Whats wrong with saying make it hurt so good ?

[sidneyinheaven]

i was severely admonished for saying that the other night. Why ? i've said that many times. Something must be wrong. Sir said he never wanted to hear me say that again. He won't even talk to me about it. Whats up.

Love
sidney

 

[BiBunny]

Well, if he doesn't know and you don't know, then I definitely don't know. And I doubt anyone else here does, either.

 

[rosco rathbone]

You were admonished for quoting John "Cougar" Mellonkamp, not for breaking any of the rules of bdsm.

 

[be_ignited]

That seems strange to me.

I've never heard of someone taking issue with that phrase. And from what you said you tried to ask about it? Maybe give him a while to cool off and try again?

 

[subbie_333]

i was severely admonished for saying that the other night. Why ? i've said that many times. Something must be wrong. Sir said he never wanted to hear me say that again. He won't even talk to me about it. Whats up.

Love
sidney

What was the context?

 

[subbie_333]

Well, if he doesn't know and you don't know, then I definitely don't know. And I doubt anyone else here does, either.

OK, that's it, let's shut everything down. If *SHE* doesn't know, then, what's the use?!?!?!

 

[sidneyinheaven]

OK, that's it, let's shut everything down. If *SHE* doesn't know, then, what's the use?!?!?!

im sorry. i just don't know what happened. thought maybe someone might have some insight. Thats all. Maybe i put this in the wrong place. i don't know what i did wrong. Sorry to bother you guys. i can deal with it myself i guess.

Love
sidney

 

[subbie_333]

im sorry. i just don't know what happened. thought maybe someone might have some insight. Thats all. Maybe i put this in the wrong place. i don't know what i did wrong. Sorry to bother you guys. i can deal with it myself i guess.

Love
sidney

LOL i was being a silly boy

 

[Daddy2mylilgirl]

Cause it's not suppose to feel good?

I'm guessing he wants to hurt you in order to hurt you and not hurt you so that it feels good.

He might have wanted you to cry out in pain not pleasure.

 

[Netzach]

Cause it's not suppose to feel good?

I'm guessing he wants to hurt you in order to hurt you and not hurt you so that it feels good.

He might have wanted you to cry out in pain not pleasure.

Yes.

And I'm predicting an imminent visit from the problem fairy if he thinks that he can forbid her brain from processing sensations in ways that challenge his ego.

 

[EmpressFi]

im sorry. i just don't know what happened. thought maybe someone might have some insight. Thats all. Maybe i put this in the wrong place. i don't know what i did wrong. Sorry to bother you guys. i can deal with it myself i guess.

Love
sidney

Maybe the reaction is also that, only your PYL knows why he or she asked you not to say it again, so perhaps the best person to ask what's wrong with saying it... would be your PYL.

I can give supposition and conjecture, but that's all it would be until you confirm it with him/her.

 

[ecstaticsub]

i was severely admonished for saying that the other night. Why ? i've said that many times. Something must be wrong. Sir said he never wanted to hear me say that again. He won't even talk to me about it. Whats up.

Love
sidney

Did your tone come off as if you were ordering him to hurt you so good?

 

[YourCaptor]

Sometimes it can just be in wording.

Language is funny in that even though we all use the same words, their meaning is different for every single person.

"Make it hurt so good" vs "Please hurt me, I crave it"

Basically they mean the same thing, but possibly they don't your dom.

 

[Etoile]

You were admonished for quoting John "Cougar" Mellonkamp, not for breaking any of the rules of bdsm.

That was my thinking too, actually.

 

[Netzach]

That was my thinking too, actually.

as well she should be.

 

[graceanne]

Yes.

And I'm predicting an imminent visit from the problem fairy if he thinks that he can forbid her brain from processing sensations in ways that challenge his ego.

Their's a PROBLEM FAIRY?

I think she lives at my house. Can someone make her STAY at their house for awhile? Pretty please?

 

[VelvetDarkness]

Yes.

And I'm predicting an imminent visit from the problem fairy if he thinks that he can forbid her brain from processing sensations in ways that challenge his ego.

Very true. Master can hurt me and control the level of pain I receive but he can never have control over whether my body processes it as 'good pain' or 'bad pain.'

Punishments fall into the 'bad pain' category 99% of the time because of my emotional state when it happens. There have been a few notable exceptions to this though that I accept absolutely no liability for.

 

[catalina_francisco]

Best person to ask is your PYL, but if you want us to guess at what the problem was, all I can assume is perhaps they thought you were sort of topping from the bottom in that you were demanding or telling them what to do and how. I know for some it may sound stupid, but I know from personal experience that sometimes PYL's want to reinforce that they are the ones in charge, they control what does happen and how, and it is not up to the pyl to be directing them or demanding they do anything even in the lightest of ways.

Catalina

 

[Fuckette]

When I was a young boy,
Said put away those young boy ways
Now that im gettin older so much older
I long all those young boy days
With a girl like you
With a girl like you
Lord knows there are things we can do, baby
Just me and you
Come on and make it a

Chorus:
Hurt so good
Come on baby make it hurt so good
Sometimes love dont feel like it should
You make it hurt so good

You dont have to be so excitin
Just tryin to give myself a little bit of fun, yeah
You always look so invitin
You aint as green as you are young
Hey baby its you
Come on girl now its you
Sink your teeth right through my bones, baby
Lets see what we can do
Come on and make it a

Chorus:
Hurt so good
Come on baby make it hurt so good
Sometimes love dont feel like it should
You make it hurt so good

I aint talkin no big deals
I aint made no plans myself
I aint talkin no high heels
Maybe we could walkin around, all day long,
Walkin around, all day long

Chorus:
Hurt so good
Come on baby make it hurt so good
Sometimes love dont feel like it should
You make it hurt so good
Hurt so good
Come on baby make it hurt so good
Sometimes love dont feel like it should
You make it hurt so good

Hey, hey​

 

[Etoile]

What's really wrong is that it led to posting this thread which makes me get John Cougar Mellencamp in my head every time I see it.

NO MORE POSTING PLS KTHXBAI

 

[intothewoods]

What's really wrong is that it led to posting this thread which makes me get John Cougar Mellencamp in my head every time I see it.

NO MORE POSTING PLS KTHXBAI

Me too.

Oops.

 

[madetotakeit]

Their's a PROBLEM FAIRY?

I think she lives at my house. Can someone make her STAY at their house for awhile? Pretty please?

If she lives with you, then apparently she has been vacationing in Southwest Florida...

 

[Homburg]

What's really wrong is that it led to posting this thread which makes me get John Cougar Mellencamp in my head every time I see it.

NO MORE POSTING PLS KTHXBAI

I know! It's driving me buggy.

I may make a rule against referencing those songs too, just to stop my brain from playing them.

 

[LadyC]

i was severely admonished for saying that the other night. Why ? i've said that many times. Something must be wrong. Sir said he never wanted to hear me say that again. He won't even talk to me about it. Whats up.

Love
sidney

I don't see anything wrong with it providing you are permitted to speak whenever you wish. My minion Billy-boy is not allowed the speak when I am working him; therefore, if he were to tell me: "make it hurt so good," I'd be pissed off.

 

[sidneyinheaven]

I don't see anything wrong with it providing you are permitted to speak whenever you wish. My minion Billy-boy is not allowed the speak when I am working him; therefore, if he were to tell me: "make it hurt so good," I'd be pissed off.

That was the problem. i am not permitted to speak during these sessions. i can express my fellings but in a non verbal manner. i forgot my place again. i do that alot. i need to try harder to please. and stop thinking about myself.

Love
sidney