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I've been reading many of the messages boards regarding the topic of dating Indian American men. I'm a 34 yo professional divorced white woman dating a 27 yo professional Indian American. We met over the Internet. We have alot in common and have fun togther. He;s dated 3 women (all Indian Americans) with the longest relationship lasting 3 months. He said he did not expect to 'hit it off' with me as well as he did. We have discussed in some detail the Indian community and expectatino for marriage. I believe he has not met the compatiblt Indian women and has sought to look outside his race. I;m really beginning to fall for him and after reading the message boards am concerned and feel vulnerable. He has not introduced me to his parents, nor do I believe he has mentioned me. I realize it's only been 3 months, but we see each other 3-4 times a week. I feel as though he will not introduce me to his family. I have a hard time understandning why someone would get into a relationship knwoing it is not accepted by the family. It seems rather cruel and selfish especially when the other person is emotionally attached. I beleive he does care for me, but I;m still confused. Advice, comments?
