What would mom think?

[HzDomme]

What would your mom say if she found out you were into BDSM?

Mine would never believe it, would yours?

 

[kristydoll]

mine knows - and has been very accepting

kristy

 

[Goddess Helena]

Mine would not understand the term.


Helena

 

[bunny bondage]

well, my mom died when i was nine (don't say "aww" she was a bitch and dying was the only good thing she ever did for me) so i was raised by my dad. having a degree in psycology, he would probably analyize and pick apart my bdsm-ness (yes, i just made up a word)

 

[dirtylittleslut]

Well since my mom would have to go snooping around my room while she visits, I don't think she would say much. lol

 

[Cirrus]

God, my mother would throw a fit. Just for the sake of throwing a fit and trying to make me feel small. I don't tell her anything, ANYTHING at all about my personal life. I've been manipulated enough, thankyouverymuch.

And bunny, I hear you. My mother has cancer. The real kicker is, it's operable and most likely curable, yet she hasn't done anything about it because she wants to "use" it. As in, don't yell at me, I have cancer, don't say I'm wrong, I have cancer. She was in the hospital a few weeks ago, and the thought occured to me then, that horrible though this sounds, if she had died, I would have had to put hot peppers in my eyes to force myself to cry.

 

[gumbie]

Mom Knows...

Mothers always know waaaay much more about their children than we suspect. When i got married (many years ago) she was heard to annouce, "He married a woman? Amazing!"

How she knew it all i have never figured out.

 

[lark sparrow]

Re: Mom Knows...

Mothers always know waaaay much more about their children than we suspect. When i got married (many years ago) she was heard to annouce, "He married a woman? Amazing!"

How she knew it all i have never figured out.

LOL... that's so true in some regards!

My mother and I had a chance to talk about fetish/BDSM in general at one point, and before it could get personal (I think she sensed it very well could), she calmly said she had heard enough. I can respect that. If and when she wants to know more she will ask. She was wonderful when I "came out" at 18 as a lesbian - giving dear mom a break!

There was an ocassion when my step-father (her husband) was at my apartment and I forgot to parent-proof my walk-in closet. He never said anything but he had been in there to get something, and it would be difficult to miss floggers hanging on the wall. I hadn't thought of it all before or during his visit... after, I was definitely ! I guess it's our little unspoken secret.

My father and step-mother on the other end of the spectrum, know everything, and delight in the details of exploration. They're a bit "out there" themselves though.

 

[Freya]

I think my mother has ceased to be surprised by anything I do anymore. She knows much of the details of my former life, and I think she thinks I'm warped beyond repair now. She no longer judges me - she just sighs and accepts that she most likely will never be the Mother of the Bride in her lifetime. Plus her new boyfriend is a kinky old bugger, so she's having so much fun of her own, she has no time to worry about others. My dad and stepmother would be more concerned with what others would think of them if anything I do or did became public knowledge - but they are both fairly sexual creatures, so as long as nobody knew they'd probably not mind too much. My stepmother would gasp and say "I didn't know people did those kinds of things"

 

[Lancecastor]

Actually, it was my mother's copy of The Joy of Sex, the original one with the big illustrated chapter on Kink, I was reading when she caught me doing so.

So, although my mom and I don't talk about sex, I know she's a bit of a perv, so my guess is she wouldn't be surprised. Her dad was a pirate, after all.

Lance

 

[LC Rough Caress]

Holy shit, that's just too frightening to think about. First I'd be afraid she'd just die on the spot if I told her the truth about my interests, and if she didn't do that, she'd scream and rant about my perversity and how "evil" it was, and how much I needed to go to church more. My mother has some serious issues, and I'm afraid that they'd all come out if I told her about my interests in BDSM.

But I still love her.

 

[justgem]

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[kate8417]

My mother "accidentally" discovered some BDSM sites I had been checking out in the computer history when I was staying with them briefly after my divorce. Bless her heart, I think it was more out of concern for me than pure nosiness (though that figured in, too). She expressed concern in a very vague "I don't really want to know about this, but I'm worried" way. I reassured her that my interest was not a manifestation of any self-loathing and that, if she cared to find out more, I would be happy to direct her to some wonderful sites where she could read up on it. She declined, but she's a librarian and I knew damn well she would research it on her own! She hasn't said a word since, has met my Dom, LOVES him, and either knows or strongly suspects that there is a fairly high kink-factor to our relationship. The "don't ask, don't tell" policy is fully operable. In the final analysis, all she REALLY cares about is that her baby is happy and being treated well--what constitutes "well", she doesn't delve into!

My bio-dad, on the other hand, tells me WAY more about his own sex life than I want to know. I'm sure he would think mine was a bit weird, but basically cool. However, I don't tell him anything. I keep hoping he'll take the hint and follow suit!

My step-dad, who adopted me when I was a teen, probably knows, but doesn't say anything. Wonderful, kind, accepting man. I lucked out, second time around.

Happy Day!

 

[silkee_A]

My Mother would flip out!!!... considering at age 20, the day before I got married she gave me the "sex talk" which consisted of.. "your father and I used those rubber things for years, and they worked just fine" end of conversation, lol Thank god we were in seperate rooms, as I was laughing and she could not see my reaction...

silkee_A

 

[artful]

I can't help,...

...but to laugh along with all of you. I was separated from my Mother at an early age,...4 or 5 years old,...through divorce. They each remarried one time. The earliest remembrance I have of my Mother was meeting her when I was an early teen.

Throughout later years,....and up until the day she died,...*this* son could do no wrong. Now my Father was a different story altogether,...he would have asked me what techniques I employed, and probably added a new *sadistic* twist to them,...'all his own'.

Such is 'life'.

 

[MissTaken]

What would your mom say if she found out you were into BDSM?

Mine would never believe it, would yours?

My mom would probably start saying the rosary and then, race me into the local mental health unit.

She wouldn't understand or accept it, at all.

 

[rosco rathbone]

Someday, I'd like to explain to my mom that I get off by hitting women. I'd like her-and me- to understand what she had to do with my psychosexuality. I can't say I can see that ever happening, though.

She was a hardcore feminist. I have hardcore fantasies about "traditional marriage", wifebeating, rape and related topics. What a strange place this life is.

 

[Desdemona]

heh

My mom knows. I told her.

After I answered her questions, she said "hmmmm... wonder if your brothers or sister have ever tried that?".

I was curious so I found out the following.
One brother is a sub.
One brother is a Dom.
My sister is nilla.

 

[Guest]

I doubt mine knows what it is.

lol

Seriously, I don't.

My father does, though.

<Shudders.>

 

[redelicious]

My mom would organize an "intervention" and see to it that I got into therapy (she is very big on therapy anyway). Somehow or another though she would make it an issue about my weight.

My dad, on the other hand, would probably want to know if there were any websites I could suggest.

*shuddering at the idea of Dad posting here on Lit*

 

[LC Rough Caress]

My dad, on the other hand, would probably want to know if there were any websites I could suggest.

*shuddering at the idea of Dad posting here on Lit*

Christ...that's a frightening thought...meeting someone here on Lit, making a connection, and then finding out that it's one of your parents!

 

[Richard49]

What would your mom say if she found out you were into BDSM?

Mine would never believe it, would yours?

Though mom does not know the term BDSM
She knows I am a Dom and she sees that as normal

My mom turned 86 years old today

 

[TantaLiza]

Let's see...as far as my mom goes....she thinks that having your tongue pierced is canabalistic so I'm sure she'd admit me to a psycho ward!!! AND take away my child...fortunately for me, what she doesn't know won't hurt her!!

As for my dad....Lord knows what that man would do!! He's very manipulating so he may have a kinky side to himself...that's kinda scary to even contemplate....~~shudder~~

Oh yeah...another scary thing....my dad DID IM me....I had not a clue as to who he was....thank heavens I didn't start out the conversation with something naughty!!!! ~wiping forhead~ Whew!!!

Best of weeks to everyone!!!

Liza

 

[redelicious]

Christ...that's a frightening thought...meeting someone here on Lit, making a connection, and then finding out that it's one of your parents!

Doubly so if you have a thread of naked pictures here!

Ewwwwwwwwwwwwww

 

[redelicious]

Re: Re: What would mom think?

Though mom does not know the term BDSM
She knows I am a Dom and she sees that as normal

My mom turned 86 years old today

And here is wishing your Mom many more birthdays.