What's your number?

[XtraKat]

I feel like a prude to say that I have only had 5... who would have thought, huh? xD

 

[hatlover123]

5...I think.

I forget things like this tbh.

 

[darkheels]

16 total ... men and women

 

[SimonTheLover]

12, 11 of which were after I was married, I am a bad man

 

[Sheana_V]

My number is way higher than most peoples here...

 

[michiganwrench]

Somewhere between 65 & 70. At one point in my 30's I could mentally list them all, now there is just no chance.

 

[MasonDixonCpl]

His: 17
Hers: 23

He was married and with the same woman since 17. He cheated twice, had a threesome with two other women, but once divorced enjoyed the single life.
Her: Several long term relationships, however, they were open and had multiple 3 somes and more. Those 23 include men and women.

Numbers don't mean anything. If you are not sharing STD's who cares. Fuck and have fun!

 

[tnhardon]

Mine is 1. 2 if you consider giving oral as a qualifier to add to the number.

My wife’s is significantly higher than mine (I’ve intentionally not wanted to know the specifics on her sexual history). That said, based on what I do know I’d say she is around 10.

 

[AlexBailey]

For me it really depends on how and what you count.

By conservative measures I’ve been with twenty women and one man. If you consider a wider range of activities to be ‘sex’ then I’ve probably been with nearly forty women and six men.

 

[Micio_Lambire]

Numbers make no difference to me provided you're honest with me when with me. I've nothing against multiple partnerships either as long as everyone's in the loop.

That said, my total is 8.

7 men, 1 woman and even though some don't count oral, I am cus I fucked her with my tongue.

 

[elizaloo]

Jeez, a really pathetic 3...trying desperately to change that..but, alas, having no luck whatsoever.

 

[oldsoul24]

24 and only 2 here

 

[LustfulIntentions2]

I'm in my 40s, and am over 20, but did the majority of that damage in my early to mid 20s.

 

[Dougos]

9 here

 

[lc69hunter]

"Slut" is a term I'd like to drag out, dust off, and start using as a compliment. It's a fun little word, and it implies a certain joy in the act. Sounds like a perfect word to use.

But, yeah, guys get a little...weird about the number. It's all fun & games until they're pissed and you're the one who fucked 25 guys. Ya know?

I like the term. Each of us, men and women, has an inner slut that likes or needs to be let out to play. Too many of us keep her locked up, for fear of what other people will say.

My number is 34. It was stuck at 32 during a long marriage, but since becoming a widower at age 70, I have upped the number by 2.

 

[Mercury_Maniac]

Jeez, a really pathetic 3...trying desperately to change that..but, alas, having no luck whatsoever.

Better then my crappy 2

 

[elizaloo]

Better then my crappy 2

Ooof, sorry......not by much though!

Mine's only 3 because I met and married a dude from Lit - had I not done that my number would have been exponentially higher!

Maybe.....

 

[brdplt]

1

 

[Mercury_Maniac]

Ooof, sorry......not by much though!

Mine's only 3 because I met and married a dude from Lit - had I not done that my number would have been exponentially higher!

Maybe.....

Mine is permanently at 2 for other reasons

 

[bouldghirl]

20’s for me. I’m not really sure how relevant it is though. I’m pretty sure I haven’t been asked this by a partner or ever asked the question.

 

[lil_jenni]

11+ years after I started this thread, the thing that strikes me is that my professed number of 42 was lie. That was the number I could remember or somewhat reconstruct. It left out ones that, at that time, I did not want to acknowledge. Looking back, the number before I met Hubby was probably 60+.

It's a lot higher now. We broke up for a bit (this was before we got married), and I drank a lot, worked very briefly as a stripper, and worked a bit longer, but still briefly, at a (legal) Nevada brothel. My number now is north of 100, I am quite sure, but the drinking during that time was heavy, so who knows?

 

[Mercury_Maniac]

Almost 40 years old and still sitting at a measley fucking 2

 

[whatahoot]

Unfortunately, I don't think the double standard of women being looked down upon for having a high body count while men with high body counts are almost applauded, will ever go away. Even in my own household, where I grew up with strict Latino parents, I would constantly be reminded that I should only ever have sex with one man, and that man would be my husband. Meanwhile, my brother had multiple girlfriends, and though they may have made a comment or two towards him, they pretty much let him be and saw it as just a normal part of being a man. I've always been very sexually curious, became active pretty young and always looked at sex as just that, sex. So much fun and felt so incredibly good, I didn't understand why I would ever limit myself to just one man or have to wait for that man. By the time I'm at my husband, I have been with probably more than 50 men, and that number has probably doubled over the past for years or so. I carry no shame about it whatsoever, and don't plan to slow down anytime soon.