What's it all about, then?

[Regis2001]

As this is my first post at Literotic, I've decided to start as I mean to go on: by asking questions. So, here goes!

What does being gay/bisexual mean to you? Is it more about sexual attraction, or do romantic feelings form a greater part of it?

When did you first realise that you were gay/bisexual?

Who was the first person or the same sex you fancied/had a crush on/fell passionately in love with/fell desparately in lust with?

Explain why being gay/bisexual is infinitely preferable to being straight.

(In case you're wondering, the last question isn't serious. But answer anyway!)

 

[Samuelx]

For the longest time, i was angry and frustrated and considered myself a virgin and felt insecure about my sexuality and hated myself......then i remembered my sexual experiments with 5 girls and 1 or 2 guys. I was
bi-sexual !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

I accepted it. Dealing with men and women has become an option. Women are an option in a heterosexual man's life and often a burden but sometimes a blessing.

Women are an option for a bi-sexual man just like men are an option too.
It's a lot of fun. Just dont get attached, dont put up with bullshit and act nice.

It's ok to be bi.

peace.

 

[geishaGirl]

it is a combination of both sexual attraction and feelings for me, I tend to feel a little more lustful when I'm with my girlfriend because it's still new to me. But I definitely like to feel something for someone as well. I believe in loving someone before being with them sexually.

I first TRULY realised I was bisexual when my husband and I started talking about it ....that was probably a good 2 years ago now, it was before we got married. He was telling me that he was bisexual (which I firstly misinterpreted to mean he was telling me he was gay - I felt very insecure - and then I realised that my first kiss and some touching was with a girl when I was about 13. I realised that at that age I knew that it was "wrong" to be liking what I was doing and what the girl was doing to me. I had blocked it out until my husband and I talked about his sexuality.

The first person was a woman probably close to 40 years old. She was a friend of both mine and my husband and she was with a long term partner who was a friend of ours as well. I was in love with her but she turned out to be a very manipulative and unwell person mentally and I ended the friendship when I was going through depression. I now am interested in a woman who is also a friend of ours and am VERY happy to call her my girlfriend! She is much more fun to be around than the first woman and definitely more caring, we have also done more things sexually because our relationship has developed, unlike the first woman.

Put simply and quite frankly, being bisexual is "preferable" because it is a part of ME. It means that I don't BLOCK OUT my early experience and that I get to learn about myself. I love the feel of my girlfriend's body, it actually feels very "normal" and not strange or odd.