What would you say....

[RedVixen]

if you saw the Lit person you've been wanting? actually meet...

and not the usual "lets fuck" stuff...

but what would you say to let them know how you feel?......

 

[HottieMama]

Hmmm..which one?

For the first...After world's longest hug..."Thank you for being a wonderful friend...for just being who you are at any given moment and accepting me for who i am at any given moment. Thank you for "understanding." You mean more to me than you will ever know. (One of my closest friends evah.)

For the second: i don't think i would be able to say anything. i would be too busy kissing Him...after all actions speak louder than words right?!?! (He knows who He is...my Daddy.)

 

[omahaman2]

When we first met;
words werent necessaey!
Later on, in our relationship
I think she liked the question;
Will you marry me?

 

[Azuldrgon]

Thanks for making me feel special, wanted and allowing me to share my passions and my emotions.

 

[RedVixen]

When we first met;
words werent necessaey!
Later on, in our relationship
I think she liked the question;
Will you marry me?

that's beautiful.... i'm supposing her answer was yes?

 

[mrtnmoon]

I couldn't even begin to know what I'd say because I don't think I'll ever meet either of them. if the chance presented itself, there's every possibility I'd be rendered speechless because that's the kind of dork I am.

 

[omahaman2]

that's beautiful.... i'm supposing her answer was yes?

http://www.actlab.utexas.edu/images2/actlab-yes11_02.jpg

 

[PassionatePatty]

if you saw the Lit person you've been wanting? actually meet...

and not the usual "lets fuck" stuff...

but what would you say to let them know how you feel?......

It depends on what your relationship online has been up to that moment. If you have discussed the possibility of it being more or not. Hopefully some of that has been mentioned prior to your meeting, to avoid a major upset... Of course, talking online and phone are a lot different than the actual in person meeting. There is still something to be said about that chemistry of being in a person's presence...

This advice would apply to not just meeting Lit members but anyone online. I know this site and some like the AFF/Passion sites, people are a little more open about what they are looking for right from the beginning. That doesn't mean emotions and feelings can't evolve into something deeper...

I am a romantic at heart, but a bit of a realist, too. I have met some people online in person, and have some really nice friends out of those meetings. Always be honest with that special person AND yourself. Remember to keep your best interests (and heart) protected a little... It will flow just right when both parties follow those rules...

You never know when YOU may have a Jenny/Omahaman relationship develop!!!

Good luck and have fun!!!

 

[Gracie29]

LOL I'd probably blush and ask him right off the bat to refrain from making me snort so I wouldn't embarrass myself immediately.

 

[Domsheena]

Well snorting is cute... better than someone farting lol...

Well i would be very anxious and a bit scared... as soon as we´d see each other it would either be yuck or wow.... then been wanting each other for so long it would be let´s get it on and then just be with each other... i´d love to spend a weekend...

 

[mrtnmoon]

LOL I'd probably blush and ask him right off the bat to refrain from making me snort so I wouldn't embarrass myself immediately.

well.. I was gonna say that would probably be cute, but domsheena beat me to it, with a better punchline to boot.

it sounds kind of crazy, but something like that might actually be a good thing, because it would give the two of you something to laugh about and would help break the ice.

 

[RedVixen]

well.. I was gonna say that would probably be cute, but domsheena beat me to it, with a better punchline to boot.

it sounds kind of crazy, but something like that might actually be a good thing, because it would give the two of you something to laugh about and would help break the ice.

that's true.. it would be intense as it is... so an ice breaker or tension breaker of some sort would really work well....

 

[Azuldrgon]

I think that intensity is common for any kind of first meeting. The big thing is ensuring there is that comfort level to start with. Lots of email's and chats will help.
It also helps to not set expectations too highly. I remember at the Littogether we had up in Seattle that I went up there just expecting to meet people and not to do much else and I was ecstatic when I met the people i did.

 

[JagFarlane]

Mmmmm hard to tell sometimes...lol though I would love to do a LIT Meeting sometime, just to meet some of these people

 

[RedVixen]

Mmmmm hard to tell sometimes...lol though I would love to do a LIT Meeting sometime, just to meet some of these people

it's sounds like that is the best thing to do... although i don't think there are many Lit ppl in colorado...

 

[BigDonGStone]

I've only met one person off-line. Our relationship online was sizzling. Eventually she would call me occasionally and the phone sex was amazing. I should have known there were problems when I couldn't call her.

We finally agreed to meet and I couldn't keep my hands off of her.

Problem was after one truly exceptional meeting I find that she is married and is just getting back at her husband for cheating on her.

Bang. No more anything. She just faded off the net and into history.

I've never gotten over it and so I made it a hard and fast rule not to get too involved. Problem is that is very hard not to do when sex is such an intimate and emotional act, online or not.

I think the first thing I'd probably say if I met someone off-line now would be,"Are you married?"

 

[littleone77]

Easy.

I Love You ------.

 

[asian_princess]

"huh. how long have you been standing there??...i didn't recognize you with your clothes on..."


... I might not know what i'd say...but I know what I'd call Him...

 

[snake0067]

"huh. how long have you been standing there??...i didn't recognize you with your clothes on..."


... I might not know what i'd say...but I know what I'd call Him...

I would like to hear that.

 

[asian_princess]

I would like to hear that.

"that"


Appy: fulfilling dreams world wide

 

[trent0553]

Honestly, I'm not sure what I'd say...probably, "Finally"and "I love you"
I'm sure there'd be more, but much would be hugs, kisses, just holding hands and 'being' together.

 

[FredAstaire23]

it's sounds like that is the best thing to do... although i don't think there are many Lit ppl in colorado...

i'm from CO.

Actually, I think I'd be excited just to take in them being there. Yeah, eventually we'd get around to sex, but I think at first it would be mostly like two old friends who haven't seen each other in a long time catching up (though we've never met).

 

[RunnerGame]

a hug and a hi, then would let the other person and theexpressions do the talkin

 

[Kain__Thornn]

"you're more beautiful in person"

 

[MsTexas]

I would wrap my arms around him and whisper in his ear "What took you so long"