What's the difference?

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Sex is sex

be it with a man, women, beast........don't mix it up with love, which is singular!

 

[StondTmplPilot]

Yes, that's just it tho! Why wouldn't a man with a bi girlfriend see a woman as a threat? I mean this: when it comes right down to it, she's still going to be getting off with/by someone else. Male or female, that could be considered as a threat to the relationship. Essentially, chances are with 2 women, it wold more than likely be thru oral sex. Why would a guy not see that as a threat to his "oral skills"? Does a penis really matter in this instance? Hell, I just plain have never been able to cum due to penetration alone. I know I'm not alone in this one. I need more, and what I need can come from male or female.

Don't get me wrong. I'm not trying to put down femme/femme sex, or male/male sex. I'm just trying to get some input on my insane idea. Keep up with the info, folks! I'm looking forward to more.

I, for one, see no other person being a threat to my oral skills, as I am totally confident that what I do is very VERY pleasing. On the other hand, I was not blessed with great size, so I probably would have insecurities with my girlfriend having sex with another man. What if she DID like him/his better? Would I be able to please her? Did I ever? I don't think I wanna put myself through all that.

 

[xzchief]

I'm in the minority, I guess. If my girlfried had sex with another woman, she'd be cheating.

Kidding aside, I would not want to watch either. Girl-girl action doesn't really excite me. I just think to myself, "Two more chicks who won't sleep with me."

 

[juicylips]

I, for one, see no other person being a threat to my oral skills, as I am totally confident that what I do is very VERY pleasing. On the other hand, I was not blessed with great size, so I probably would have insecurities with my girlfriend having sex with another man. What if she DID like him/his better? Would I be able to please her? Did I ever? I don't think I wanna put myself through all that.

Do you feel you are always being compared to former lovers? Or are you talking about just in a situation where there is mmf sex?

Cassidy

 

[StondTmplPilot]

Just in a situation of mmf sex. I don't feel that I have been compared to a former lover. I guess what I was trying to say was that I wouldn't be worried that my girlfriend would leave me for a woman or a man based on their oral skills, but in the back of my mind, I WOULD be worried that she might find another man more pleasurable, because he is bigger, and thus choose not to be with me.

 

[juicylips]

Just in a situation of mmf sex. I don't feel that I have been compared to a former lover. I guess what I was trying to say was that I wouldn't be worried that my girlfriend would leave me for a woman or a man based on their oral skills, but in the back of my mind, I WOULD be worried that she might find another man more pleasurable, because he is bigger, and thus choose not to be with me.

That is such a fucking myth about bigger is better, lol... Get that thought out of your head..both of them..lol

If you please a woman orally,,,that goes a long , long way in total satisfaction... if you are hard and use your cock the way it was intended most women would be in fucking heaven.. It is the whole attitude of your lovemaking..not just the size, my dear

Cassidy,
IMHO

 

[StondTmplPilot]

I appreciate the encouraging words, and I do try not to worry about things like that. I know that my lover is completely satisfied with everything I do, and I try to do something new, or differently each time we are together so that it doesn't become the same ole same ole, although, we aren't together nearly enough, so I can't see it getting there anyway!

 

[juicylips]

I appreciate the encouraging words, and I do try not to worry about things like that. I know that my lover is completely satisfied with everything I do, and I try to do something new, or differently each time we are together so that it doesn't become the same ole same ole, although, we aren't together nearly enough, so I can't see it getting there anyway!

That's the kind of attitude I was looking for

The positive side of not doing it enough is that the excitement factor stays longer, that's for sure.

Cassidy

 

[StondTmplPilot]

I agree 1000 percent. This being a new relationship also helps, I think. We are still in the getting to know each other phase, sexually speaking that is, so it has been fun exploring the different reactions to the different things that we have done. Last weekend, on my drive home, I thought of atleast a dozen things that I wished I had tried with her, sooooo, next time I get to see her, well, she's in for a treat! (I hope)

 

[SweetCherry]

Thanks for more input guys! Glad to see I got some of you thinking.

STP, I do agree with Juicy. Size ain't that important. I for one can not cum by straight vaginal intercourse, so how big it is isn't a real issue. I will admit tho, that I've never had overly large lovers, so the prospect of being with a well-built male does hold a bit of excitement. But personallu, I'd rather have a man who knew what to do with his tongue and fingers. The whole "penis" thing is secondary to me.