What's the truth guys?

[kay1eigh]

Ok, I heard some guys saying that they didn't like it when a girl looked at them while they were blowing them, but I have always thought different since they guys I have had experience with seem to like it. So what is the truth-is it weird or sexy?

 

[mritsme]

prob depends on the guy really just like masterbation in front of wife she wants me to and i want to once in awhile but it is very uncomfortable to do it

 

[hogjack]

It depends

If there is the "Evil Eye" look - that's no good.
Using a "Cross-eyed" technique - probably no good.
The "You Think I Forgot What You Said This Morning" look could be of concern.

In any of those cases this does not seem like a particularly exciting prospect.

 

[throbbingcock]

It depends what the look means as stated.

 

[constantlykinky]

I love it when my g/f looks up at me while sucking me off. The innocent wide-eyes-looking-up look combines with act of giving of giving head to make it feel especially wicked.

 

[ApplesMcgee]

it varies...

It just depends on the guy in question. Most guys like it, but I hve heard of a few that don't.

Just paly it by ear...ummm...or mouth...uhh...you get the idea.

PowrDragn

 

[peachykeen]

I think there are some men who are conflicted about it - while they like the feeling physically of what's happening, they feel guilty about 'making' you do something 'dirty'. They might even know intellectually that this is BS but depending on how they were raised and the messages they got about sex when they were younger, it embarasses them to see you doing that, and especially for you to see them watching. Especially if you're a chick they really like - they're stuck between seeeing you as someone they value and respect, and seeing you as this slut doing this 'nasty' thing.

 

[DuckLover]

The look in your eyes is the key. Your eyes are EXTREMELY communicative, more so than most people understand. If the look is a playful "But I'm sweet & innocent, why am i doing this?" than you get the result described by constantlykinky.

You can also use the "I'm just a dirty slut, sucking you off", which is pretty damn hot if your creating that kind of scene.

A good start though is probably just to express enthusiasm. The light in your eyes that says "I'm enjoying making you feel good. I love doing this for you."

Each of the above could be enough to make a guy cum hard if it fits into the mood of the session.

I still agree that communication (verbal) is another major component. Maybe he wants it faster, deeper or something. Or to play with his balls or ass at the same time.

Good luck and have fun!

 

[DuckLover]

I think there are some men who are conflicted about it - while they like the feeling physically of what's happening, they feel guilty about 'making' you do something 'dirty'. They might even know intellectually that this is BS but depending on how they were raised and the messages they got about sex when they were younger, it embarasses them to see you doing that, and especially for you to see them watching. Especially if you're a chick they really like - they're stuck between seeeing you as someone they value and respect, and seeing you as this slut doing this 'nasty' thing.

This phenomenon is called the Madonna-Whore Dichotomy. (Referring to the religious Madonna, not the pop star)

 

[Guest]

I'm down on my knees, I wanna take you there! In the midnight hour, I can feel your power, etc.

 

[CuriouslilQT]

nice

Nice reflection nudeguy

 

[dreamer]

I love eye contact during any and all lovemaking.

Now, fucking that's an entire different matter...hehe...but I tend to appreciate/need...lovemaking more.

 

[peachykeen]

hard to make eye contact tho when you're on your knees and he's plowing you from behind. Oh, unless you have a mirror.

 

[dreamer]

hard to make eye contact tho when you're on your knees and he's plowing you from behind. Oh, unless you have a mirror.

Indeed, hence fucking being so different, lets face it it's usually not gentle intimacy when I'm plowing from behind.

Hehe...althouth the mirror trick works nicely. <grin>

 

[TumbledLove]

Is this a joke? How could a guy NOT want eye contact?! Gazing into a girl's eyes is probably the best part of getting a blowjob.

Of course, the sensuality isn't there if your eyes are all mean and nasty looking like you're doing a chore (come on dammit, I've been sucking your dick for the past half-hour!). That, or maybe the guy feels guilty because he's using you or something.

 

[LoneOne]

This phenomenon is called the Madonna-Whore Dichotomy. (Referring to the religious Madonna, not the pop star)

Is this the same thing like "Oh, the word with S.., ok but turn the light out and... mhmm ...we have to do it under the blanket."?

 

[Lust Engine]

Ok, I heard some guys saying that they didn't like it when a girl looked at them while they were blowing them, but I have always thought different since they guys I have had experience with seem to like it. So what is the truth-is it weird or sexy?

It's both weird and sexy! I think that's what makes it so good! Personally I prefer making the eye contact, but to each their own. I agree with the notion that the eye contact is a very important to communicating. Besides if you don't look up to see, how do you know he's really REALLY enjoying it. It works both ways. You need to look up & he needs to communicate to you too as to what he likes too.

What about the women on this issue? Do you ladies like it when we look up at you as our talented little darting tongues do their thing on you???

 

[TallOne]

The occasional eye meeting is good stuff. But prolonged staring on the other hand....

 

[SXCRgirl]

First of all, it's a blow job! I think most men would be happy with a woman who is willing and enthusiastic about performing this act on them. Hehehe.

For me, it all depends on the mood. I sometimes like to see my man with his eyes closed enjoying the sensations of my mouth as I perform oral sex on him. He's concentrating on the sounds, the sensations, the impending orgasm that's threatening to overcome him. With his eyes closed, it's all internal.

However, when we have eye contact, it becomes about us - which is a complete turn on for me and for him *of course*. I love seeing the emotions that are reflected in his eyes. I love seeing the transition from... ooooh ahhh this is so damn good... to oooh damn... i'm coming!!!

 

[deliciea]

the truth

I love giveing my man head to look up over his chest and see that exquisit look on his face and to know that i am the one that put it there is even more arousing for me....


Many years ago being inexperienced i would have told you there was no way that a woman could get hot and bothered just by giving a BJ but now after many years it gets me as hot if not hotter than him and belive it or not i have learned more from lit in the last month on how to give a Bj than i have in lets just say to many years

 

[dreamer]

However, when we have eye contact, it becomes about us - which is a complete turn on for me and for him

Well put SXCR. Exactly how I feel.

 

[juicylips]

Re: the truth

I love giveing my man head to look up over his chest and see that exquisit look on his face and to know that i am the one that put it there is even more arousing for me....

<snip>

What she said.

It's a huge power trip for me. To feel him get harder, stronger then explode down my throat..omg..nothing like it.

And, I've never had a man not like me looking up. They love watching their cock disappear between my lips and I love watching them in orgasmic bliss.

JL

 

[deliciea]

re: what she said

juicy

girl you said it best and thats all I can say

 

[Midazolam]

Ok, I heard some guys saying that they didn't like it when a girl looked at them while they were blowing them, but I have always thought different since they guys I have had experience with seem to like it. So what is the truth-is it weird or sexy?

There is nothing more gorgeous than the look in her eyes as my cock glides in & out of her mouth! For me, it is an ultimately arousing thing to have her look up at me while sucking me off...esp while I cumming!

 

[nudeintpa]

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