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For sure is a fantasy of mine, would like to try it and see how it feels to suck off a big black cock….definitely has my curiosity
 
Aronkim said:
I'm a black guy. I find guys who are in love with black dick kind of annoying.
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I wish I'd read this 13 years ago, when it was first posted. @Aronkim is gone now, and it's hardly surprising. I will openly confess that back then I had a fetish for black men. There are multiple reasons why this was so, and some of them were quite innocent. For instance, one of my first MM sexual encounters was with a black man, and it stands to this day as one of the most enjoyable sexual encounters I've ever had. So it has been deeply imprinted in me. But there was no domination involved, and certainly no humiliation.

The other reasons have to do with ignorance. I've spent most of those 13 years struggling with my own socially internalized racism— racism I would never have admitted back then. I've spent a lot of time both discussing this and related issues with black men, and listening and reading what they have to say about it. And by now, I am convinced beyond any shadow of doubt that race play is inherently racist.

Does that mean anyone who engages in race play is racist? Let me put it this way. Every white person raised in this culture has embedded and systemic racism pounded into them from the time they were old enough to go to school, if not before. It can be very subtle. It can be totally unconscious and hidden, and that person may behave impeccably towards people of color. But there are those racist demons, racing around deep in their subconscious. And they affect us, painfully.

So do I call every race player racist? I try not to call people anything. But I do say this: if they want root out their own socially embedded racism, and they're still engaging in race play, they've got some work to do.
 
liqueur said:
I wish I'd read this 13 years ago, when it was first posted. @Aronkim is gone now, and it's hardly surprising. I will openly confess that back then I had a fetish for black men. There are multiple reasons why this was so, and some of them were quite innocent. For instance, one of my first MM sexual encounters was with a black man, and it stands to this day as one of the most enjoyable sexual encounters I've ever had. So it has been deeply imprinted in me. But there was no domination involved, and certainly no humiliation.

The other reasons have to do with ignorance. I've spent most of those 13 years struggling with my own socially internalized racism— racism I would never have admitted back then. I've spent a lot of time both discussing this and related issues with black men, and listening and reading what they have to say about it. And by now, I am convinced beyond any shadow of doubt that race play is inherently racist.

Does that mean anyone who engages in race play is racist? Let me put it this way. Every white person raised in this culture has embedded and systemic racism pounded into them from the time they were old enough to go to school, if not before. It can be very subtle. It can be totally unconscious and hidden, and that person may behave impeccably towards people of color. But there are those racist demons, racing around deep in their subconscious. And they affect us, painfully.

So do I call every race player racist? I try not to call people anything. But I do say this: if they want root out their own socially embedded racism, and they're still engaging in race play, they've got some work to do.
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Is there a difference between "race play" and "having a type?"

I guess what I'm asking is - what is "race play" to you? Is playing interracially always "race play?" Or is there necessarily some kind of roleplaying, fetishizing or objectification involved with "race play?"

Can two people just have a good time without one or both of them being racist?
 
Britva415 said:
Is there a difference between "race play" and "having a type?"

I guess what I'm asking is - what is "race play" to you? Is playing interracially always "race play?"
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Fair questions. Of necessity, my responses will only be what I believe. But they are informed by a great deal of reading and listening to what black people have to say about this matter. I apologize in advance for the length of this comment.

Yes, I definitely see a difference between race play and having a “type”. Before responding to the other questions, I turn this one around and ask you, what does “having a type” mean to you? Typically in the past, I've heard that phrase used to imply what people someone is or is not attracted to. Tall people vs. short people, blonds vs. brunettes, etc. The implication being that this had nothing to do with fetish; that you simply couldn't see yourself in a relationship with the wrong type. I never understood it very well, because the criteria seems so superficial; but the fact remained that the conversation was about relationship, not simply about having sex with, or having a certain type of sex with. Relationship implied that we were talking about the whole person, not just that superficial detail.

So in this case, if I as a white person said my “type” was only black people, then I would be asking myself, “Is this so?” Is it true that I couldn't imagine myself in a relationship with another white person? Or an Asian person? Or Hispanic? If I could answer an honest “Yes” to that question, then I would say that on the surface at least, this “typing” does not appear to be racist. But I'd still be digging a lot deeper, and asking myself some hard questions to try to understand where this strong feeling came from.

On the other hand, if the typing wasn't about relationship, but only about sex, or a certain type of sex— if I couldn't imagine myself in a long term loving relationship with this person, for bringing them home to meet my parents or my children, then I would be holding this “preference” out at arm’s length and looking at it with a great deal of suspicion.

Or is there necessarily some kind of roleplaying, fetishizing or objectification involved with "race play?"
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Yes. The two most prominent fetishes about black people revolve around cuckolding and the BBC myth— both based on white men's insecurities and/or guilt, but profoundly reinforced and exaggerated (for profit) by porn. As @Aronkim addressed briefly in the comment I originally referenced, these are directly rooted in racial slavery. White men had to believe that black men were mere animals in order to justify their participation in the (very profitable) institution of slavery. Black men on the auction block, if they were big and strong, were referred to as “good breeders”, or “bulls.” (Whether or not they actually had big cocks, or whether those cocks were on display, is anybody's guess— certainly the history of that period is not going to reveal a detail like that.) But the implication was there, and with it, white men's insecurities were elevated, and no doubt white women’s curiosity as well.

I'm getting too wordy. The short answer is that these fetishes and roleplays, or others like them (white master/black slave is another big one) are what make the difference between raceplay and playing with someone who happens to be of another race. If they weren't so deeply rooted in a history of oppression, they would be no more toxic than any other fetish.
 
Honestly, it has NOTHING to do with color for me. It's simply about size.

They could be from Omicron Persei 8, if their cock hits my size standards it's going in me.
 
I’ve seen posts for sex online where the author is white, and only wants to be with other whites or black only with black. Racist? Maybe. Trying to find comfort in familiarity? Perhaps.

It is true though, everyone has there prefered idea of what their ideal sex partner would look like.

I’ve also seen post for BBC only, or skinny white twink only. Fetishist? Likely.

To dehumanize someone, reducing them to only the shade and size of their cock, or body in order to fullfil an erotic desire is to fetishize.

I have been with all types of men from various places in the world, and of various colors. All that matters to me is that they are a total top, dominat is even better. The more maculine the better. In some cultures, men are more masculine and more dominat. Culture should not be confused with race.

So for me, I want a masculine, assertive, sexually dominant man, who knows what he wants and takes it. A man who can do so without any reservation, hang ups, guilt, or permission seeking. If I get naked in the presence of a man, that should be a big clue that I am willing. In my experience, American black men fullfil what I’m looking for more often than others. Closely followed by European white men. Some older American white men do as well. It seems that tounger US white men have a different cultural upbringing and are very sexually awkward, which I find frustrating. As do many young women I’m sure.
 
I've sucked my first two black cocks just recently.

The first was fine, not as big as mine, but the second guy had a great dick, very stiff. He was high, barely said anything. We drove to a boat ramp at night. He told me to take off my shorts. I did, then got on my knees in the passenger seat and leaned over to start sucking his gorgeous black cock. I loved it so fucking much. As always, I was stroking while I sucked his cock.

Eventually, he asked me to jack off while he watched. I did, and he started matching my rhythm. When I started cumming, he suddenly leaned over to slurp up my jizz.

Pretty hot!

I love seeing photos of married white men sucking big, beautiful black cocks!
 
FlirtyWordy said:
I've sucked my first two black cocks just recently.

The first was fine, not as big as mine, but the second guy had a great dick, very stiff. He was high, barely said anything. We drove to a boat ramp at night. He told me to take off my shorts. I did, then got on my knees in the passenger seat and leaned over to start sucking his gorgeous black cock. I loved it so fucking much. As always, I was stroking while I sucked his cock.

Eventually, he asked me to jack off while he watched. I did, and he started matching my rhythm. When I started cumming, he suddenly leaned over to slurp up my jizz.

Pretty hot!

I love seeing photos of married white men sucking big, beautiful black cocks!
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It's that soulful look in their eyes.
 
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