What to do...

[GsxTC]

Ok,i am 28 y/o male,great physical shape,6'1 170lbs,well endowed. Ever since i can remember i can never last long while having intercourse. HJ's/BJ's are a different story,i can last and hold it for quite sometime. Its getting frustrating now that i am getting older and looking for help on what i should do. Also after i orgasm i can last for hours,its just that first initial one i can not last long at all....5-10 mins IF i am lucky!

I appreciate your help..

 

[Carnevil9]

So make the first one a quickie. In the cloakroom, in the car, in the hallway, in the kitchen, wherever. Then move to the bedroom for a long, slow, second round.

 

[FiestyRedHead]

If you're able to go at it a second time, then don't worry about it.

Make the excuse that she's just so sexy you couldn't help yourself.



It's just that if this is the 'only shot' then you'd better make sure she's been taken so well care of that she barely notices.
Else she may tend to want to slap you...

 

[califwineguy]

I would agree with Fiesty about not being worried about it as well as offering your lover a playful response. There are also exercises that you can do to work with your cock; Stroke it so you get close to cumming, then pull back; Then, do that over and over. This is similar to "kegel exercises" women do. There are a number of exercises its just finding the one thats right for you. But most of all, dont sweat it; Its all good as long as everyone is having fun.

 

[FiestyRedHead]

I would agree with Fiesty about not being worried about it as well as offering your lover a playful response. There are also exercises that you can do to work with your cock; Stroke it so you get close to cumming, then pull back; Then, do that over and over. This is similar to "kegel exercises" women do. There are a number of exercises its just finding the one thats right for you. But most of all, dont sweat it; Its all good as long as everyone is having fun.

Can you teach those to my husband, please??

**sigh**

 

[GsxTC]

Alright,thanks for the quick replies. I am able to get hard again after about 5 mins.
I will work on some of the exercises for sure,just tired of not making it great the first time around. I usually just give great oral until she gets off once or twice,then we get to it. Anyways thanks for the help and i LOVE this forum!

 

[SweetErika]

Does your lady have a problem with the 5-10 minute first round? Have you asked her if SHE prefers that to "lasting for hours"?

Because, for a lot of women, 5-10 minutes of thrusting is plenty, provided they're as aroused as can be or have already come. And really, it's a compliment when a guy is so excited by sex that he can't hold back.

Anyway, make sure you know HER preferences before you get set on lasting longer.

Masturbating, or otherwise getting off, earlier in the day, and condoms can help, too.

 

[EjAcKuLaToR]

What Erika said!

When I was younger and was going to be with a new girl, I'd always be EXTRA excited and had a tendency to cum too fast. If I jacked off before I went on the date...say when I was in the shower beforehand...I was still super-excited, but it allowed me to stay going for a PERFECT amount of time with her for the first time.

I actually had women who were very pleased with my first-time performance and said that most guys they were with came in the first minute or two the first time around.

Also, another technique you can use if wanking it is out of the question is just to do it without allowing yourself to focus and concentrate on how good it feels for a few minutes. Just relax and think about her, how pretty her hair is, how nice she looks, how good she smells, how nice the kissing is, etc...don't think about your pecker getting ready to shoot an epoch load up her crack.

I say that sort of jokingly, but sort of seriously. It's like getting drunk. If you're aiming to get drunk, you can do it off an amazing few drinks. However if you're not aiming to get drunk it may take you SEVERAL drinks to even feel a buzz. Same difference dude.

Either way...have fun.
Jack