also enjoy having my ass squeezed rather hard when that time comes for him to cum too (makes me cum even harder.... but I digress).. Anyways, when it comes to who is on top, it all depends on the person. I dont particularly like to be on top, and that's more becuase of three reasons: 1) I'm not that good at it and 2) I dont like the feeling of my fat bouncing around with me and 3) I fall over once I start to cum. But that's just me. I prefer to be on bottom because I can wrap my legs around him, put them up over his shoulders or find somethign else to do altogether. I've found though, that in this position, we are both always goign to be somewhat comfortable and he can sit up, play with me (breasts and whatnot) while I play with him and keep my legs happily up in the air. Other than that, read what Sheath said to answer your question. I think she more than summed it up for just about all of us ladies.

Indeed, sheath has a wonderful way with words...in addition to being an amazing woman. :kiss: :rose:
 
Play me some notes...

I'll let you girls ride me on top so skillfull and gentle with me inside you. The second part of this piece recalls one of the best fucks I have had, in HER waterbed. :cool:

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"Once Double-Fucked ..."


Cunplaymentary to the cold, midnight fuck we had in my truck at the back corner of her parking lot... we wiggled back into some clothing and went up to her place for another.

There was a time when I would drink. I can remember meeting a divorcee once. She was receptive to me and we left the bar for my truck. I recall that she put her leg over in my lap before I turned the key. I think I probably spent a few moments caressing it and looking at her. At that time we just knew what we were doing. We were both HOT for each other. I was getting a boner.

I started the engine and she slid over to me on the big seat and clung to my arm, giving me directions. Her place was half way across town a few minutes away. She instructed me to pull into the parking lot... I think I purposefully drove way back to the corner near the dumpsters where it was dark. It was mid winter and at 11 pm it was cold and dark.

We didn't have any trouble getting at each other right when the truck was parked. (She probably knew that if she stayed in close contact with me, it was automatic.) We kissed, and I put my hands on her wherever I wanted them. I pulled at her clothes and she pulled at mine. In driving a few blocks I had lost the boner I had when she had first put her leg in my lap, but I was throbbing for her again. We struggled to get enough clothing off so she could get me inside of her. When she did, I recall she was perfectly loose and lubricated. I took her carefully and put her on her back with her head against the arm rest and gently rode her going in as deeply as possible, grinding with her and stiffening my cock to get the maximum size. I worked inside her at times exploring for feelings of parts of her that my cock could touch. We fucked comfortably in my truck as I ravaged her female essence for a long time.

Finally I must have exploded inside of her, and she took me. She whispered in my ear, "
Its OK, I'm on the pill." I breathed the obligatory sigh of relief. As we lay there for a few minutes she asked me if I wanted to sleep with her in her bed. As the title implies, this was only Act One. We put our clothes back on and went up to her apartment.

We went through the kitchen and she led me immediately to the bedroom. To this, I promptly undressed and got under the covers. She made a trip to the kitchen and bathroom for something and came back quickly, getting undressed and with me again. We were both a little chilled, and enjoyed the reunion of our flesh, rubbing each other with great anticipation. I got hard quickly and we fucked again, this time in her warm, cozy waterbed. Being submissive this time I lay with my ass deep into the softness of her bed and let her slowly and gently ride me, timing my upward thrusts with her movements and the waves. We fucked very pleasurably again for a considerable amount of time. I loved just putting my hands on her waist and hips, and watching her in the dim light as she rode me. Her tits hung in my face and from time to time I lifted my head to lick at them as they moved. She rode me so perfectly and gently knowing I really enjoyed having HER fuck me, and I know she must have enjoyed giving me such pleasure, and the sensation of fucking so pleasurably again in her warm, soft bed. There was no crazy switching positions. She just got on top and I simply let her ride me the whole way, her way. She was gentle and sensational.

Looking back on this encounter, it resonates within me as truly one of the most enjoyable fucks I have ever had. It rates as the most under-rated, because for some reason I don't think of it very often. When I left early in the dark, I put 20 dollars on top of her refrigerator. I never got together with her again. She was HOT. Getting the opportunity to fuck her a second time was the ultimate cunplayment. Purr... Double-Purr...

-o0O0o
 
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It depends on the mood. In the mornings, I want him to take control and thus be on top.

In the afternoon, I am usually much more forward and will take control and the top.

At night, under the cover of darkness, I am much more experimental.

But that's just me.
 
I prefer the woman on top. Two reasons (well, hundreds, really, but two main ones):

1. I can last longer when she's on top.

2. There's NOTHING better than breasts swaying back and forth in front of your face. It's the perfect position for caressing and sucking those bad boys. Yum! My hands are free when she's on top, too. All the better for ass play (hers, mind you).
 
piano_girl said:
Ok, here's another sex position question....When fucking, would you rather be on the top or the bottom? Does one turn you on more than the other? Why?

Ahh, fun topic!

I love it when my lover starts on top, and after I get real worked up, I've got to hop on top and ride the pony. I just love to grind deep, moving around in circles. It just hits the right spot, and I feel like I'm in control. Seeing his face, and how satisfied he looks give me a real power trip, and that's when I have the BIGGEST O! Oh yeah :)
 
ooohhhhh.... its a simple but brilliant question..... i love it when my girl gets on top, because i can watch her whole body move. she looks so sensual and moves like a godess.

.... but she likes deep penetration and for that i have to get on top.... which i can't honestly say i complain about either. haha
 
well i much much prefer him to be on top. for me being on top, i have to feel quite comfortable with the guy in question, and have to be very into it... else, it can turn me off... i guess it has to do with certain insecurities of mine...
 
piano_girl said:
Ok, here's another sex position question....When fucking, would you rather be on the top or the bottom? Does one turn you on more than the other? Why?

Depends on the mood of the moment - one thing I do like with woman on top, if she has long hair and it cascades over me :)
 
heh...

What an awesome topic! Sheath's words and this thread are gonna put me under the table, drunk on horny.

I'm very switch. I like to take and be taken.

Ideally, we would both have confidence, ability and enjoyment from being on top -- giving us options throughout. I'm not with anyone right now, but I must say that most of my partners have been a little apprehensive about being on top, so I feel a bit deprived in that arena (someone's gonna have some catching up to do!). I think her on top gives her more control, I quite like it when she's selfish -- I can sit back and think of England. There's nothing like watching her grind. And, as someone described, the face to face of a woman's form, her hair, her breasts, her looking down on you. Altho, there's the reverse doggie, which either of us can pound on...

And, as someone else said, the mood and duration can be different morning, afternoon and night.

Being on top can be have varying degrees of control, I think, depending on how close you and/or your partner are to orgasm at the moment. She may be sitting atop, eyes closed, grinding away, breathing heavy under her long hair, getting herself there, which I love. Or she may be pressed against me, looking into my eyes, talking dirty, working me just right, up and up, nowhere near it herself, but knowing she's got me. Or I might be pounding from behind, harder because I've been naughty and masturbating all week, or because she is saying come on goddamnit harder.
 
Nomad420 said:
Lately I've really enjoyed being on top but with her laying facedown, legs together. I kind of straddle from behind with my legs on the outside and enter her from behind / above. Amazingly stimulating for both of us - highly recommended. :)
Oooh yeah.

So to answer the original question, he's on top, behind me.
 
RedIntense said:
It depends on the mood. In the mornings, I want him to take control and thus be on top.

In the afternoon, I am usually much more forward and will take control and the top.

At night, under the cover of darkness, I am much more experimental.

But that's just me.
I am the same way but i am a man lol. In the morning I like her to be on top cause i am kinda lazy so she just climbs on and grinds away;) but if its at night i am much more active so I like to be on top or behind:)
 
I'm not a fan of being on top. I avoid it wherever possible. Being quite submissive, it just doesn't click right into my headspace. I feel like the one with the power, and for me, that's such a turn off.

Jx
 
Sheath said exactly what was going on in my head. I love missionary and modified missionary where my legs are over his shoulders because I love the face-to-face aspect, I love feeling 'taken', I love feeling his strength, and I love running my hands all over him. I also get a LOT of stimulation when he's on top, and I'm on my knees/tummy. I don't like it quite as much as missionary, emotionally, but it IS more stimulating physically, and the 'taken' aspect is even higher. Plus, he can run HIS hands over ME.

I second, and third and fourth... what other women have said about why they don't like being on top. I'm afraid that I'm not good at it--and when I have been on top, my guy has kind of guided me to a different rhythm and slightly differnet position, which adds to my insecurity. And hey, it's hard work! Mostly, I definitely have submissive tendancies, and I feel out of my element on top. That doesn't mean that I refuse it outright; I just have to be in the right kind of mood. It can be a lot of fun, but it's not my favorite position.

Someone mention being fucked against a wall. That is one of my all-time fantasies :kiss:
 
so...

So ladies, when you're on top, does a particular motion work better for you? My partners have always felt like they were supposed to pound deep like a guy would, which is difficult in that position. Most of them found that a close pelvic rocking back and forth was more stimulating for them. And that a reverse doggie was a good angle to hit closer to their G-spot.

Having not had any previous partners who let them on top (at all?!), it took them some practice. I insisted that they be comfortable building some muscle groups and technique, and learn to be okay with taking their time and being a little selfish. Of course, they had no choice but to do the work when it was switch night, and I was in rather fixed in position... nylon ropes... bedposts...

Historically, most of them felt uncomfortable being on top very often, as some have said. We both liked to be taken, though usually her more often.
 
Both?

I like being on top, sometimes I like having her ride me.

She gets really really excited when I'm on top just fucking her like crazy. She likes to be taken and taken hard. I enjoy it a lot because she's so turned on and I like controlling her, being charge of how hard I fuck. I like to tease her sometimes, pull out, rub my the length of my cock along her slit. I love to hear her beg me to fuck her.

Face to face is wonderful, and I like anal best that way because its so intimate. A lot of times however I put her on her stomach and have her lift that ass up so that I can fuck either of her two lovely holes. I get a lot of stimulation fucking her cunt in that position because her thighs are close together and add friction. Plus it means I get to bite and nibble on her back and neck, which makes her just melt under me.


She seems to come the hardest, and fastest when she's on top, riding me because she can get me so deep inside her and she can use both hands on her clit. I like it from that position because I can get at her breasts and play with her nipples, pull, pinch, twist them until all that lovely pain just makes her shudder and twitch and give me that delighted whimper of agony. Or grab her hips and hold onto them HARD and taken control from underneath, grinding her hips against me.

So....I like them both.
 
Zergplex Says

Bottom for me, I love the feeling of submitting to her control and letting her tease me and control me. ^_^ can you tell I'm a sub?

-Zergplex
 
dammit

sheath said:
God, am I ever in the mood to answer this question.

I want him on top. I absolutely love that. Because I can feel the power in his body and how he uses it. I can tell by the tension in his arms when I run my hands over them, in the trembling of his thighs when I wrap my legs around him, just how much he is holding back. I can feel that spiral of tension in him dissolve with every thrust. It's like feeling a dam give way under water, the way his body gives in before the rush of passion...the way he breathes into my ear, a little harsher every now and then, the way he groans when I rise up to meet him...it makes me feel so small, so alive, so TAKEN, knowing he can do anything he wants, I'm lying back and offering my body like a buffet of pleasures, and he can choose to make love to me so slowly I want to die melting, or he can thrust so hard I cannot breathe...but I can feel the choice in him, especially in his arms, the anticipation of what he might do...God, there is nothing like that moment when he feels my body tighten around him and he knows I'm right there on the edge, that feeling of power that runs through him so strongly that I can feel it as though I were reading his mind...and then the hesitation disappears and his muscles under my hands become like bands of steel as he pushes deeper, holds me tighter, his voice incoherent but who gives a fuck, what he says doesn't matter, it's just that he says it at all...then the dam breaks and he rides the swell of it with all the tension gone, knowing I can and will take anything he can give me...feeling so delightfully possessed by him, the strength of him so much more powerful than my own, but feeling safe in the midst of it...and just wrapping myself around him and letting him take me without asking how I want it. Just taking it. There is absolutely nothing else in the world like that feeling of being so vulnerable and so powerful all at once.

*sigh*

S.
I thought you werent going to reveal that now , us men never kiss and tell..... :nana:
 
I like being on top, but when its all over (whenever that is) I like being on the bottom. I just love having a guy resting on top of me! Hey! it happens! :D
 
For me it is on top. Why? well a number of reasons, firstly the varying positions. My fave being leaning back with my hands on his thighs for balance.... :cool:
The control, just open your legs that little bit wider and he slides that little bit deeper. :p
Oh yeah and the fact he can touch anywhere he wants with his hands as I ride him.... ;)
 
I'm as adventurous as the next girl, but I'll admit that my favorite position is MISSIONARY! Preferably with my legs up by my ears. His cock slides up and down my g-spot, and it drives me fucking crazy!

Honorable mentions go to the cowgirl and to doggy-style.
 
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