When degradation doesn't feel good

[liqueur]

This thread is for people like myself who have a degradation fetish.

Have you ever indulged in degrading behavior, whether it was self-degradation or degradation by another, and walked away from the experience not feeling good? What made the difference? Why does a kink that has felt good many times in the past suddenly feel bad?

If you have experienced this, has it been a one-time thing? Or has it killed the kink for you?

 

[kneelingagain]

some partners could really play with me and twist me or manipulate the situation and the dynamic, it was so very amazing

but others were more focused on what they wanted and sometimes it felt more abusive

 

[BillyWalrus]

I think it depends what you mean by degradation? Some of it can be described as teasing which is just in fun and some of it can be mean spirited.

My girlfriend likes to tease me (and I tease her too) but it's in a friendly or loving way. She just likes to make me laugh but all the same, I am her sub.