What would you change

[shy slave]

What would change about your personality if you could?

I would change two things

1. I would try to relax and not feel threatened when he talked with other women who need his support and advice

2. I would try to be more rational when explaining and emotional point

 

[catalina_francisco]

What would change about your personality if you could?

I would change two things

1. I would try to relax and not feel threatened when he talked with other women who need his support and advice

2. I would try to be more rational when explaining and emotional point

LOL, I can certainly relate to that last one...both being emotional and passionate beings can have it's downside at times.

Catalina

 

[Hisbabydoll26]

Sometimes I wish I wouldn't worry so much about what someone else would think or feel and put ME first. It's not in my makeup however so...I will live through others in that respect.

Oh yeah...and just once...I would like to say what I want to..when I want to...as I meant to say it.

 

[Recidiva]

I would like to change my oversensitivity to crowds or groups of people so I could enjoy groups of people more.

Can't turn down my emotional sensitivity. I'd like to have a dimmer switch.

 

[bridgeburner]

I'd like to be more comfortable with my own power. I'm learning to be better about this, but I've got a ways to go. I'm still too quick to give up my authority and it's a hard thing to get back once you've ceded it to someone else or, worse, a committee.

-B

 

[Shankara20]

I would like to be slower to criticize other at work for being who they are instead of who I want them to be.


I can be such a bitch at times.

 

[Blushing Bottom]

Perhaps Catalina but one must accept all sides of any facet. Intense emotions are the very essence of BDSM. So be passionate, rant, rave and enjoy.

LOL, I can certainly relate to that last one...both being emotional and passionate beings can have it's downside at times.

Catalina

 

[raven2]

I would try to say no to people more often. I do have a problem with being too accommodating.

 

[O'Mac]

I'm still a lot more shy than I would like to be. Admittedly, once I'm familiar with someone, I can say or do almost anything. Getting to that point of familiarity takes a while, though.

 

[serijules]

I'd be less quick to dislike people.

I'd worry less.

 

[bridgeburner]

I'd be less quick to dislike people.

How often are you wrong?

 

[FurryFury]

Sometimes I wish I wouldn't worry so much about what someone else would think or feel and put ME first. It's not in my makeup however so...I will live through others in that respect.

Oh yeah...and just once...I would like to say what I want to..when I want to...as I meant to say it.

Me too!

*hugs*

Fury

 

[leeroy jenkins]

I'm still a lot more shy than I would like to be. Admittedly, once I'm familiar with someone, I can say or do almost anything. Getting to that point of familiarity takes a while, though.

I agree with O'Mac I would try to be more social in the really real world. I wuold also like to more easy going and less rigid with others.

 

[serijules]

How often are you wrong?

Not very. But it still makes me feel like a bitch.

 

[bridgeburner]

Not very. But it still makes me feel like a bitch.

I can identify with that. ;->

 

[Kajira Callista]

my temper. it's ugly when i lose it.


always saying sorry even when things arent my fault. it annoys people.


i would also like a little more confidence in my every day self. subbie me does fine but the other me does not.

 

[leeroy jenkins]

my temper. it's ugly when i lose it.


always saying sorry even when things arent my fault. it annoys people.


i would also like a little more confidence in my every day self. subbie me does fine but the other me does not.

I think we can all use a bit more confidence KC and is that your breast your playing with??

 

[Kajira Callista]

I think we can all use a bit more confidence KC and is that your breast your playing with??

are you watching me?



oh you mean the av... it is mine and im not playing ...just sort of pulling the clamp.

 

[leeroy jenkins]

are you watching me?



oh you mean the av... it is mine and im not playing ...just sort of pulling the clamp.

Yummy

 

[Kajira Callista]

Yummy

thanks

 

[leeroy jenkins]

thanks

We still did not finish you know right, on the flirting thread that is.

 

[FurryFury]

my temper. it's ugly when i lose it.


always saying sorry even when things arent my fault. it annoys people.


i would also like a little more confidence in my every day self. subbie me does fine but the other me does not.

I say I'm sorry all the time too and it does annoy people.

Fury

 

[Chicklet]

I'd like to be more confident about my decisions and opinions - if I have them in the first place, why should I reconsider them based on my worry about other people's judgement?

Secondly, I wish I could stop unrealistic connections in my brain... such as... he didn't call tonight, obviously it's because he doesn't like me anymore, how dare he break up with me, what'd i do wrong, i'm so miserable now

 

[graceanne]

I'd annoy people less. (I've tried - when I'm trying to be unannoying I'm even MORE annoying - I gave up)

I'd like that dimmer switch that recidiva talks about. When people are in emotional pain it literally tears holes in my stomach.

 

[jadefirefly]

I'd like to stop worrying so much. About everything, anything, and even weird unrealistic things.

I'd like to be able to ask for things. This usually involves approaching people, and by asking it implies a suggested weakness, and I hate both of those.

Hell, I'd be happy just to be able to admit when I'm hurt, scared, or just cry when I need to. I'm such a guy sometimes; showing weakness is bad!