What Turns You On Most About Your S/O?

Beck31

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Gosh there are so many things that I can't name just one but I'll give it a try.
Um let me see here:

The way she gives me that sleepy smile when we wake up in the morning.
The way she Nuzzles my neck and tenderly kisses the tips of my ears/lobes.
Heck I am even turned on when she is clearly annoyed with me and grumpy.
I guess the biggest turn on for me about her is even when she gets mad and throws things, slams doors, when she still reassures me she loves me. :heart:

(was not sure where to post. F/SC board did not seem appropriate).
 
Beck,

Good luck with this thread. I don't think you are going to get many replies.
 
Hey, Beck, I love how you are so in love! Good on you both!

For me ...
The bigger picture things about my good woman:
She looks elegant and sexy in classic clothing whether office wear or evening dress or modest holiday wear. I turns me on not only that I see that but other men see that including some younger handsome men who are her colleagues and my friends. That gives me a buzz.
Her determination and drive to succeed in getting a knotty issue resolved; she always believes there's a way through, a next step, the opportunity for a fresh start. Her realistic positivity I could call it. That gives me a buzz.
There's more of that sort of stuff - let me come back another day with it.

But intimately:
Can she snog! Whether it's tender, or she's eating my mouth off and taking chunks out of my neck, she can't kiss me without making a bulge; I love that!
She does things with a finger on the palm of my hand; it's an indication of how she wants me to fuck her when next the opportunity arises; it's her own secret language of lust and I adore it.
Her orgasms: in our first months she was embarrassed and needed repeated assurance that I delighted in what happened to her. And I so do; my pleasure about her pleasure gets me bigged up time and again, and that feels really good.

So, Beck, I guess I'm in love too!
 
Sounds like it bro. Good for you. I really didn't expect many responces.
I think perhaps this thread is too mild for the likes of many Lit posters.
I guess the biggest turn on for me about my s/o is no matter how many times she gets annoyed with me and grumpy is her her ability to see things clearly when my judgement is clouded and suddenly none of the petty stuff matters anymore b/c I know she truly loves me. Sappy and corny I know but it works for me.
 
Everything... except the jeans he wears while working.

His thoughtfulness. His goofiness. His beard.

Sexually speaking, how his pleasure is in pleasing me.
 
Too many to list, but just a simple brush by him as he walks by gets me going. It's do subtle and looks innocent. Just let's me know he was thinking of me and loves me, loves how I look. Makes me feel like the most important woman ever.

Tifani
 
My Daddy makes me feel safe and loved and that's a total turn on! It helps that he's extremely attractive too! I love how strong he is :)
 
I love watching him get dressed in the morning for work. He focuses so much on the details. Picking the right tie, the right shirt, the right pants. I love watching him do up his buttons, or pull up his zipper. He gets this furrow in his brow. I can see him watching himself in the mirror, and he always has this expression; a mix between confidence and insecurity that leaves me undone.

I love when he walks around the house in the nude, doing the simplest things like putting on the coffee in the morning.
 
When he is playing his guitar. It doesn't matter if it's just in his bedroom or playing out with his band. Drives me wild. And he has the best "guitar playing" face I like to call it. It also drives me crazy when grabs me sexually in public. Nothing huge- like a slap or squeeze on my ass or a hand brushing past my waist or hips. I normally feign annoyance, but he knows :)
 
Cute thread! (^_^)/

I love that he is so neutral. He doesn't get riled up over stupid things and I've never seen him do something ridiculous out of anger. I love that I get angry and he's always steady and calms me down.

I absolutely LOVE watching him eat! The way he holds his chopsticks and the amount of food he can pack down! I love it even more when it's a meal I've made for him. ^_^

I love that he's goofy and handsome. :) He makes me smile and laugh everyday. He's considerate and gentlemanly. I love when we're walking along together and he holds his arm out for me to hold.

He's the best.

I'm happy this thread was here because sometimes when people are telling me about their SO it's not a good conversation. I want to explain how awesome Mister is, but it would feel like I was bragging. So... I'm bragging here! :D
 
Right now my "S/O" is laying in my bedside table waiting to be plugged in. Oh my sweet Mr. Hitatchi :cattail:
 
His scruffy face...it doesn't fit in with his profession and I love that.

And that he is insanely smart.
 
Many things about him turn me on. His overall personality, his loud hearty laugh, how he dotes on our nieces and nephews and god-children. The fact that he grows his hair well past his shoulders because he knows I think it looks so good on him that way.

But him cooking me breakfast in the nude or shirtless just slays me. Have to remind myself that I can't excessively grope him in the kitchen whilst he's tending hot eggs or grits in the pan, LOL!
 
Many things about him turn me on. His overall personality, his loud hearty laugh, how he dotes on our nieces and nephews and god-children. The fact that he grows his hair well past his shoulders because he knows I think it looks so good on him that way.

But him cooking me breakfast in the nude or shirtless just slays me. Have to remind myself that I can't excessively grope him in the kitchen whilst he's tending hot eggs or grits in the pan, LOL!

So you grope him in moderation then ... ;) Great what you have there, Torinona. He'll be a happy man!

You remind me that, when I was courting, I cut off my long hair without consulting my gf. I learned my lesson well. :( She still married me though! ;)
 
Yes, I grope with some modicum of moderation, because I just can't keep my hands off him, but I know I have to take care of my things properly if I want to enjoy them for a long time!

So you grope him in moderation then ... ;) Great what you have there, Torinona. He'll be a happy man!

You remind me that, when I was courting, I cut off my long hair without consulting my gf. I learned my lesson well. :( She still married me though! ;)
 
May things but to this day my husbands eyes still drive me wild. He has what I call "bedroom eyes" and other women have remarked that about him as well. Certain ways he can look at me and it gets me so turned on.
 
1. Her openness and willingness to explore new things with me.
2. Her secretly kinky side only I know about.
3. The way she looks in a skimpy dress and heels. Grrrr!
 
Her smile
Her acceptance of me unconditionally
The way she smacks her own ass as she walks away in answer to a question I ask
Her sexy body
Her laugh
Her analytical mind
Her balance to me in life
Her perfect tits ( of course they were gonna make the list, come on!)
Her willingness to try anything with me once at least
The fact that she knows how to turn me on everytime without even trying after all these years
 
The first time I saw him, I was kind of unglued. He looked good, of course.... but lots or people look good. I hadn't ever gotten all weak-kneed just meeting someone before.

he does this thing... he pulls you in. he has this quiet demeanor that maintains even though his voice can be pretty deep and omnipresent. he appreciates people, and you find yourself loving that he appreciates you. it's like him appreciating you MATTERS. he just becomes the center of the room, of any room. and he manages to do it without ever leaving anyone out... he makes every person feel like they're part of the group, like what they say matters....

and then he smiles at you. this gentle, wonderful, the-whole-world-is-full-of-magic-if-we'd-just-notice-it smile, all big and shining and warming.... and it's all yours. he's lifting you up and saying.... you are special.

all of which made him an awesome friend. and I loved him as a friend.

but he's so much more than that. he's smart in the most excruciating way.... he never thinks of anything from just one angle. everything is a matter of perspective, anything can be rebutted or re-examined and come out differently. you're never 100% right about anything... you're only as right as you can be from the data at hand. it makes him impossible to argue with, because he's always arguing your point as much as he's arguing his own.

He plays bass in a band... and freely admits that they're lousy. he plays softball on the worst team in their league. he doesn't care... he just loves playing. he's happy to have experiences and doesn't think in terms of judgement.

He's the only person I've ever been with that I can't figure out. sex with him doesn't make SENSE. I feel lost and scared... and it's like he's my lifeboat. I want to cling to him and never let go.

he was the first person that, when I had to keep my biggest secret from him.... it HURT. the first person I HAD to tell. and when I told him.... he still loved me.
 
There's other reasons why I love him, but what turns me on about him how he sometimes he absent-mindedly fiddles with my body through the day, working me up supposedly incidentally. His super sweet smile of delight he doesn't know he's doing when he watches me, as he brings me to orgasm. His contentment while suckling my breasts. When he gets an erection simply from seeing me walk through the door.
 
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