whore or a lady

[Guest]

My mom called me a slut once and it did something to me mental, you know?

It is different when someone says it out of anger and means it as an insult. With me, anyway, I can tell when my fiance says it to turn me on. Never has he used words like "whore", "slut", "bitch", etc. for a fight. When said in anger, those words can hurt a lot.

 

[peachykeen]

But dont you feel insulted when a man calls you that

Not in context. If someone at work started randomly saying it, sure. But if it's just part of your sex-fun, what's the harm?

 

[bunny bondage]

i guess i don't like the word "whore" but man do i love being spanked, scratched, strangled and called a "bad girl"! i like sex rough and hard, the "lady" part comes after the sex when we're all cuddly and the scene is over. that's when i like to be kissed, petted, and gently loved. ^_^

 

[kane555]

bunny bondage
after you get fucked and when u r cuddling with him do u feel aroused when he pets ur hair

 

[kane555]

anyone else

 

[Guest]

anyone else

Is this question in relation to:

bunny bondage
after you get fucked and when u r cuddling with him do u feel aroused when he pets ur hair

?

If so, my answer is YES! I love the feeling of being "petted". I love having my hair stroked. But, then again, my Fiance and I are involved in the D/s lifestyle. He is my Dominant. I am His "pet". It's not a major role play between us, but He does pet me often.

 

[bunny bondage]

sorry i'm a bit late in answering but i was "busy" yesterday ! yes, i love affection from him, and almost any intimate attention from him at all turns me on! ^_^

 

[BgMma]

I agree with hotred. It depends on the mood, your partner, the location. It all blends together for a perfect synergy.

Now, if I could convince my SO to talk during sex, I would be ecstatic. Sheesh

 

[Kitte]

who me?? a slut?
























yup!

 

[Countess DeWinter]

The only reason my hubby can treat me like a naughty whore in bed is because he is a complete gentleman who treats me like lady and an EQUAL the rest of the time. He opens doors for me. He serves me at dinner parties. He does everything he can to see to my comfort.
So...when we're in bed, we can do anything raunchy we want and I know that I'm still a lady in his heart.

 

[kane555]

Countess DeWinter

How old are you .??

I have 3 parts of a thread called what do u do while sex i will be happy if u answered them please

 

[Countess DeWinter]

I'm 34...I'll go look them up

 

[Skitten]

Yes I love to play rough and have him pet me or have my hair pulled it is awesome. But Wizard and I are into the D/s lifestyle and it is just something that is for us. You may think differently. There are a lot of women who like it both ways, there is a time and a place for everything.

 

[Countess DeWinter]

While I was driving home, the immortal words of Julia Roberts came to me.

"I say who. I say when. I say how much."


No...I don't want to be treated like a whore. I don't want to be paid and then forgotten.

 

[bad kitty]

I met many women who like to be treated like whores in bed I mean they like to be called bad names os get insulted in bed etc.

I want to ask how many of you like to be treated like a whore and how many like a lady in bed and why in each case.?

thanks

I don't like to be put down, but I love to be made to feel weak

 

[Guest]

See? Some of us don't look at being called a "whore" as a put down, and some of us don't take the word litterally. Never in my life have I been paid for sex. But, there is something almost magickal about that word. It just does something to me. It seems to be the "dirtiest" word to call a woman. (With cunt coming in second, then slut, then bitch.) Dirty talk makes me respond. It makes me free. It allows me to be a sexual being with no insecurities, hangups, or worries.

 

[Pamela]

Re: Re: whore or a lady

I don't like to be put down, but I love to be made to feel weak

Wonderfully put.

Ditto!

 

[penguindance]