When Having Rough Sex....

juicylips

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How do you know where to stop at?

Do you have an internal line that doesn't get crossed?

I'm not necessarily talking a sub/dom relationship. Just very physical fucking.

Pain and pleasure blur.

JL:kiss:
 
Minute i say No its over..and if he dont get it then...well...i do have a second dan in aikido
 
juicylips said:
How do you know where to stop at?

Do you have an internal line that doesn't get crossed?

I'm not necessarily talking a sub/dom relationship. Just very physical fucking.

Pain and pleasure blur.

JL:kiss:

When she says...ouw...owwie...ow...get the FUCK out of me!
 
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Rambrat said:


When she says...ouw...owwie...ow...get the FUCK out of me!


I was confused.

Let's try it one more time.:p

JL:kiss:
 
juicylips said:
How do you know where to stop at?

Do you have an internal line that doesn't get crossed?

I'm not necessarily talking a sub/dom relationship. Just very physical fucking.

Pain and pleasure blur.

JL:kiss:


I dunno.............. My ex and I tried anal once............... she said stop and I did. Shouldn't everyone concerned be able to say the "STOP" word and everything is okay again?

Maybe I'm just the romantic fool......... still, to me, stop means stop. No means NO!(even amongst married couples)!


My current SO and I tried anal quite a few times while dating and we both seemed to enjoy it thoroughly......... now, 10 years later, I ask from time to time, she says no, and thats it. No, to me, means NO! 'nuff said!
 
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floridaguy64 said:



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Maybe I'm just the romantic fool......... still, to me, stop means stop. No means NO!(even amongst married couples)!


If stop and no means STOP AND NO...then you're not a romantic fool. Just a considerate lover.

JL:kiss:
 
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Rambrat said:


I'll go slower okay...:D


As long as you're in me and your breath is against my ear....I'm happy.

Content.

Fucking satisfied.:heart:
JL:kiss:
 
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juicylips said:


If stop and no means STOP AND NO...then you're not a romantic fool. Just a considerate lover.

JL:kiss:

Well..... Burst my bubble why don'tcha!:p

The fact of the matter is, I don't like it rough. I do love it soft, sensual, wet-n-wildly exotic and erotic beyond all normal expectation. Anything wrong with that?

Not to mention that my lady better get used to being orally loved for hours on end..... from her toes to her nose and every inch in between.:rose:
 
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floridaguy64 said:


Well..... Burst my bubble why don'tcha!:p

The fact of the matter is, I don't like it rough. I do love it soft, sensual, wet-n-wildly exotic and erotic beyond all normal expectation. Anything wrong with that?

Not to mention that my lady better get used to being orally loved for hours on end..... from her toes to her nose and every inch in between.:rose:

There isn't anything wrong with having soft and sensual sex. It can be wonderful. Intoxicating with the right person. I just wanted a take on how some of those who like to live on the "rough" side do it without really hurting each other.

"Orally loved"..has a nice ring to it.;)
JL:kiss:
 
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juicylips said:


There isn't anything wrong with having soft and sensual sex. It can be wonderful. Intoxicating with the right person. I just wanted a take on how some of those who like to live on the "rough" side do it without really hurting each other.

"Orally loved"..has a nice ring to it.;)
JL:kiss:

Well, since you started it.......... I do have a fetish, so to speak...

I love to hold my woman down as she is cumming and torture her clit orally............... I love the taste of a woman's essence, and anytime I can get her to cum unendingly.......that's when I am fulfilled.

PJ every day keeps the blues away!

PJ........ = the essence of a woman, the true fountain of youth!
 
st,st,st stop pounding meeee soooo haaard yourrr gooing tooo break myyy ffuckkinggg neckk!

is a sure sign to back off just a tad.
 
Smooth prefers it smooth, not rough, but that's not to say I haven't tried it the other way. Person I was with was wise enough to suggest we set up a code word, tho, instead of "Stop" or "Ouch", cause sometimes those are part of the fun of it.
 
*bump* cause I feel guilty for having contaminated this perfectly good topic with the funky "thread poison" mojo I seem to give off.
 
We talked about rough sex and I told him when I said no or stop that that is just the fuck what I mean/meant! He has never steped over the line...and we do have some rough sex...and I don't say stop or no..............BUT...he does.

Limits
Boundries
Safe....the most important.:cool:
 
LMAO

Unregistered said:
st,st,st stop pounding meeee soooo haaard yourrr gooing tooo break myyy ffuckkinggg neckk!

is a sure sign to back off just a tad.

How do you know where to stop at?

Stop Is It Fer Me, I Guess. He Just Kinda KNOWS Though By How I Say It. He Is My Husband And We HAve Been Doing This Fer A Long Time Ya Know! LOL
 
I can't think of too many times I've had to say stop, but that would be the signal.
 
hmmm well i have thought "OUCH!" before, but never said stop yet.

This includes a bite that left a bruise for 3 weeks after, and fingernails down my back that drew blood.

All she would have to do is say "no" or "stop" and thats enough for me.

/wave
QuickDuck
 
well stop is good but you really should pick a word that you normally do not say like maybe your favorite candy or something i know alot of couples when they roleplay or rough the lady says no but does not mean stop just an expression so if you pick another word than your partner will know that you definately mean it.
 
I do love rough sex once in a great while. But I also like it slow and easy...

I don't ever remember having to call it quits or ever wanting it to stop. Have a little pain with your pleasure.

My current SO likes it softer and more romantic. Good for me. :)
 
I've only stopped things once or twice...and I was forthright and just said...this isn't working for me...we need to stop and they did. guess I've been lucky in lovers, if not in love :)
 
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