Where Do You Play?

[James Blandings]

Where do you engage in most of your overt BDSM activities?
I belong to a private club, and have attended a great many public parties.
At home, I have a playroom upstairs, but have been known to do scenes anywhere in the house. I have a spiral staircase, and that comes in handy!

 

[Rubyfruit]

I used to love playing publicly. House parties were my favorite, because there were no restrictions on sex.

I liked a good helping of actual sex with my BDSM.

 

[James Blandings]

I used to love playing publicly. House parties were my favorite, because there were no restrictions on sex.

I liked a good helping of actual sex with my BDSM.

I understand the reasons most clubs no longer allow open sexual activity, but like you, I miss the old anything goes days.

 

[RisiaSkye]

Anywhere but in public. I'm just not into it; I'm too self-conscious to forge the connection I need to make with a person or two in the moment.

 

[CarolineOh]

I have been to a club a few times, and Sam went for his first time last month. We enjoyed it, and I confess I do get a thrill out of playing in front of an audience.
At home, we have had some fun around the apartment, but my on the balcony fantasy will likely go unfulfilled.

 

[navarre]

Everywhere and anywhere that's not public.

 

[WillowPuss]

We play all over the house. (Or hotel room when we are away)

 

[cymbidia]

I chose to read this question as "Where have you played?", with its emphasis on an all-inclusive total of places in which i've played as opposed to the present tense "Where are the places that you play in your present life?".

Yes, thank you, i do like unnecessary complication. I will indeed have a second helping; you're so kind to offer.

Ahem. I've played all over the landscape.

 

[Cirrus]

Well, since this is my first D/s relationship, I can only go by this one. Since he's married and can't have any toys at his house, we've only played lightly there in his wife's abscence. We haven't played at my place...same thing, I have a conservative room mate. We've played at a friend's house I was housesitting for, but most of our play goes on at his cabin. We can have pretty much any toys we want there, and sounds don't matter since he doesn't have neighbors for a mile on any side.

 

[joi]

play

Very interesting thread!.....As we both have very public jobs (often requiring court appearances and working with law enforcement), our "play" is rather secluded. That said, i am well aware at all times that He is watching me (often with a small smile on His face!) as i work. He mentors me professionally and personally;both give me the freedom to learn/experience life. i have to admit tho, being physically "teased" in public has challenged me more than i ever thought possible!...


oh yeah, don't open the glovecomparment of either vehicle unless you want toys falling out!

 

[MLadyPain]

as long as the vibe between partners is right, I'll play/scene just about anywhere

of course, an appreciative audience is alway nice too

MLP

 

[mjnelson]

Usually within my house. Once out in the woods and a couple of times at a fetish club.

 

[SierraMoon]

Most of the time, we play here, at my house, when my roommate is away for the weekend.... but, it seems to put me in a bad headspace on Sunday, not knowing when she will be home.... Last night was my first night playing at his apartment.... BOY what a difference, in my feelings!! We played all night (with me strapped to his coffee table) and then all morning.... no worries about anyone walking through the door, made it great for both of us....

 

[Ebonyfire]

Let's see,

Play parties, clubs, hotels, all over the house, all over someone else's house.

sissyboy is getting into being humiliated in public. My new toy and I are scouting out new venues since he is a more east coast public player than I am.

Ebony

 

[Daddyslilpet]

We only play at home....(or like Willow, in a motel room). We can't play publically and must be discreet with the kids around, but otherwise all over the house was my answer.

dixi

 

[cellis]

We mainly play at home.

Although there are those times when we do a little public play... there was this little picnic we planned and we took the convertible... him playing with me all the way there in the car with the top down...

We have not really been to any private parties yet... but have been invited by a couple to their next party... which I have been told is really something!

 

[forced]

I've only played once...and that was in a hotel room.

I'm looking forward to an "all over the house" kind of night this coming weekend.

 

[MzChrista]

I stay with my Mom to take care of her so I cant play here. I have a couple people I go to their place, or otherwise to a hotel.
Let me take this moment to say that stupid hotels need to go back to having headboards on their damn beds.
I been to parties a lot and I dig that. I also am a pain in the ass and go use JBs place sometimes.

 

[WriterDom]

Let me take this moment to say that stupid hotels need to go back to having headboards on their damn beds.

No shit. It's like hotels formed some study group to find ways to make rooms bdsm unfriendly.

 

[James Blandings]

I chose to read this question as "Where have you played?", with its emphasis on an all-inclusive total of places in which i've played as opposed to the present tense "Where are the places that you play in your present life?".

Yes, thank you, i do like unnecessary complication. I will indeed have a second helping; you're so kind to offer.

Ahem. I've played all over the landscape.

I could have made a poll for YOU to tell all the places you have played but they only let me have 10 options.

 

[Ebonyfire]

I stay with my Mom to take care of her so I cant play here. I have a couple people I go to their place, or otherwise to a hotel.
Let me take this moment to say that stupid hotels need to go back to having headboards on their damn beds.
I been to parties a lot and I dig that. I also am a pain in the ass and go use JBs place sometimes.

I was in one this weekend, and they had one that was glued or screwed to the wall! Damn!

Eb

 

[WillowPuss]

Robuck and I overcame that problem by running a length of rope around the bed, on the floor. Almost all beds - even divan types, have some sort of feet. Pull the rope as tight as you can and fasten it off - attach your bonds to the rope!

It worked for us ... I couldn't move more an an inch.

 

[CarolineOh]

Robuck and I overcame that problem by running a length of rope around the bed, on the floor. Almost all beds - even divan types, have some sort of feet. Pull the rope as tight as you can and fasten it off - attach your bonds to the rope!

It worked for us ... I couldn't move more an an inch.

He's a smart one, that Robuck!

 

[Ebonyfire]

He's a smart one, that Robuck!

Yep, an excellent idea!

Ebony

 

[MzChrista]

What I do is run ropes under neath the mattress. Well, *I* dont do but you know what I mean. right when the shoulders and anklesgonna go and tie them with their arms spread out sideways instead of over there head.

One time I thought the headboard was screwed into the wall but it was just stuck up there and it was not a good thing. I like to beat ass but I draw a line at bashing anybodys brain in.