Who Initiates sex in your relationship?

Who Initiates sex in your relationship.

  • Man

    Votes: 5 27.8%
  • Woman

    Votes: 4 22.2%
  • 50-50

    Votes: 9 50.0%

  • Total voters
    18
It's meeeeee every time. Im getting so tired of it, after 22 years, i think it's time for a change. In fact I DEMAND a change.
 
My hand. even though I try to stop it, I swear it has a mind of it's own.
 
Can i understand where you are comming from.

10 yrs of it here. I have even said "Please sometime just suprise me"

And still. If I want it I need to go and get it. Now mind you she never says NO, so that much is good. But I would never say NO too.
 
My hand. even though I try to stop it, I swear it has a mind of it's own.

Don't you just hate that? And when it been out drinking all night with it's little buddies...sheesh. Won't take no for an answer!
 
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You know, its interesting. I believe a woman can almost always initiatesex if she really wants to. However, a man can't initiate sex unless the woman allows it... Most of the time - nothing is cut and dried...

Even more true though - its always the person with the lower sex drive in a relationship who controls the sexual aspects of the relationship...
 
I do....

My brain tells one hand to rub and the other to grip and thrust.


Seriously though, I usually do...I'm a tramp :p :p :p
 
Gee we both initiate sex - I would have hated to live back in the days when we as women were not supposed to enjoy the intimate side of sexual relationships.

:p
 
I initiated in every relationship except one.

In that lone exception (which was really a one night stand, not a relationship) she told me 1/2 way through a movie ... "let's get out of here and go back to your place" It ended up being mind-blowing sex ... so I would prefer my next relationship with someone who is sexually forthright like I am.
 
Dillinger said:
You know, its interesting. I believe a woman can almost always initiatesex if she really wants to. However, a man can't initiate sex unless the woman allows it... Most of the time - nothing is cut and dried...

Even more true though - its always the person with the lower sex drive in a relationship who controls the sexual aspects of the relationship...

Truer words were never spoken.
 
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