Who DOESN'T use lube, etc. to masturbate?

WickedEyes

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I always hear how people use lubes to masturbate, especially men. I HAVE used stuff, and it feels good, but almost all the time I just jack off without vasaline or anything. It feels awesome, but my question is I read that most people have to use it? I have foreskin - is that the reason I can jack off 3-4 times a day if I want without lube?
 
It depends on how wet I get naturally.

If I need it, I use it...otherwise, I go without.
 
i dont have foreskin.....i have lube but use it maybe once a month and i do it 2-3 times a day dry and it feels great:)
 
My last 3 b/fs claim to never use lube when they masturbate. Also I have 2 good guy friends who make the same claim. I don't think using lube in masturbation is as common as people think. As a female, I only use it when I do some masturbatory anal play.
 
I rarely use Lube. Maybe if I'm gonna shower right after but otherwise never really had to.
Lube does feel a bit better but it makes me cum too fast:/
 
Okay... the lube question interests me... because lately I only seem to see an action but one weekend a month. I enjoy giving oral but in the mornings, he has trouble coming and my gag reflex limits me more... and then if I go down on him and he's already come before, it takes much longer as is common I think. But my mouth will get worn out after a long engouh time which is saying a lot I think. I do have a small mouth but hey, I played the clarinet for nine years and know what true soreness is in the mouth!

Okay, onto the lube thing... I find that if I have to resort to handwork to get him off, my spit makes him sticky if I don't continue to replenish the spit as it dries, making it hard for my hand to slide along him. So either, I don't spit and don't use my mouth... or I do and I finish him that way because otherwise it just doesn't feel good to me and I think, not to him either, because it makes the motions awkward, the stickyness. Maybe that's just me... does anyone else experience this problem...


Now on for a little tip... the last time we spent the weekend together, i took a bottle of massage oil from the bath and body works. We laid towels on the bed and exchanged massages. He went first and I did his back and then he said he wanted a front massage and flipped over. And lordy, did that man groan and sigh as I lubed his cock with the oil.... lol. We stopped before he got to close so he could massage me, he said he was too relaxed and that when he finally came, he'd probably pass out... so I got to come first. But back to him.. when it was again his turn and time to get him off. I massaged and teased him as he lay on his back and while he watched, I poured just a teaspoon or two on my breasts and smeared it around... and then I slide my breasts along his cock, I got his cock just as oily and then I let my breasts massage him, stroke him.... it was very good for both of us. And he came quite hard.....

just a lube like suggestion for everyone :D
 
SkylineBlue said:
Okay... the lube question interests me... because lately I only seem to see an action but one weekend a month. I enjoy giving oral but in the mornings, he has trouble coming and my gag reflex limits me more... and then if I go down on him and he's already come before, it takes much longer as is common I think. But my mouth will get worn out after a long engouh time which is saying a lot I think. I do have a small mouth but hey, I played the clarinet for nine years and know what true soreness is in the mouth!

Okay, onto the lube thing... I find that if I have to resort to handwork to get him off, my spit makes him sticky if I don't continue to replenish the spit as it dries, making it hard for my hand to slide along him. So either, I don't spit and don't use my mouth... or I do and I finish him that way because otherwise it just doesn't feel good to me and I think, not to him either, because it makes the motions awkward, the stickyness. Maybe that's just me... does anyone else experience this problem...


Now on for a little tip... the last time we spent the weekend together, i took a bottle of massage oil from the bath and body works. We laid towels on the bed and exchanged massages. He went first and I did his back and then he said he wanted a front massage and flipped over. And lordy, did that man groan and sigh as I lubed his cock with the oil.... lol. We stopped before he got to close so he could massage me, he said he was too relaxed and that when he finally came, he'd probably pass out... so I got to come first. But back to him.. when it was again his turn and time to get him off. I massaged and teased him as he lay on his back and while he watched, I poured just a teaspoon or two on my breasts and smeared it around... and then I slide my breasts along his cock, I got his cock just as oily and then I let my breasts massage him, stroke him.... it was very good for both of us. And he came quite hard.....

just a lube like suggestion for everyone :D

LOL... very common observation with using spit for lube....LOL.. I think all guys know this! But women must learn it! The baby oil on your breasts was a very good Idea! Lots of people have done it, but It was very sexy to hear someone so young describe it again! Such fun doing something for the very first time! Especially when it is done for the first time for both partners! Ahhhhh to be young again! But even at my age always something new to do!
 
I've never used lube to masturbate. Of course, I also hate all forms of lotion, cream, etc. so it's just not something I would ever think of using. Now the idea of a nice warm oil massage. It's not something I would normally want, but I have to admit it does sound interesting. I'd be willing to give it a try if it's that relaxing.
 
(20/F/MN-ND)

Sometimes I prefer it, just because it makes things easier and feels more fun, but it IS such a mess. It's necessary if I'm doing anything anal, though, so I'm obviously not opposed. For quickies, I'd never use it. Pretty much the same sentiment that everyone else has expressed. :p
 
I very rarely use lube to beat off... Even though it does feel better with it, it's just too much of a hassle... Too much clean up afterwards...
 
I never do. I prefer it dry. Occasionalyl I'll toss something slippery on myself just to mix it up. But overall...give me dry skin.
 
Massage Oil

Sky -- what a wonderful post - and I can understand your first part of your post - with 100% understanding - I myself do not cum from receiving head -- don't know why - but just don't - but it is GREAT to see that you try other things.

Now -- what I meant to write -- becareful of some massage oils - I would suggest a pure oil - because if you are engaging in intercourse later -- you do not want to cause a infection --

but your breast massage sounds lovely -- OH my --

dreams are made of this

John

Originally posted by SkylineBlue
Okay... the lube question interests me... because lately I only seem to see an action but one weekend a month. I enjoy giving oral but in the mornings, he has trouble coming and my gag reflex limits me more... and then if I go down on him and he's already come before, it takes much longer as is common I think. But my mouth will get worn out after a long engouh time which is saying a lot I think. I do have a small mouth but hey, I played the clarinet for nine years and know what true soreness is in the mouth!

Okay, onto the lube thing... I find that if I have to resort to handwork to get him off, my spit makes him sticky if I don't continue to replenish the spit as it dries, making it hard for my hand to slide along him. So either, I don't spit and don't use my mouth... or I do and I finish him that way because otherwise it just doesn't feel good to me and I think, not to him either, because it makes the motions awkward, the stickyness. Maybe that's just me... does anyone else experience this problem...


Now on for a little tip... the last time we spent the weekend together, i took a bottle of massage oil from the bath and body works. We laid towels on the bed and exchanged massages. He went first and I did his back and then he said he wanted a front massage and flipped over. And lordy, did that man groan and sigh as I lubed his cock with the oil.... lol. We stopped before he got to close so he could massage me, he said he was too relaxed and that when he finally came, he'd probably pass out... so I got to come first. But back to him.. when it was again his turn and time to get him off. I massaged and teased him as he lay on his back and while he watched, I poured just a teaspoon or two on my breasts and smeared it around... and then I slide my breasts along his cock, I got his cock just as oily and then I let my breasts massage him, stroke him.... it was very good for both of us. And he came quite hard.....

just a lube like suggestion for everyone :D
 
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OOHH, I'm using lube after reading this one! Will have to give the wife a "Mother's Day" massage this evening!!!

Now on for a little tip... the last time we spent the weekend together, i took a bottle of massage oil from the bath and body works. We laid towels on the bed and exchanged massages. He went first and I did his back and then he said he wanted a front massage and flipped over. And lordy, did that man groan and sigh as I lubed his cock with the oil.... lol. We stopped before he got to close so he could massage me, he said he was too relaxed and that when he finally came, he'd probably pass out... so I got to come first. But back to him.. when it was again his turn and time to get him off. I massaged and teased him as he lay on his back and while he watched, I poured just a teaspoon or two on my breasts and smeared it around... and then I slide my breasts along his cock, I got his cock just as oily and then I let my breasts massage him, stroke him.... it was very good for both of us. And he came quite hard.....
 
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I personally never use any lube. I have tried it of course, but it's not worth the mess. I'm uncut too which makes it easier I'm sure.
 
I've done both. With & without lube.

To me, it's two different sensations. Both achieve the same results & I'm happy!
 
I produce more than enough of my own lube (precum), sometimes in excess. I don't think I need vaseline or anything else when I got my own. My own feels better and doesn't smell anyways.
 
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