What's the best way to meet people that live a more openly sexual lifestyle?

[sleepgeek]

I have always felt more open about my sexual attitude towards relationships but have never been exposed to or met individuals or couples who share similar ideals. Being a single 50 yr old male, I find it difficult to truly find a way to discover others within that community due to the onslaught of horny men just trying to live out their fantasies.

Any advice on how to connect with other like minded people on the basis of lifestyle philosophy vs. the random hookup crowd?

 

[ThongsOnly]

The couple we team up with most were invited over for pm drinks and a bbq. They were both fit and good Looking so when they came over, we were wearing only thongs and we wanted to see what happened. They were a bit speechless but it took 10 minutes for them to get on board. She went in her underwear and I hooked him up with a pair and for the last 3 years, it's been great!

Bottom line, up front. We wear thongs at the beach and get a lot of "chats" with other couples. Our couple friends now thong too and love what we've brought them into as we can all get our sexual needs taken care of

 

[Porkwarrior]

I have always felt more open about my sexual attitude towards relationships but have never been exposed to or met individuals or couples who share similar ideals. Being a single 50 yr old male, I find it difficult to truly find a way to discover others within that community due to the onslaught of horny men just trying to live out their fantasies.

Any advice on how to connect with other like minded people on the basis of lifestyle philosophy vs. the random hookup crowd?

Start an account on FetLife, and get out to a regular get-together or munch in your area with others that share your tastes.