Who here got their spouse's cherry?

[Kenny9990]

How many guys (or girls) here got their spouse's cherry? If you did, do you feel it was an important part of your relationship. If you didn't, do you know or wonder who her/his first lover was and are you jealous/curious/excited by the thoughts?

I started dating my wife when she was 15 and we finally had sex for the first time when she was 17 and still a virgin. We have been married for 30+ years and she has only been with three other men. As I look back, I wish she had the chance to have more lovers as sometimes she mentions regrets in this area.

Feel free to add interesting details.....

 

[glamorilla]

no but he got mine.

 

[Ms_Lilith]

nope. I didn't get his, and he didn't get mine. But we've told each other all about our past experienes. We're very open that way. I'm not jealous of his ex, and he's not jealous of the people I've been with, and I think it works nicely that way. In many ways I'm glad that my honey wasn't my first... yes it would have been special to share that with him, but at the same time, I'm quite content with where I was in my life when he and I hooked up. and he feels the same way.

 

[bknight2602]

No but she told me about it, and it was not pretty!

 

[Bob_Bytchin]

no but he got mine.

I'll never eat a cordial cherry again

 

[Guest]

No but she told me about it, and it was not pretty!

.....and you still married her?

 

[bknight2602]

.....and you still married her?

Yes, and that was only the FIRST mistake! hehehe

She learned a lot in the ensuing lovers though, as did I.

 

[His_kitty]

My ex husband was 19 and I was 16 when we first had sex.


Afterwards I asked if that had been his first time, not surprisingly he said yes. Then asked if it was mine ...

Damn I walked into that one

 

[Kenny9990]

Well His Kitty, how did you handle that one? And why couldn't he tell?

 

[His_kitty]

Well His Kitty, how did you handle that one? And why couldn't he tell?

I did what most would have done! Lie like a cheap rug.


But I felt guilty and admitted the truth to him not too much later, my guilt gets me every time. He wasn't upset about it btw ... I think he was just so damned happy he was actually getting some, he decided not to make it an issue.


Why couldn't he tell? It's been my long time belief he's a moron.

 

[lilminx]

No but she told me about it, and it was not pretty!

Why? Why is it such a big deal? I wouldn't want to marry a virgin; I like men with experience, provided that they're clean.

 

[Jewelz]

.

 

[Kenny9990]

Jewelz, do you know (or care) how many other women he slept with since then?

 

[Rick2002]

I got my wife's cherry. It wasn't important then at all.

Married 28 years now......and I wish she had had other lovers. Don't know why but i just do.

 

[Guest]

 

[Guest]

 

[Lost Cause]

My first wife...

I was seventeen, she sixteen, under a tree a block from her house. She was part of my world for 8 years until we divorced, she is the mother of my son. I will love her for that as long as I live.

 

[marksgirl]

Naw neither of us got the cherry, we were both ol pros by the time we hooked up and got married.

 

[Olivianna]

My man's semen is strawberry flavored, but I don't know if that counts.

 

[curious2c]

I get hers all the time...she hates cherries

 

[marksgirl]

I get hers all the time...she hates cherries

Can you tie her stem into a knot with your tongue?

 

[curious2c]

Can you tie her stem into a knot with your tongue?

Yes I can as a matter of fact. I think that is why she loves me so much.

 

[curious2c]

Yes I can as a matter of fact. I think that is why she loves me so much.

Untying that knot is where the skill and patience comes to a 'head'.

 

[BgMma]

Well, I took my ex-husband's virginity when he was eighteen and I was sixteen.

I am very happy about that. I was glad for the experience of making him a great lover for me!

And for anyone else who happens to enjoy him!

 

[Kenny9990]

BGMMA99,

are you still together and is it OK with you if he enjoys other women?