When are we sexiest?

[Chroco]

lets just say, if you aren't comfortable you aren't sexy. So for me it all depends on the woman.

There are some that look best in tight clothes that hug their curves.

There are others that look the best in jeans that are just baggy enough to hang on their hips, just loose enough for me to slide a hand into them and a t-shirt that hugs the breasts but no so much to make them look like she is leaned against a plate glass window.

And then there are the women that look their most sexy when dressed up, with the flowing gown, hair done up, makeup all perfect and high heels.

And of course there are those that look the best with nothing on, sitting in the bed with that "I want to fuck you right now." look on thier face.

so as i said, it all depends on the woman.

 

[His Whimsicality]

Women are sexiest when their men are at their horniest (I guess *g*)

 

[lovechild27]

Some lingere is uncomfy...I have never worn any piece of clothing though used for seduction for more than three minutes I think...lol. I have a fav tho....maybe I should try it on and take a pic?


I have to agree with all these....I didnt realize how often I felt sexy

 

[Brandy99ta]

Women are sexiest when their men are at their horniest (I guess *g*)

That is sooooooooo true.

 

[Bijoux]

Re: Matt Twattingle

I get so turned off by the word Twat

Actually, despite what it has been downgraded to, twat is an Egyptian word meaning "Cave of Mysteries" if loosely translated. Unfortunately, alot of once complimentary phrases have become slurs - its a shame.

More on topic - I think sexy is a state of mind. If you've ever seen nude models working you can literally see them pull on their expressions - vulnerable, pouty, and sexpot. Confidence is sexy as hell no matter what so I think its more about how well you like your getup than how much better it looks than another.

As far as myself, I feel sexiest when I'm out in the clubs; split skirt, knee boots, and not giving a damn of what anyone else thinks - dancing is just physical enough to cover your body with a gleam and make the body more sensitive to every little thing.

 

[mjnelson]

I think they are the sexiest when they are dressed up in trendy but skimpy outfits like short dresses, miniskirts, etc. and are tight-fitting or fits in a way that accents her features.

 

[Parklife]

am 'power dressed', ie, in one of my suits, hair up, glasses on, and ready to go off to a meeting or whatever.

There are two times I seem to always find women sexiest. One is what peachykeen said. The other is a women that has just come in from the rain.. that dishevled, wet hair look just causes my mind to do backflips.... (let alone anything else that is stired to action)

Park~

 

[bigjacknyc]

After I've had 3 beers.

Okay, bad joke.

I'll try to avoid things that happen "during" sex cos that kind of doesn't count. I always love looking at a woman get up and walk from my bed to the bathroom naked. Ditto the return trip. Dunno why exactly but it's always such a nice view. I'm also big on that morning time thing when we wake up and snuggle, her head lying on my chest, being able to look at her eyes and all the way down her naked body.

Once I got a girlfriend a trip to a spa for a massage and nails and all that. When she came home I was asleep. When she woke me up, she just looked so beautiful - nothing to do with the spa but she was just so happy, and happy with me out of all the people in the world, that it made me want her so much.

Looking back, I can see that all those things I wrote are about feeling close to somebody rather than the more physical parts of attraction. But feeling close does often make for great sex I suppose.

In terms of new people, I love, love, LOVE that look you see in a woman's eye when you get to the point where you both know something is going to happen between the two of you but neither one has said it.

So when all is said and done, it's not as much about the physical aspects as I would have thought. As long as there's a basic level of attractiveness there, then all the good stuff comes from personal things. Hmm. I learned something. Who woulda thought?