When a guy asks you out

[Dr. Dandy]

So it's a bit like...

When Harry met Sally? Didn't they discuss if men and women could be just friends? Been too long since I have seen the film!

I think it is a question of experience and sex appeal. The younger the guy and the more appealing the woman, the less likely it is anything other than sexual. Even with a few more years on a man though, sex appeal wins out over experience all too often! I have known very few men though whose sex-drive was really just some sort of extraneous non-essential aspect of their lives, but for them asking women out just wasn't a priority.

Anyways, in my case.... hmm... 75% of the women I ask out is with the tickling anticipation of

 

[Eilan]

Subconscious mind? Are you high!? It is on every guy's mind from the moment they ask a chick out. How much they are willing to wait and invest in the relationship differs from guy to guy but make no mistake if it was just about enjoying the other person's company it would be guy's night every night.

Perhaps some men are occasionally capable of thinking with their big brains instead of the itty bitty ones between their legs? Just a thought.

 

[phoenix1224]

It's always amusing to see how many women think that they have male "friends" who are not interested in sex.

Unless your guy friend has already done you, or is an "ex", no guy hangs out with women as purely "friends". The only exception to this is guys without self-esteem who simply can't close the deal. These guys always end up in the friends zone, due in part to the fact that their women friends know that they're pussies.

If a guy asks you out, or just "hang's out" with you, even for a seemly casual outting, he is thinking about the possibility of sex. This also applies to guys who currently have girlfiends or even wives. They're keeping you in the bullpen just in case.

If any of you women think you have guy friends who have absolutely no interest in sex with you, here's the test: offer sex and see what happens!

Thank you for those words of wisdom "Harry"...


To answer the original question: When a man asks a woman out on a date, he at least HOPES that it will lead to sex.

 

[Rueben80]

Perhaps some men are occasionally capable of thinking with their big brains instead of the itty bitty ones between their legs? Just a thought.

This is most men. If you beg to differ, talk to a few conservative christians about what kind of a response they get when they bring up that they are waiting for marriage.