What to wear?????

[HottieMama]

OK... So I have been chatting with a local woman online and she asked me out to dinner on Saturday night. She seems nice...and well...nice. Truth be told, I am only really going because I want to practice my dating skills and think face to face is probably the best way to do that. I don't know her well enough at this point to even guess if there is the potential for any type of relationship. That said, I have NO idea what to wear. Dinner won't be fancy, just a casual restaurant. Basically, I want to give the "I know I look good but there is no way in hell we're fucking tonight" impression....

Help...

 

[Stella_Omega]

Women--speaking in a grossly generalising way-- don't judge another woman's availability by what she wears. They tend to judge by what she says.

She's a lesbian, not a man.

 

[HottieMama]

Stella..you *may* have a point about some lesbians, but not all and not necessarily the "type" I tend to attract. That said, I still don't know what to wear.

 

[BiBunny]

Edit: Never mind, the answer was in the OP. I'm just blind.

Will think on it and get back to you, HM.

 

[CutieMouse]

I always stick to "comfortable & confidant" for first dates. Which (in the summer) means a knee length linen skirt, cool white cotton top, low heel sandals/wedges, hair in a ponytail (or twist), and whatever lingerie helps me feel like I can take on an army [with a smile]. Dressy enough to be confidant, casual enough that it doesn't look like I "worked" at dressing for the evening.

But you also have to remember I don't own a single pair of jeans/slacks, rarely wear flats, and use lingerie as a tool.

 

[TarevaChine]

I don't think you can go wrong with a pair of black dress pants, nice top & heels.

 

[BiBunny]

I don't think you can go wrong with a pair of black dress pants, nice top & heels.

Yep. Or a casual sundress.

 

[midwestyankee]

I'm partial to comfortable accessorized by a warm smile. But then I'm not a woman.

 

[the captians wench]

I'm partial to comfortable accessorized by a warm smile. But then I'm not a woman.

So does that mean I can come to dinner with out clothes?

 

[midwestyankee]

So does that mean I can come to dinner with out clothes?

Don't forget the smile.

 

[FurryFury]

I like to wear clothes that fit what I want to be to that person, usually that means sexy. It can be sexy ho or it can be sexy classy. Have fun!

 

[the captians wench]

Don't forget the smile.

done.