Where are the femmes at?

[ItalianGoddess]

Where are the fem/lesbians at? I have'nt seen very many lesbian posts on here

 

[MaiHy]

Lezbie here! (Historically lezbie, that is. What's the word... It's like "bi-curious", but backwards...).

 

[lilwetone]

bi backward....i like that..

Wink! WInk!

 

[badbadgirl23]

I'm a lezzie dom...and sometimes a lezzie sub.

 

[Filly Gal]

Been back and forth to be honest and have come to find out that FMF is the best of both worlds!!

 

[Night_Jasmine]

Lesbian here myself...

 

[UptheRiverFemme]

Hope its ok to add another!

 

[lilwetone]

Awe..the more the merrier

 

[scheherazade_79]

I'm such a lesbian it's not even funny

Hey, girls

Just slipped over from the AH

 

[Etoile]

So wait, you haven't seen many lesbian posts, or you haven't seen many femme posts?

 

[UptheRiverFemme]

Good Call

So wait, you haven't seen many lesbian posts, or you haven't seen many femme posts?

Good Call Etoile - time for a repost- femme here!

 

[SweetCherry]

I'm a lezzie dom...and sometimes a lezzie sub.

Hmmm...wouldn't that make you a switch?

 

[Tymeless]

well i'm a lesbian but i don't know where i fit yet i'll let you know when i have the right body.

 

[Etoile]

I'm a femme dyke. That's me in the photo. I do hate that people don't realize I'm gay though - I constantly get mistaken for straight. When I'm in queer space, I love being appreciated for a femme, but when I'm in straight space I hate that I get overlooked as a member of queer culture.

 

[Tara S]

I don't really fit in a particular label but I'm lurking here.

I think I'd call myself bi and most probably femme and I'm definitely in a lesbian relationship since January.

 

[lilwetone]

Congrats Sweety...I hope its cumming along great

 

[KokopelliRises]

I'm a femme dyke. That's me in the photo. I do hate that people don't realize I'm gay though - I constantly get mistaken for straight. When I'm in queer space, I love being appreciated for a femme, but when I'm in straight space I hate that I get overlooked as a member of queer culture.

I don't think you can really avoid it though unless you post a big sign on yourself that says "I'm a femme dyke". Heterosexuality, sadly, is considered the norm and unless you actually say anything, about nine times out of ten people will assume you're straight. I understand where you're coming from with this, even though I cannot completely empathize (sp?).

 

[SephStarr]

I'm 50/50 bisexual, very femme. I suspect that there are thousands of bisexuals around here.

 

[Night_Jasmine]

At the risk of sounding idiotic but "Femme?"

 

[Etoile]

At the risk of sounding idiotic but "Femme?"

It's short for feminine, and it's the opposite of butch.

 

[Night_Jasmine]

Ahhh...*blush* I see. Thanks, Etoile.

I'm definitely not butch, but I don't know that I hit "femme" either. I hate makeup, don't dress up unless I have to. Part of it could be that I don't have anyone to dress up for and find it pointless to do it "just for me."

*shrugs*

 

[Wolfman1982]

I'm a femme dyke. That's me in the photo. I do hate that people don't realize I'm gay though - I constantly get mistaken for straight. When I'm in queer space, I love being appreciated for a femme, but when I'm in straight space I hate that I get overlooked as a member of queer culture.

Etoile you are human that is all that matters
And when people mistakes you, then it is because you are so damn lovely looking

 

[PredatorSmile]

can bisexual girls join ?

 

[neonflux]

Bi-queer (despite quite unexpectedly falling in love with a man, very queer - it's still where I live & play) and extremely femme (except when I occasionally dress in drag ). Etoile, I so, so, so identify with your post! Neon

edited to add: I mean, Etoile, that I identify with your frustration with not always being seen as queer - bring out the rainbow jewelry, lol!

 

[Tara S]

Though I find labels in general too confining, I've met some very interesting Dykes in the last couple of months that really live up to the stereotype. I find the assertiveness refreshing and though I generally am not attracted to the butchier of them, a firm hand on my thigh or the small of my back and a naughty suggestion whispered in my ear has caused me to break out in all sorts of pleasant goosebumps.