When you do the dumping.....

[Sammyjo]

...why do you feel like shit afterwards?

I just heard from the guy that has been MIA for 2 weeks. I told him that I didn't want anything to do with him. Now, I get the guilt trip. "You are special to me" "I miss you" "I can't forget you"

Well, you've been ignoring me for two weeks, I figured you already had. UGH!!!

*chant with me, please* "I will be strong, I won't give in. I will be strong, I won't give in."

Every time I've said the same thing to him, I've ended up caving. Giving in to the sob story, the crying, the fact that I jumped the gun. The fact of the matter is...I really hope he is feeling what I've been feeling for the last few weeks.

What I really need right now is someone in my life who actually cares about me. Someone who wants to be with me, and my girl. Someone who can deal with me, and still want to sleep with me at the end of the day.

Does anyone like that exist? I'm beginning to think NOT!!!

I know I have the Toronto guy, but that's just a fling...well...oh forget it. It's just a fling. And it's not like I can just go there whenever I feel like it.

Thanks for allowing me the opportunity to vent. Respond if you will...or don't. My e-mail is posted in my profile.

SJ

 

[Fox]

Hey, SJ, I hear what you're saying. I sort of had one of those a few years back, and it lingered for a while,and every time it got harder and harder on me.

Be strong. Chant with _me_ "I need him like a fish needs a bicycle. I need him like a frontal labotomy."

*rubs SJ's shoulders in a friendly, gentle way* Good people exist, I just found mine last year, and we're slated to get married next year. I wasn't looking, she wasn't looking, we just _found_ each other.

My email's in my profile if there's any other venting you want to do. I've got a good ear!

Take care,

Fox

 

[Gingersnap]

Sammy Jo Sister sister come on over and we will hit the hagen das together. Try to remember if you are looking at the ground that special one could be passing by at that moment. For myself I have always thought that holding on is a bit self destructive. You deserve a guy who treats you with respect. Try kick boxing it works for me and if not what favor do you like?

 

[Thumper]

Because you are human SJ....BTW go for the kickboxing, much healthier than the HaagenDas.....Plenty of fish in the sea....even though I don't think any of have bicycles...Take care