who do you fall for

Mmmm...

Actually all types of woman depending on several criteria.

Eyes. I love eyes.
Faces. There are women out there who's face can get me...they are HOT!
Intelligence. They have to be smart enough not to watch Entertainment Tonight for their news.
The rest is subject to change so why worry about it. Although nice hair is key, I wouldn't rule out buzzcuts or bald women if the above qualification were met.
 
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zeb1094 said:
Mmmm...

Actually all types of woman depending on several criteria.

Eyes. I love eyes.
Faces. There are women out there who's face can get me...they are HOT!
Intelligence. They have to be smart enough not to watch Entertainment Tonight for their news.
The rest is subject to change so why worry about it. Although nice hair is key, I wouldn't rule out buzzcuts or bald women if the above qualification were met.

eyes and faces yes. I like the innocent girly look.
 
lilredjammies said:
Emotionally, I want honesty, compassion and warmth. Don't ever lie to me or give me the silent treatment, as I now recognize that as abusive behavior.

not many describe what they want emotionally. I want selfconfidence. And a sense of humour.
 
minsue said:
I'm going to steal most of my answer from one of my favorite authors because this passage has always stuck with me. In response to the question, "What do you look for in a woman?" -

"A lot of what I look for in people, I guess. Curiosity. Dislike for the easy answer. That in a good moment they can imagine what it's like to be an old woman or a small child. That they are more than what they do, or what they are."

The only thing I would add to that is laughter. Not only that we laugh at the same things, but that hearing her laugh changes my mood instantly. That's when I know I'm lost, head over heels. I can be in the worst mood, pissed off, depressed, and then she laughs and it all melts away and I can't help but laugh along with her.

:heart:

I'll make a recording. You can play it on the mp3 whenever you want. ;)

I love you. :heart:
 
Are we discussing what makes us fall in lust or in love?

Lust... ohhh, don't even get me started... prettier than I am does it everytime.

Love... see my previous response.
 
Oh....lust! Many, many different things.

I love those ladies whose faces I posted. I may not know them personally but I do love them. :D
 
FallingToFly said:
Are we discussing what makes us fall in lust or in love?

Lust... ohhh, don't even get me started... prettier than I am does it everytime.

Love... see my previous response.


lets do lust too

go for it
 
I am also a sucker for eyes. I like them almond shaped with a devious twinkle.

Voices really do it for me. Sultry yet sweet yet also capable of that scratchy crackle when delivering dry wit.

Speaking of dry wit, that is a seious personality turn on for me. I like women that have inner strength and secure enough that they don't always have to prove it, they show their vulnerable side when they need to.

Most importantly, I fall for people that have a caring nature. Their heart goes out to anyone they feel in need, and they make me feel like I'm the special one when we are together even though I really know it's her.
 
AngeloMichael said:
Most importantly, I fall for people that have a caring nature. Their heart goes out to anyone they feel in need, and they make me feel like I'm the special one when we are together even though I really know it's her.

That's so sweet! :)
 
Lust and love are so closely realated to me...... but for pure physical lust.... dark hair, piercing eyes, playful lips, soft curves, that sway of her hips as she walks, nipples that point out not up, C cup, and that line of skin when she wears low rise jeans and a baby doll t-shirt.

Though there are some notable blondes that blow that list to hell and back and I have no idea why I lust after them so deeply and yet..... damn they make my pants feel funny.
 
Salvor-Hardon said:
Though there are some notable blondes that blow that list to hell and back and I have no idea why I lust after them so deeply and yet..... damn they make my pants feel funny.

oh YEAHHHH
 
lilredjammies said:
Don't ever lie to me or give me the silent treatment, as I now recognize that as abusive behavior.

I used to think it was manipulative ("please tell me what's wrong so I can fix it...") now it doesn't bother me a bit because I don't let it. Odd how people change...
 
lilredjammies said:
Don't ever lie to me or give me the silent treatment, as I now recognize that as abusive behavior.

Sometimes the silence is just hurt, and trying not to make it worse by saying something cruel in the heat of the moment. :( Sometimes it's just not knowing what to say.
 
Alessia Brio said:
Integrity. Altruism. Wit. Intellect. (In that order)

Those are very close to mine, although my order might vary, and I think for "altruism" mine would read "kindness."

I very much like your inclusion of integrity. You appear to have excellent taste.

Shanglan
 
I have two distinct types - hippie poet-types and brooding bad boys.

I'm trying to stay away from the bad boys from here on out. They're too intense, too demanding and too hard to get away from.

The poet-types can be too irresponsible. I need someone strong - but not too bossy. Heh. This could be why I have trouble with relationships.... :eek:
 
MistressJett said:
Look for a brooding poet type? :kiss:

*shudder*

Actually, my problem is that my "type" is actually, probably one particular person and I look (consciously or not) either for that person or his opposite in most of my lovers. And substitutes can never match the original....
 
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