where is this going?

[SIC]

Hi all, I like posting here because you guys have great info. Well some of you no me from other post about me and my ex. So for the last couple of day we have been talking on the phone and she was tell me that she wishs she could go back to the way that it use to be. Where she felt safe and not jugde. She told me she is still in love with me and she thinks what she is doing is really a big mistake. I really didnt know what to say and was like i dont know if it could go back to the way it used to be. I told her that i still love her and that i miss her and i would protect her no matter what know one would hurt her. The other guy she is seeing is really a big loser and she is noticing it i beleive. I said some shit about him when i was drunk and he tryed to pull soild on me but when i didnt back down he realize that he wasnt going to get anywhere. So he was telling her she couldnt talk to me and i got pissed at that and told him if he has a problem its with me and if she wants to talk she can cause he doesnt own her. Now i have date some other girl and to tell you the truth i hated it they just werent the same and i didnt feel any connect at all. Like they didnt understand me or anything. So i really love my ex. So this morning she called me and woke me up and said she need to get out and i said ok so she asked if i would be ok to goto the park with me and the dog. I said sure so we went to the park and we had a great time with our dog. The dog went swimming and all kinds of stuff and we just talk about all kinda of things us and other topics. After the park we went to my grandparents house and got a drink and watch tv. When we were on the couch she said she was cold so i covered her up and sat down beside her and she layed down and put her legs across me. Then she started to rub my legs with her feet and i was rubbing her legs. Then she started kinda getting sexaul by touch my penis with her feet and tell me how big i am and all. then she start touch it with her hands i didnt know what to do. I touch her over her pants abit then stop and she kept talking about my big penis. Then i said maybe we should go. When is my head i wanted to have sex with her so bad. But i thought i made the right chose by not. So what is going on now?? Where are we going? Like she called me twice tonight to talk about nothing just talk?? What should i do ?

ps Sry for it being so long

 

[SIC]

no ones got anything to say ?

 

[dollface007]

no ones got anything to say ?

People will probably be more inclined to read your post if you break it up into a few paragraphs with ample spacing. It made my eyes hurt trying to read it and i gave up. Just use the edit button.

 

[Noor]

It is going to get you hurt, that is where it is going.

You know this wasn't a good idea or you would have just fucked her and you wouldn't be asking us.

I would break it off with this girl. If you guys want to be friends, try it but she does not get to touch you. She knows your buttons and she is playing you.

If you both decide to get back together it should a decision entered into after a long discussion, without any sex of any kind involved, where you can both resolve your concerns and mutally decide to move forward. There is no going back, the relationship you might have in the future will be different.

In future I would stop being a sugar daddy, it demeans both you and is not a healthy foundation for a relationship.

just my crabby opinion,

Noor

 

[sheath]

This is the same girl that has been playing you for weeks, right?

Okay. You already know my position, from your previous threads, but let me make it abundantly clear:

DUMP HER!

Get yourself a real woman who doesn't fuck with your head!



Let this one GO, man. For your own sanity.

S.

 

[Bobmi357]

What you should do is break off all contact with this girl.

When she calls tell her "I'm sorry, but I can't talk now, I have to go out. BYE" and hang up the phone...

Delete her emails unread. Or better yet, change email addresses. Let the old ones bounce back. Keep your Yahoo Messenger, ICQ or MSN Messenger on invisible mode.

If she comes over to your house, tell her you have nothing to say to her. DO NOT LET HER IN.

She's leading you around by your dick and you're happily allowing it. She left you because she say greener grass elsewhere and even if she's now discovering the grass isn't greener, who is to say she won't pull this stunt on you again?

Sever all contact, go out with your friends, met a nice girl that will be interested in you and play you for a fool like this one is.

And dollface is 100% right. USE PARAGRAPHS.

 

[blondie74]

I don't think she knows what she wants, which is really bad where your feelings and emotions are concerned. It would seem that she is just "testing" the waters, and you're going to end up getting hurt.

So, I would have to agree with what the others have said,
DUMP HER! The best way to get over her, is to eliminate the contact with her.

 

[Bobmi357]

DOH!!!

I just realized I didn't answer your question.

Where is this going?

NO WHERE!!

 

[SIC]

ok i am sry for it all being together like that and i should have brokin it up but i did it a like 1:30 and was tired. I try hard to foget her but i love so its weird. I guess its time to forget and move on thx.

 

[RadicalFlower]

Good luck to you sic..and i hope you are able to get on with your life without her...

 

[Cathleen]

This has no chance of going anywhere good thats for sure.... she is playing with you and you're letting her. It will take some time and strength but LET IT GO!

 

[SIC]

i really want too. I am just having a hard time because even when i am busy i have her in the back of my mind. I am going have a hard time telling her to not call. I dont want to get like this with another girl cause i hurts to much and i am to young i guess.

 

[Cathleen]

i really want too. I am just having a hard time because even when i am busy i have her in the back of my mind. I am going have a hard time telling her to not call. I dont want to get like this with another girl cause i hurts to much and i am to young i guess.

Youth is on your side here, this won't be the last time you hurt, but it won't be the last time you love either. Find some distractions, have you ever wanted to study something? Take a course, get a new hobby etc. There is time.... as the saying goes, you're young enough to waste a day or two....

And of course you're having a difficult time, that is expected. And the urge to pick up that phone is great I know, just don't do it......you'll be working against yourself in that regard. Its time to move forward, to give something to yourself, to expand yourself....that will help you to learn about who you are and what you want and need.

There is time, don't waste it, but don't push either...its a fine line I know, but it can be done. Let life happen on its terms, but remember to add something to it as well! You can do it!

 

[SIC]

Youth is on your side here, this won't be the last time you hurt, but it won't be the last time you love either. Find some distractions, have you ever wanted to study something? Take a course, get a new hobby etc. There is time.... as the saying goes, you're young enough to waste a day or two....

And of course you're having a difficult time, that is expected. And the urge to pick up that phone is great I know, just don't do it......you'll be working against yourself in that regard. Its time to move forward, to give something to yourself, to expand yourself....that will help you to learn about who you are and what you want and need.

There is time, don't waste it, but don't push either...its a fine line I know, but it can be done. Let life happen on its terms, but remember to add something to it as well! You can do it!

Thx alot for everything you just said it means alot!! I will try to figure out what i want and need. Also i am not the type of person thats need to be with someone all the time i can be on my own. Just the hard part is finding another girl that i am interested in. Also where to find her! I guess it will just all fall into place! Also do i stop talking to her all together and when i see her in public just a hello? If she did want me back after do i just say i think we are better off ?

 

[lovechild27]

Cut off ALL contact...every bit. You need to move on with life. Keeping her around, saying hello to her on the street...it will keep digging at you and you dont need that.