Who hates sucking cock?

[FantasyXY]

The prevailing thought on Literotica about blowjobs seems to be that all women love giving head and swallow semen like it was some sort of tasty life extending gift from the gods.
In real life this couldn’t be further from the truth. I’ve only been with a few women that would do it, but many more that wouldn’t. Of those that did, there were only a couple of women that actually liked it

My question(s) for the Lit Ladies:
Do you hate giving head? Why?
If you haven’t done it yet, why not?

My question(s) for the Lit Men:
Have you been with a woman that sucked you off and hated it? How did she react or let you know she didn’t like it?
Have you ever made a woman do it? (Not rape, I don’t want to hear about that… Maybe she loses a bet or she tells you to make her do it)

 

[FantasyXY]

Here are my answers

My answers –
I dated a woman who was in her mid-thirties that had never even put a cock in her mouth. She absolutely loved how hard she came when I ate her pussy so a couple weeks into the relationship she started asking lots of questions about sucking cock, and admitted she had never done it. One night she finally got the nerve up to try it. When I came, she gagged and spit cum all over me. Her only comment was an emphatic “That Was Sooo Gross!!” She tried it a few more times but gagged and spit every time. She hated it.

When I was 18 I had a job working out of town. A coworker, who was almost 20, and I started making out one night in my motel room. The next day we fucked. She was fun and even though she only had slightly more experience than I did, she knew she liked it rough. She loved to say “make me” to everything. One day I asked her for a BJ and she said “make me”, so I made her do it. When I came, she gagged and ran to the bathroom to spit. The next time I asked her to suck me, she said “fuck off” instead of “make me”. She hated it.

 

[DeviantDaniel]

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[MaineFemale]

The prevailing thought on Literotica about blowjobs seems to be that all women love giving head and swallow semen like it was some sort of tasty life extending gift from the gods.
In real life this couldn’t be further from the truth. I’ve only been with a few women that would do it, but many more that wouldn’t. Of those that did, there were only a couple of women that actually liked it

My question(s) for the Lit Ladies:
Do you hate giving head? Why?
If you haven’t done it yet, why not?

My question(s) for the Lit Men:
Have you been with a woman that sucked you off and hated it? How did she react or let you know she didn’t like it?
Have you ever made a woman do it? (Not rape, I don’t want to hear about that… Maybe she loses a bet or she tells you to make her do it)

Going down on a man can be a lot of fun and very enjoyable. The problem is that if it takes him more than a few minutes to get off, our jaws lock up and what was fun becomes painful. Try sucking on a cucumber non stop for 10 mins and see how your jaw feels. I think a lot of women learn techniques how to get him there as soon as possible by using their hands simultaneously with their mouth, but if he's holding back...well that sucks. No pun intended. ;-)

 

[Jackotheshadows]

Going down on a man can be a lot of fun and very enjoyable. The problem is that if it takes him more than a few minutes to get off, our jaws lock up and what was fun becomes painful. Try sucking on a cucumber non stop for 10 mins and see how your jaw feels. I think a lot of women learn techniques how to get him there as soon as possible by using their hands simultaneously with their mouth, but if he's holding back...well that sucks. No pun intended. ;-)

hehe, that's why the whole "swirl pump" thing works so well! Never can last against that...

 

[FantasyXY]

Going down on a man can be a lot of fun and very enjoyable. The problem is that if it takes him more than a few minutes to get off, our jaws lock up and what was fun becomes painful. Try sucking on a cucumber non stop for 10 mins and see how your jaw feels. I think a lot of women learn techniques how to get him there as soon as possible by using their hands simultaneously with their mouth, but if he's holding back...well that sucks. No pun intended. ;-)

I know that once a woman takes my cock in her mouth it won't be very long before I come. The act itself is a huge turn on for me, and the tongues stimulation makes it short work.
I've never had a woman complain about the sucking part, just the mouth full of semen.

 

[DarkPleasures]

Who hates sucking cock?

Sorry, but I sure don't. I love sucking cock. I love the way it feels as it slides in my mouth. I love the softness of the skin contrasting with the rigidness of the hard-on. I love teasing a man with my mouth and hand before I finally bring him to a powerful orgasm in my mouth.

 

[MaineFemale]

I know that once a woman takes my cock in her mouth it won't be very long before I come. The act itself is a huge turn on for me, and the tongues stimulation makes it short work.
I've never had a woman complain about the sucking part, just the mouth full of semen.

That's funny how different all women are. Sucking for a long time bothers me, however, my man cumming in my mouth does not at all.

 

[devinity7]

I enjoy it, I like the power it gives me to turn a man on. As for the cumming part, I have swallowed and had no issue, then again, some men ejaculate more and it seems to have a different consistency or taste and I've found I've had to spit. Yet, it also depends on how into it and turned on I am.

 

[COCK_STAR]

Definite deal breaker if she hates sucking cock. Even if she doesn't like it, she has to "suck it up" and do it at least 4-5 times a week.

 

[littlebabyclit]

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[CBM514]

I don't feel the impression on Lit that every woman loves sucking cock is representative of Society as a whole, but when you consider our population here, it's more likely that those who are here and vocal are more likely to enjoy that more...

I've known women that only give head (with or without swallowing/finishing) when first dating then not later, some that really enjoy it, and some that will do it for their SO because it makes them feel good not because it's enjoyed...overall I would have to say its totally dependent on the person and thier preferences

 

[FantasyXY]

I am lucky now...

My wife is one of the women that have sucked me that loves it. She actually prefers oral sex over all other types. She has mad skills too. I also prefer oral sex, giving and receiving, almost to a fetish level. We are the proverbial match made in heaven.

In my fantasies and stories my desires surrounding a blowjob is a little different than my wife's 'I love it' attitude. What I like in a story is a woman that doesn't want a man to come in her mouth, but does it anyway. She is always somehow coerced to do it, or maybe its an accident, but she still doesn't like it. I hate to admit this, but the woman trying it for the first time with me and hating it was so much more of a mental turn on for me than my wife's love of it.

 

[soflabbwlvr]

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My question(s) for the Lit Men:
Have you been with a woman that sucked you off and hated it? How did she react or let you know she didn’t like it?
Have you ever made a woman do it? (Not rape, I don’t want to hear about that… Maybe she loses a bet or she tells you to make her do it)

The only instances when women refused to suck my cock all occurred in my early years of sexual activity. It is, perhaps, an acquired taste for some women. In any event, I never tried in any instance to compel her to do so.

Since around the time I turned 25 or so, probably every woman I have ever been with has sucked dick willingly. Some were more enthusiastic than others, and it was not always the case that the most enthusiastic were always the best. Not that many completed the act, however. I take a long time to come from oral, and most get tired and give up. I never minded--I prefer pussy anyway.

I don't know how many enjoyed it and how many were just going along. Like I said, some were certainly more enthusiastic than others, but that doesn't really tell me anything. Also, I really can't say how many swallowed and how many spit it out--I wasn't tracking that statistic. I recall some definite spitters and some confirmed swallowers.

 

[cream1rst]

Ive sucked cock b4, id have to say it was a beefy 10incher and it was great! How could u not enjoy it. I wish i could suck more cock these days

 

[aaron2878]

I'm at a 50/50 on this topic. For the ones that don't like to suck or swallow they usually don't have great skills. Either they suck for a minute or two or give a half hearted effort. Then you have a spitter, which baffles me cause its already in your mouth and won't hurt to swallow. The after taste will still be there. Which I know cause I do swallow my own cum and have swallowed a few others as well since I'm bi.

As for the other half, my experiences with them have been a complete opposite. Usually they are more than eager to stuff my cock in their mouth and never hesitate to swallow. I had one fuck buddy that all she wanted was to suck me and swallow. Another fb told me not matter what we are doing if I'm ready to cum it better be in her mouth.

I'm actually a type of guy that would rather give pleasure than receive!!! If I am getting attention, I actually prefer a handjob over blowjob any day.

 

[FantasyXY]

I am surprised

I am surprised that there aren't any women here on Lit that have never done it. (at least the letting him come in your mouth part)

In reality I've never dated a woman that didn't love to suck on cock (the woman that had never tried it was nearly a first for me) However, most women I've dated would stop, either once I was good and warmed up, or just before I came. I think it is a good bet that these women had tried it and just didn't want to do it again.

Maybe this is the wrong forum to ask for the "I've never done it" response. The fetish crowd is all going to be pretty adventurous.

I'd love to find a woman to chat with that hasn't done it or won't do it again to find out why... For me, it would make for some great story fodder.

 

[CBM514]

I am surprised that there aren't any women here on Lit that have never done it. (at least the letting him come in your mouth part)

In reality I've never dated a woman that didn't love to suck on cock (the woman that had never tried it was nearly a first for me) However, most women I've dated would stop, either once I was good and warmed up, or just before I came. I think it is a good bet that these women had tried it and just didn't want to do it again.

Maybe this is the wrong forum to ask for the "I've never done it" response. The fetish crowd is all going to be pretty adventurous.

I'd love to find a woman to chat with that hasn't done it or won't do it again to find out why... For me, it would make for some great story fodder.

Don't forget the subset of women that view BJ's as a way to warm you up and get ready for fucking, not a means to the end

 

[Jani715]

Its all dependent on the situation and the person. Sometimes, the mood isn't right for it or you only feel like doing it so much but you don't want to swallow or you want something else in the middle of it. I'm not against it at all, but I won't do it every time either. Its like ice cream, you don't eat it at every meal but it doesn't mean that mint choco-chip isn't freaking amazing.

 

[Sensualdreamer]

What would make me hate giving a blow job is the individual guy.

When I have a guy who chooses to ask me for a blow job, as opposed to allowing me to surprise him it's a turn off.

It's also enough to make me turn bitchy if a guy expects a blow job, but doesn't want to give me oral.
Sorry grab a bowl of jello b/c my lips aren't going near your dick.

Further there are guys who look like a chia pet, aka hair everywhere. Don't even get me started on the guys who smell like piss, sweaty balls, or an ash tray! Ewww gross

Ultimately tho if I want to give a blow job I will w/o him needing to ask.

 

[Caress40]

The problem is that if it takes him more than a few minutes to get off, our jaws lock up and what was fun becomes painful.

Not all women are like that. Just adding my two cents in when you say "our"

 

[CBM514]

Not all are, but I've heard that feedback before too..I'm sure size as well as stamina impact this too?

 

[GiggLeGasm]

Not all are, but I've heard that feedback before too..I'm sure size as well as stamina impact this too?

It's true. I look way more talented if he's little. Those big ones.. good grief..
all that gagging and drooling when he pushes it so deep that you're afraid you won't be able to breathe..

what's a girl to do?

 

[CBM514]

Off topic I know, but I think it's sexy as hell when she drools all over it!

 

[ffdan]

Wife has never really liked to suck my cock, although I have gotten a handful of blowjobs over twenty years when she has had a alot to drink. Its always been by her iniation. But I can't complain, she enjoys anal. If i have to have only one, I'm happy.