What's Right with You?

[LittleJade]

What do you love about yourself? What things about yourself make you feel sexy, smart, confident, happy?




Gimme a sec, and I'll start.

 

[LittleJade]

Righto- this thread was created as the flip side of my "what's wrong with you" thread. I think that understanding our flaws has merit, but celebrating our good points has value.

So- let's talk about the things we love about ourselves.






I'm a genius. Like, certified. And yet, I can be an absolute space cadet. No matter the colour of my hair, I will always be blonde... and I think it's good for me to have my ditzy moments. Besides, blonde jokes are hilarious.

I have great tits, and a great ass.

I am my mother's daughter, and my grandmother's granddaughter. We are powerful, strong, amazing women. It's something that passes down the line, in that family... and I'm so proud to be part of it.

I am determined, stubborn, and I will persevere. I. Will. Succeed.

I am polyamorous- I can deeply love multiple people at the same time, and rather than detract from the love I give to one, it enriches the love I give to each. Love, for me, is a self-perpetuating cycle.

And I could go on, but that's good, for the moment.

 

[FurryFury]

Righto- this thread was created as the flip side of my "what's wrong with you" thread. I think that understanding our flaws has merit, but celebrating our good points has value.

So- let's talk about the things we love about ourselves.






I'm a genius. Like, certified. And yet, I can be an absolute space cadet. No matter the colour of my hair, I will always be blonde... and I think it's good for me to have my ditzy moments. Besides, blonde jokes are hilarious.

I have great tits, and a great ass.

I am my mother's daughter, and my grandmother's granddaughter. We are powerful, strong, amazing women. It's something that passes down the line, in that family... and I'm so proud to be part of it.

I am determined, stubborn, and I will persevere. I. Will. Succeed.

I am polyamorous- I can deeply love multiple people at the same time, and rather than detract from the love I give to one, it enriches the love I give to each. Love, for me, is a self-perpetuating cycle.

And I could go on, but that's good, for the moment.

Except for the polyamorous part which is yet to be determined my daugther could have written that.

*smiles*

What is right with me? Good question. People seem to find me pleasing almost always which makes me happy. They tend to think I'm more attractive than I believe. They tend to think I'm smart. They tend to think I'm kind.

I entertain people. It's like my default thing to engage them, be able to find common ground and talk with them about anything. If they are less inclined to such behavior I can make them feel at ease and keep the conversation going so they are glad to be there, feel accepted and so on.

Since having kids, I've found that I am much more patient and less violent that I had feared. I'm really pleased with that.

I don't try to own people. I let them go when they need to. I don't try to control them. I try to get them, if they need to, to control themselves. This is apparently unusual and confuses therapists. I see myself as a facilitator for people that I love and care for.

I am currently working to make time for me and be a little selfish. I do know what I want which a lot of people can't say. I'm happy about that. Being selfish and taking the time I should for me is difficult. I'm doing better at it overall than I was a few years ago.

I'm very creative and somewhat talented in some areas. What I do makes me happy, it makes my audiences and clients happy. This is win/win. Woot!

I am careful with money. I think this is important. It is certainly important to me, my husband and our family.

I have no interest or need to keep up with the Jones. Yet, I can easily fit in with any age, race or social economic group because, I take people as they come to me, as individuals and accept them almost always.

That's enough. Let's go check out the negs now.

 

[Recidiva]

My sense of humor. The most sustaining thing about me. Regardless of where I am, what I'm doing, a constant perspective of dispelling humor to not take myself too seriously.

The man I married.

My children.

I love being able to sing, think, cook, eat, read, and genuinely find joy in my life.

 

[Luna_Wolf72]

What's right?

(everything!!)

No really!

The 3 most important things for me

1. My ability to move past other people's racist, sexist, idiotic remarks with a sly one liner and a smile. I find that it makes me a better person to not fall to the levels of other's stupidity.

2. I love my shape. It's girly without being overly fat, cushy without being flabby and gorgeously padded. YAY!!

3. I take good care of those that I love, period.

 

[ecstaticsub]

Good thread!

I am a problem solver. I like taking on difficult situations and finding answers. I like challenges, taking things apart and putting them back together.

I am smart--both academically and street smart. I also have a near photographic memory. I pay attention to detail, especially details that people write about themselves.

I am a very positive, up-beat, always look on the bright side of life type of person.

I am compassionate and polite.

 

[the captians wench]

what's right with me?

I have a bubbly personality that's full of life, love, and light, and no mater what passes thru, that light never seems to dim. I have the ability to stay positive even when I feel like my world is crumbling, and an enthusiasm for everything that's contagious.

I am very affectionate and shower those dear to me with as much love as they will let me. *giggles*

I am stronger than I think I am or claim to be. (that one is hard to admit)

I genuinly love with all my heart, friends, family, lovers all get the total and not part.

I am talented in many ways, and always willing and eager to learn more.

 

[Netzach]

What's not right with me?

*preens*

Seriously. I'm waiting for an XY to show up on either of these threads.

I'm over picking myself apart, that's what's right with me.

 

[HB1965]

I'm smart, funny, and loyal

 

[doveofserenity]

Whats right with me?

Only things i can say on this one are:

1. i am Cherokee, and damn proud of it!

2. i have two angelic little boys, both autistic; that i would kill for. And i mean it 110%!!!!

 

[graceanne]

I'm a good mom. I could stand improvement, but I'm attentive and affectionate (which is difficult for me, I'm not naturally an affectionate person), and my children know I love them and do my best.

I'm a good wife. I can be bitchy and impatient, but I take good care of my husband and am faithful and love him.

I'm a good friend. I'm a good sister, daughter, cousin, and aunt.

I try to be Christlike. I fail quite often, but I try.

Um, lemme think. LOL This is hard. Oh, I'm loyal, sometimes to the point of stupidity. I'm also very smart - my IQ when last tested was 136. I'm a good listener. I'm very comfortable with people - my mother says I'm an icebreaker with feet.

 

[HottieMama]

i'm a great mom.

i'm incredibly intelligent and also perceptive about people.

i'm highly organized.

i have beautiful eyes.

i have the capacity to love deeply and allow myself to feel love in return.

i've lost over 100lbs in the past yr and am healthier now that i have been in over 10 years.

i beat dope, it didn't beat me.

 

[TheBlackDahlia]

I'm loving college

I have an amazing family

I'm doing better in class then I was last year

I know who my real friends are, and I'm sticking with them

I'm one of the most genuine people you will ever meet

I'm gaining a little more weight (if you saw me, you'd understand)

I love my eyes

I'm finally figuring out how to feel like I'm worth something to those I care about most

I have amazing taste in music, as some saw in another thread

I'm honest

I'm a great friend, daughter and sister

 

[sexycaz22]

What's right with me?

1. I'm damn proud of being deaf and Scottish!

2. I am beginning to discover the true me, exploring the 'kinky' side of me.

3. I am very proud of finishing university - just done my final exams last week!

4. I have a loving and caring family and I miss being with them more often.

 

[somberReality]

Being able to comfort myself makes me feel good about myself.

 

[EmpressFi]

Hmm what's right with me.. hmm it's much easier for me to pick out what's wrong with me..

I am an exotic goddess.. I'm beautiful dammit... part Irish, part Polish and part Cherokee.

I have a big heart. I give people who hurt me second and third and fourth chances... I just hate to write off friends.

Even though I cant have kids, I'm a nurturer. I want to take care of everyone I consider *mine*

I'm smart..

I'm loved by two of the greatest men on this planet (no offense to the guys here ) and I'm able to love them both equally in return.

I can crochet doilies. Yeah... something boring grandmothers do, but do you know how much work goes into one of those things..so I'm putting that on the list..

In the past year, I've lost about 100 lbs and am still going strong.

 

[myinnerslut]

im a good listener

i have nice breasts

my eyes change color, from emerald green to hazel to dark brown

im a bundle of energy

i through myself completly into making the people i care about happy

i know when to hold my ground

 

[LadyAria]

I love my smile. I love the way it seems to disarm people and makes them grin back.

I love the beauty marks on my cheek.

I love my womb and how my body nourished my children.

I love my children. I love everything about being a mother. Through my sons, I realized what miracle it is we live and breath everyday. It is amazing what effort goes into the acts we take for granted.

I love how feel when I dance. I love my body for being whole and capable of dancing.

I love my career. I love the way going to work makes me feel.

I love being financially independent.

I love my best friend. She always bring perspective.

I love my alpha. His submission makes me complete.

 

[Chicklet]

I'm not an idiot.

I have a huge sense of sarcasm and a great wit.

Sometimes it takes me a few minutes to come up with the right joke for the comment, but whenever it does come out it's hilarious.

I have great hair.

For some reason, I gain loyal friends who I probably don't deserve. I think the people around me are one of the best things about me.

 

[Lilith]

I do a job no one else wants to and I do it well.
I love people with ease and do so with everything I have.
I'm a great kisser.

 

[vffan]

mmmm...

*goes and stands in the baggage claim line*

 

[LittleJade]

mmmm...

*goes and stands in the baggage claim line*

don't make me spank you.

There are LOTS of good things about you...

and I know quite a few even from our as yet, limited contact.

 

[nh23]

1. I'm a very honest person. My conscience will not allow me to be dishonest even at times when it would make things easier.

2. After years of having a low self esteem and hating my body, I'm finally at a point where I've grown comfortable with who I am.

3. My eyes change color from green, to blue, to gray.

4. I'm a good mother. I am very careful to avoid the mistakes my parents made with me. I make a constant effort to be affectionate with my children, even though it is really hard for me at times.

5. Thanks to my previous Dom I have learned a lot of patience and how to control my temper. I am a better person for it.

6. I can keep a secret forever and am not lured by gossip.

7. I'm not sure if this is good or not, but I can take something that hurts me and push it out of my mind and be more or less back to normal very quickly.

8. I'm a very independent person.

9. I'm proud of myself for being able to list more things that are good than bad.

 

[Homburg]

I enjoy making people laugh, and I'm a bit good at it.

I am honest and forthright, sometimes to a fault.

I have broad shoulders, physically, and as a friend.

And I've decided that I won't guard myself so damned closely. It never gained me anything, and has lost me oppurtunities in the past.



I am a Work in Progress.

 

[nh23]

i'm a great mom.

i'm incredibly intelligent and also perceptive about people.

i'm highly organized.

i have beautiful eyes.

i have the capacity to love deeply and allow myself to feel love in return.

i've lost over 100lbs in the past yr and am healthier now that i have been in over 10 years.

i beat dope, it didn't beat me.

I know we don't know each other very well, but this touched me. I'm very proud of you.