What's the damn deal?

[SpiceCake]

I am asked frequently by fellow Litsters if they could call me. I always refuse because I am so bashful on the phone. I get tongue-tied and sometimes I can't speak at all. I just freeze up.

What the fuck am I supposed to do? I want to talk to people, but I just can't make the words come out.

Advice??

 

[Romial]

I am asked frequently by fellow Litsters if they could call me. I always refuse because I am so bashful on the phone. I get tongue-tied and sometimes I can't speak at all. I just freeze up.

What the fuck am I supposed to do? I want to talk to people, but I just can't make the words come out.

Advice??

Just be yourself, and if they care about ya, even as friends, they will understand.

 

[sanjuaneros]

Go with the flow of the conversation.

 

[Wicked-N-Erotic]

If they are truly interseted in knowing YOU they will be ok with your shyness and be able to make you feel comfortable.

 

[Sillyman]

Just let them know you are a little shy and they will give you some lee way. Then just take deep breathes and make sure you know what to say before you start.

 

[SpiceCake]

It's a bit difficult to go with the flow of conversation when all I can do is sit on the other end and listen. I get very anxious.

 

[acitore_vuli]

Let them call you and then put them on hold.

 

[sanjuaneros]

After you laugh a couple of times cuz they might be nervous too you will be fine.

It's a bit difficult to go with the flow of conversation when all I can do is sit on the other end and listen. I get very anxious.

 

[Shingen]

Babe, let me call you up. I'll make you feel relaxed. Just the way my massaging hands will feel on your body...

 

[cybergirly]

Find a couple people you want to talk to and arrange a three way. That way they can carry the conversation when you get tongue tied, and you won't feel pressured.

 

[SpiceCake]

Babe, let me call you up. I'll make you feel relaxed. Just the way my massaging hands will feel on your body...

See your sig line - that's me. I much more comfortable meeting someone in person than talking over the phone.

I try to tell myself that I CAN do this, but then I my voice freezes up and nothing comes out!

 

[Romial]

Or you can ignore my advice...what do I know?

 

[SpiceCake]

Re: Re: What's the damn deal?

Just be yourself, and if they care about ya, even as friends, they will understand.

That's the thing sweetie, I can't be myself - I can't speak!

 

[Killswitch]

Just relax, and remember that you are number one, and it is THIER pleasure to be lucky enough to talk to you spice.

 

[Shingen]

See your sig line - that's me. I much more comfortable meeting someone in person than talking over the phone.

I try to tell myself that I CAN do this, but then I my voice freezes up and nothing comes out!

Well, I must come over and tell you about my dream...

 

[Shingen]

Re: Re: Re: What's the damn deal?

That's the thing sweetie, I can't be myself - I can't speak!

Honey, no need to speak. Just sit back and relax and let Shingen take care of everything for you...

 

[SpiceCake]

Okay - I talk on the phone all day at work - it's par t of my job. I have no problem with it. I know how to asnwer all questions or at last where to refer them to.

Personal calls are different. There are times I don't answer my phone at home because I'm scared shitless.

 

[Spinaroonie]

What's the damn deal with corn nuts?

They're not corn.

They're not nuts.

Whhhhaaaaaaat's the deal?

 

[SpiceCake]

What's the damn deal with corn nuts?

They're not corn.

They're not nuts.

Whhhhaaaaaaat's the deal?

Actually they are deep fried kernals of corn, Spin! Now about talking on the phone....?

 

[Spinaroonie]

Actually they are deep fried kernals of corn, Spin! Now about talking on the phone....?

I wouldn't deep fry the phone.

 

[SpiceCake]

I wouldn't deep fry the phone.

LOL - thanks Spin!

 

[acitore_vuli]

Corns have nuts? I thought they were all ears.

 

[Shingen]

Corn nuts? We're tawkin 'bout corn nuts?

I can't eat them...They actually hurt my mouth.

Plus, they come out the same way they came in...Ouch!!!!

 

[SpiceCake]

You guys are SO helpful! LOL

Thanks for the potty info, Shingen!

 

[Gusty Wind]

Babe, let me call you up. I'll make you feel relaxed. Just the way my massaging hands will feel on your body...

lmao

haha good one .

way to go pal ...hehe

you sure know how...