what women like ?

[grey brother]

My literary ambitions are already, apparently,
beyond my abilities. I want to describe a woman
enjoying arousing and pleasing a man by sucking
his penis. The truth is, as a guy, I have never even asked what is it a woman enjoys about sucking
-- assuming she does enjoy it. Is it pleasing him,
a kind of "I'm happy you're happy", is it tactile
and oral ? Does size matter ? How about penis movement, or excitement ? Is it a kind of a power trip, too ? I can't even start to write this story
unless I can get a woman's point of view.

Please, tell me either your perspective as a woman
or recommend to me a story where you think the woman's point of view is very well described.

Thank you all very much, grey brother

 

[karmadog]

From what the women I've been with have said, it might be any or all of the reasons you listed.

Every woman I've ever talked to said that excitement, the feeling that she might make him lose control, was a huge turn-on.

In short, women like giving blowjobs for the same reasons that I like eating pussy. We're not so different after all.

 

[LivingUnicorn]

Cringing

These kinds of posts always make me cringe! I am a woman. A mother and a wife. The reason I enjoy giving oral sex to my husband is very very different than the reason another woman enjoys giving oral sex to her husband.

You men always try to pigeon hole us women into "this is how they are" kinds of roles. Would you like it if we said all men were _______ (fill in the blank). I hope not.

My suggestion as a woman: Think about what you enjoy about some particular sexual act. Visualize yourself performing that act. Then describe those feelings but make the character a woman giving oral sex to a man. Or if you are homosexual at all, picture yourself giving a man oral sex and describe the feelings you have doing it.

Okay, now that I've given you my "teenage son lecture" I'll answer your question.

I enjoy the taste of my husband's cock. I enjoy looking up into his eyes and knowing that I'm giving him something he enjoys very much and doesn't get from anyone else. I like the texture and feel of his cum in my mouth, although the taste is something I haven't grown to enjoy yet.

Hope this helps.

LU

 

[mlyn]

Excellent answer LU

Anybody ever see Sex in the City? They had a good show on the topic... Samantha of course loved it, Charlotte was no way... and Miranda and Carrie were... have to give it to get it....

I think that covers it, 25% love or hate it, and 50% accept the reality...

Good luck Omni!

Mlyn