who do you fall for

[Liar]

Three things have been in common for those I have fallen for.

1. Intellects. I'm awed by sharp brains, and people not afraid to use them.

2. Enough security in their own person and abilities to be able to poke fun at themselves to no end.

3. Physically, they have been quite different in looks and body types, but they all have haqd exceptional control of their limbs. Good balance and graceful, measured movements...there is nothing sexier. (Those times I've had online crushlets and flirts, and never seen the person in reality, I've always imagined that this part applied too.)

 

[carsonshepherd]

*hugs*

I know that feeling. There's one amazing woman who, if I could find her again, I'd drop almost anything to follow her anwhere. Alas, I haven't seen her since she unintentionally broke my heart 5 years ago, and I haven't heard from her in about 4 years.

You never know when they might turn up again....

 

[MissBri]

 

[carsonshepherd]

Very true. I'll let you know if mine pops up, though if I had my way no one would even know my whereabouts for several days (at least) after we found one another.

Psst. Eleven years later, mine did.

 

[MissBri]

 

[rgraham666]

Been over thirty for me. Still waiting.

 

[carsonshepherd]

Lucky bastard!

Well, not really. I still can't have him. But it's okay. Friends is enough.

Really.

 

[SEVERUSMAX]

There's no discernible pattern for me. They've been redheads, brunettes, MILFs, plump women, thin women, older women, women my own age, tomboys, girly-girls. Hard to find a noticeable pattern. Ages ranging from 16 (when I was 14) to 35 (now at the age of 29). One was British, one was from Ohio, one came from my native state of West Virginia, and my current love is a native Texan.

 

[MissBri]

 

[elsol]

Female...
Light colored eyes...

And... let's just say I can pick out the wildflowers.

Sincerely,
ElSol

 

[Worlds_a_Mess]

The wrong person, every time.

 

[Nirvanadragones]

I fall hard for complex individuals. Multilayer. Different. Non conventional. Non conformist. Creativity (in words, in art, in music, in life, in love) and individuality is very high on my list. The balance or unbalance of "think and feel" is of much significance in my relationships. Laughing, wacky off -beat sense of humour, yet wonderfully serious moments. An adventurous nature - a love to explore and discover the old and the new.

An intense sensitive individual who loves deeply and can share of herself completely. A passionate for life. Sensitivity. Gentility. Intensity.

I need an unmistakable connection .... soul connection. I need her to relate to me in the way i see life - not agree, yet share life experience, significance and moments of sadness and beauty. . Spiritual she needs to know who/ where / why she is, and be on a journey to discover more about herself. To be able to get lost and feel vulnerable at times. Show her human side.

I prefer older women. I don't think I have been with a woman less than 10 years older than me. Oh, and lesbian energy really does it for me. Let's face it... it's hardly the same with the straight, the bi and the curious.

A willingness to be lustful and sexy and sensual. Physically I first notice wrists... then eyes... then hands ... Dark haired beauties. Blue eyes.

 

[cherries_on_snow]

Oh, and lesbian energy really does it for me. Let's face it... it's hardly the same with the straight, the bi and the curious.

I sometimes think that people write me off the list of possibility merely because gender to me is a non-issue when it comes to my preference. I will not prefer lovers more or less because of their genitals or their gender training or whether they played with dolls or trucks. I will not prefer lovers more if they have only been with lovers of the same sex or the opposite sex.

My lovers have been male, female, brown, white, tall, short, thick, thin, 20somethings and 50somethings. All of that is inconsequential. The body is only the conductive material between souls.

When a woman kisses me, I don't think "wow this is what it is like to kiss a woman! She's a woman!" (I have had many women, anyway, as lovers, girlfriends, and a couple who were great loves.) I think about the taste and the particular texture and specific rhythms of that kiss: that kiss in that moment and all else is eschewn.

When I am with a lover, I commit no less fully and with no less energy because of external factors. What, then, is key?

Personal accountability and grace. Sweetness and awareness of others in a deep way rather than a cursory way. Kindness. Sensuality and depth of focus. oh. And s/he digs me too!

I am not merely curious or possessing curtailed energy (of course, each person's taste is his/her own, but sad to write someone off due to a blanket assumption). The matter is simply that whether someone has an innie or an outie is of no consequence to my heart or libido.

 

[Alessia Brio]

I will not prefer lovers more or less because of their genitals or their gender training or whether they played with dolls or trucks. I will not prefer lovers more if they have only been with lovers of the same sex or the opposite sex.

My lovers have been male, female, brown, white, tall, short, thick, thin, 20somethings and 50somethings. All of that is inconsequential. The body is only the conductive material between souls.

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When I am with a lover, I commit no less fully and with no less energy because of external factors.

*nods*

 

[stirbird]

Very bright. Mischevious, effervescent, playful. Brave. Compatible with my niche sexuality.

 

[Alessia Brio]

Those are very close to mine, although my order might vary, and I think for "altruism" mine would read "kindness."

I very much like your inclusion of integrity. You appear to have excellent taste.

Shanglan

*preens* Horsey compliments.

 

[Nirvanadragones]

I am not merely curious or possessing curtailed energy (of course, each person's taste is his/her own, but sad to write someone off due to a blanket assumption). The matter is simply that whether someone has an innie or an outie is of no consequence to my heart or libido.

I hear you

It is not that I conciously "write others off the list" because of their sexual orientation or sexual preference. Insight into my past patterns and behaviour has simply proven to me that I am highly attracted to lesbian energy.

Also, without going into the entire debate of labeling and definitions as such, i dont think of a lesbian as someone who only sleeps with women exclusively in the present, always has, and always will. (Kinsey is a wise person!) To be honest, gay femaleness, is not something that I try to define or limit to a definition. Maybe others can. For me, it's simply a turn on.

Gender to me is not a non-issue when it comes to my preference. It's all about the women

 

[rgraham666]

Gender to me is not a non-issue when it comes to my preference. It's all about the women

Same here.

 

[kendo1]

Personally, I like youngish ( 18 -50) long legs, big boobies( or small ones, or anything in between), nice ass, good looks, and a willingness to perform.
That seems to cover everything.

Oh. And maybe some brains, but not too much.

Where did I go wrong when I married?



I hate bitten nails.

Ken

 

[SophiaY]

X Chromosome and personality. Call it a genetic imperative, or whatever you will. I can love a man in the sense of Philia – the kind of sisterly love, and perhaps in Storge – maternal love. But Eros, no, only women.

Perhaps for some, it is whatever fits best, but for some, it has to match our bodies in order to match our hearts.

 

[fifty5]

Someone female who behaves as if I'm sexy.

Other things help, like being grown up enough (doesn't correlate well with age) to deal with what comes; a smallish waist; senses both of humour and seriousness.

And it turns me on if she lets me play Sir Galahad or St George.

Stupidity, biggotry, or hypocrisy do the opposite for me, no matter how good the looks.

But apart from those, if she wants me, other things are unimportant.

 

[English Lady]

What do I fall for? A kind heart, now often it's hidden under layers of arrogance, bravado and other such stuff (and yes, I find both attractive in their way) but underneath there is always a heat that is kind and wants to love.

Charm. A man must be charming to get my interest, flirt with me or at least play me a bit. (even if it's all in my twisted mind*L*)

Eyes: beautiful expressive eyes, always meeting mine (if in reality) and any colour, shape or size, they just have to be striking.

 

[Tom Collins]

I fall for the person who trips me.

 

[Guest]

I fall for the person who trips me.

Yaaay Baby!!