What was the worst way?

[alildevilish]

Youve had your heart broken? Completely crushed! The most coldhearted mean way youve been dumped. Also, did you get revenge or do you think revenges out?

 

[SweetCherry]

Hm, he said "I'm going for a cycle ride before work" and I found him 3 days later at his ex-girlfriend's place.

 

[wizbit9]

i had gone out to a party but decided to come home as i was a bit pissed

i opened the door to my flat which i paid good money to live. My girlfriend didnt live there but had a key to come over if things were getting stressed at home

as i walked in i found to my horror my mate (who she always slagged off) fucking her from behind on my bed

i went fucking livid didnt need to get revenge as i smashed a chair across his head and cracked his head open.

(this is the only time in my life i have ever been in a confrontational violent episode)

i had my heart completey broken as i would have given my life for this girl (honestly)

i have only just started speaking to her again 5yrs on. And him well he can go fuck himself for all i care

little bit of a sore point this one

 

[MissTaken]

He simply stopped keeping dates.

Then, stopped in long enough to borrow money that I haven't seen yet.

And never really said he doesn't want to see me anymore.

What hurt was everytime we made a date or plans for a weekend, I would get excited, thinking this time he would make it.

Then, after all that effort and anticipation, no call, no show and excuses being made to anyone we were to have spent time with.


Oh and the money? I WILL get that back!

 

[plasticman33]

Can't really think of any real devastating dumping, I've divorced twice, but I initiated those actions.

 

[alildevilish]

Mine is

He calls me one day from work and he says hes got a feeling im gonna break up with him. So I talk to him a while. I wanna dump him cuz hes been ignoring me for a while. Plus he cheated on me with a girl named sunshine. Anyhow on the phone he promised he loved me and hed never see or talk to her again. Five minutes later I call his house. To leave a message on his machine. And guess what happened next.
She lives there. Enough said. I was crushed.

 

[alildevilish]

I completely

i had gone out to a party but decided to come home as i was a bit pissed

i opened the door to my flat which i paid good money to live. My girlfriend didnt live there but had a key to come over if things were getting stressed at home

as i walked in i found to my horror my mate (who she always slagged off) fucking her from behind on my bed

i went fucking livid didnt need to get revenge as i smashed a chair across his head and cracked his head open.

(this is the only time in my life i have ever been in a confrontational violent episode)

i had my heart completey broken as i would have given my life for this girl (honestly)

i have only just started speaking to her again 5yrs on. And him well he can go fuck himself for all i care

little bit of a sore point this one

 

[Eagle70]

And i quote:

"You're a great guy...you're just too nice"

Seriously, i still havent gotten over that. how is it possible to be "too" nice? Ugh, it kills me, to this day.

 

[alildevilish]

Re: I completely

understand your point of view and I dont think I could have been as nice to her

 

[Guest]

 

[wizbit9]

Re: Re: I completely

understand your point of view and I dont think I could have been as nice to her

what can i say love is blind (and sometime thick as 2 short planks)

 

[ksmybuttons]

He got sick fast and died. Now that was a growth experience.

 

[bluntforcemama]

I told him I loved him after keeping it a secret for almost a year, and he became angry and walked out the door.

 

[Skibum]

Re: Re: What was the worst way?

The best revenge is moving on and looking good when he ses you with another!

I think you have men's feelings confused with women's. We don't care how good you look after we break up with you. Most guys, on seeing how good a former girlfriend looks, will only feel superior. They will be thinking, "I used to be with HER!." Just a subtle difference in the way we look at things.

 

[riff]

And i quote:

"You're a great guy...you're just too nice"

Seriously, i still havent gotten over that. how is it possible to be "too" nice? Ugh, it kills me, to this day.

Ah! Another member of the noble brotherhood.

Do you know how many times I have heard that? And it's almost always followed with "You'll always be special to me...."

The women who think you are too nice have a poor sense of self-worth and are looking to you to validate it. Ironically, they seek to improve their sense of self worth by seeking out assholes they can reform. And they can't because the only true change comes from inside. Then they wonder, why are men such jerks when they fail to reform them, thus validating their own poor self image.

How do I know? I am the other gender's version.

About a month ago I made a commitment to myself: No more.

You can never be too nice. You can never be too kind. You are probably a wonderful guy.

"The poor will be with you always."

Let them eat fishheads I say.

 

[Guest]

Re: Re: Re: What was the worst way?

 

[Private Vasquez]

It wasn't mean, but it was really tough.

He wanted to go back home to Samoa to play Rugby. He asked me to come, but I couldn't just leave school to go wander around with him. Even after he'd left he still wanted me to join him. There was nothing I could do.

He's in New Zealand now. I'm not sure if he's playing rugby or not.

 

[Eagle70]

Riff,

I've never heard such a response that truly makes sense. I've always been the "nice guy", while all the girls go after the assholes. It absolutly kills me. the thing is, i dont know how to go about changing...i dont want to change. i'm a nice guy, i'm not mean at heart, and i'm going to go about being a nice guy for the rest of my life...and ya know what? i feel like i'm gonna keep getting screwed, every time....<sigh> ya just cant win sometimes, ya know?

 

[Kitte]

I think the one that affected me the most was when my girlfriend sat me down told me she loved me but that she could not live life being seen as a " Lesbian" so it had to be over.
I was crushed. But luckily our friendship carried over, and in time I understood that it is a decision we all must make, on whether we will be who we are or who we want people to think we are.

 

[riff]

Riff,

I've never heard such a response that truly makes sense. I've always been the "nice guy", while all the girls go after the assholes. It absolutly kills me. the thing is, i dont know how to go about changing...i dont want to change. i'm a nice guy, i'm not mean at heart, and i'm going to go about being a nice guy for the rest of my life...and ya know what? i feel like i'm gonna keep getting screwed, every time....<sigh> ya just cant win sometimes, ya know?

Don't worry about it. Just be yourself. That's all that matters. Just be yourself.

Nice to meet you. Gotta go now....

Gotta do more, gotta be more....

I wish they had a peace sign emoticon.

 

[lobito]

Re: Re: Re: What was the worst way?

I think you have men's feelings confused with women's. We don't care how good you look after we break up with you. Most guys, on seeing how good a former girlfriend looks, will only feel superior. They will be thinking, "I used to be with HER!." Just a subtle difference in the way we look at things.

I think you have your feelings confused with men in general, adn that's not fair to other men. That's the way you think, not all other men.

 

[weed]

Riff,

I've never heard such a response that truly makes sense. I've always been the "nice guy", while all the girls go after the assholes. It absolutly kills me. the thing is, i dont know how to go about changing...i dont want to change. i'm a nice guy, i'm not mean at heart, and i'm going to go about being a nice guy for the rest of my life...and ya know what? i feel like i'm gonna keep getting screwed, every time....<sigh> ya just cant win sometimes, ya know?

Hang in there. I think as women get older they find the nice guys as more of a turn on, and as nice guys get older they turn women on more.

 

[DevilBoy79]

just up and leaving and going on with your life like i did, concerning my X who was a capital B with out her having a clue, but in general i dont know, just know i done more then my share of dumb stuff to break the heart of the woman i love, can be a total idot at times

 

[Guest]

I think that

breaking up is just painfull period