Who Can You Just Be Yourself With?
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scylis
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the chances of finding another like her are about 5 billion to 1 or so. i'm not being pessimistic, here. it was about the same odds for the two of us to meet in the first place.
you see, i don't seek out relationships. i'm too shy, have too little self-esteem, and have such bad (vocal) communication skills that it makes for long odds just to meet anyone, much less another one like her.
you see, i don't seek out relationships. i'm too shy, have too little self-esteem, and have such bad (vocal) communication skills that it makes for long odds just to meet anyone, much less another one like her.
Yes, I didn't think it would ever be possible with me, but I found him two years ago and fell in love with him 10 months ago.
I'm glad I've finally been able to let go and be me, the silly side, the serious side, the fun side, the sad side, the happy side, the sexual side ... anything, he just accepts me more and more each day.
I'm glad I've finally been able to let go and be me, the silly side, the serious side, the fun side, the sad side, the happy side, the sexual side ... anything, he just accepts me more and more each day.
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Nicole said:
Trail48 said:
Wow....this sounds so nice. I'm entering the first stage of this type of relationship with high hopes, it would be the first
It is nice, and it's actually great to be able to show every side of yourself ... don't hold anything back, share and let her share with you and you'll have what we have too
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juicylips said:Is there a person you're close to that allows you the freedom to say or do what you'd like without judgement or condemnation?
Someone who understands you like no one else?
Who accepts you just as you are?
JL
yes me
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juicylips said:Is there a person you're close to that allows you the freedom to say or do what you'd like without judgement or condemnation?
Someone who understands you like no one else?
Who accepts you just as you are?
JL
Yes...my best friend. I've never had a friend like this before, one who completely understands and accepts me. I can tell this friend absolutely anything...I was never able to open up to anyone this way.
However, he doesn't hesitate to tell me when he thinks I'm wrong, and he'll tell me the things I need to hear, instead of what I want to hear (but always in the kindest way). I think that is a much better friend than someone who blindly supports you when you're doing the wrong thing. I think a true friend pushes you to be a better person.
Re: Re: Who Can You Just Be Yourself With?
Yes, I quite agree that a true friend gives you the bad along with the good. And in spite of knowing you're making a mistake, they still hold your hand and let you cry about it later.
JL
MaggieH said:
Yes, I quite agree that a true friend gives you the bad along with the good. And in spite of knowing you're making a mistake, they still hold your hand and let you cry about it later.
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No, I don't think that there is one person that I can be 100% just me around. No one can handle that kind of insanity!
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I have a few people that I am very close with.
But there is one in particular that I have the type of relationship with that I can just completely be me. And he loves me warts and all. He brings out the best in me and looks over the worse. I can say anything and will admit everything, because I know he will not judge nor condemn me for my faults.
He gives me the proverbial kick in the ass when I need it and is there to hold me emotionally from the fall-out. He soothes my fears and calms my heart and mind, at times he knows me better than I know myself ...... nudging me in the right direction so that I may discover the path on my own.
Your friend is the man who knows all about you, and still likes you ~ Elbert Hubbard
But there is one in particular that I have the type of relationship with that I can just completely be me. And he loves me warts and all. He brings out the best in me and looks over the worse. I can say anything and will admit everything, because I know he will not judge nor condemn me for my faults.
He gives me the proverbial kick in the ass when I need it and is there to hold me emotionally from the fall-out. He soothes my fears and calms my heart and mind, at times he knows me better than I know myself ...... nudging me in the right direction so that I may discover the path on my own.
Your friend is the man who knows all about you, and still likes you ~ Elbert Hubbard
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juicylips said:Is there a person you're close to that allows you the freedom to say or do what you'd like without judgement or condemnation?
Someone who understands you like no one else?
Who accepts you just as you are?
JL
besides IA, nobody family always judges every one of my actions, dont really have friends just aquatainces(spelling?, hell its to early to care if i got it right)
