A lover that you had a mad passionate relationship over a decade ago comes back in your life. What do you do? Somebody you've pined fore, longed for.. over a long period of time?
I have this same thing happen sometimes. I had really great relationships with some women in the past and they often (thanks to facebook) float in and out of my life.
As I am married and (forget the definition of cheating) would never step out on my wife. If I were still single I would be all over them all!
A guy I had dated for about 10 months had joined the military, and when he was sent away, we tried to stay in touch, but it got to be too emotionally difficult for both of us. We had an amazing relationship. We enjoyed the same things - sporting events, good beer, concerts, movies, and we had some pretty passionate times together. We really connected sexually. (even though I was much more naive than I am now, I look back on those days with very fiery memories)
About 3 years ago, I ran in to him while out with some friends. He's since moved back to the area, and had gotten married. When we saw each other, there was definitely a "chemistry" that can't be denied, but I held back because of the situation he was in.
If things had been different, I have no doubt that we could have picked up where things left off, and perhaps have even been elevated to a more mature relationship. But - I have often wondered what it would be like...