What to do if the penis so big it hurts.

[tustin92614]

I have a good friend that really likes a guy, and just had sex with him for the first time. It was so big that she was in pain afterwards. A couple days later they tried again with a good lube, and she took top. But, it still was too big. She really likes the guy, so she is desperate to find a way to make it fit. I don't know if it makes a difference to this, but he is also uncut, which is a first for her, too. Never thought too much dick could be such a problem.

 

[Lord Pmann]

I don't have anything constructive to add, but when I saw this I immediately thought the question was the poster saying his dick was so big it hurt. Hahaha.

Sorry. Carry on.

I will say, constructively... Are they engaging in foreplay? Or is he shortening it to maybe a threeplay or a twoplay?

 

[tustin92614]

Ha ha. No. That is not the case!! I am a male friend of this young woman, but have never been accused of being over-endowed!!

Well, on the foreplay thing, I hear he is pretty good at going down, but, as you can imagine, she gets nervous, and that can never be good. She does have a slightly better experience after several drinks, so relaxing is a help.

 

[subdued_passion]

Clinical technique

Xylocaine gel 2%.

Apply, leave for 2 minutes. Proceed with penetration.

Happy times.

 

[rod43]

We need pictures to prove it

 

[NightL]

Slow and steady. The vagina is a stretchy little thing, it will work out. The more they have sex the more she will get used to his size. She needs to try and relax about it as much as she can, because the more anxious she is and the more worried that it will hurt, the more likely she is to feel discomfort.

so tell us about this experience

 

[NightL]

I know not of what you speak?!

I thought you were off to your live podcast on this "How Rainshine grew to GRIN with supremacy on mastering the big dick" haha

 

[Lord Pmann]

Pmann, what do you and your wife do? I mean you're always telling us how gigantic your penis is, after all??

Start with something small, like an oak tree stump. Work up from there.

 

[fma20fma]

hi

i like anal.pain is part of the act.I felt i was oblidging my bf by submitting to him.His sprits soared because he could penetrate into my colon. whimpering and cursing vile adds to the pleasure and the climax of receiving the juce in the colon is a reward.

 

[tustin92614]

Xylocaine gel 2%.

Apply, leave for 2 minutes. Proceed with penetration.

Happy times.

I had never heard of Xylocaine. That is a desensitizer, right?? Will it slow down her response? It would defeat the purpose if she can get it in but then not get off to it!! Ha ha. Where would you apply it?? On the inside of the lips? Deeper inside? She's hoping to get him to do some pre-stretching during foreplay with a large dildo. If he can get her lubed up good, and get the opening stretched in a way that she stays relaxed, I think that gives her the best shot, so to speak. Thanks.

 

[tustin92614]

Slow and steady. The vagina is a stretchy little thing, it will work out. The more they have sex the more she will get used to his size. She needs to try and relax about it as much as she can, because the more anxious she is and the more worried that it will hurt, the more likely she is to feel discomfort.

That is solid advice. She is really upset about this. That, of course, just makes the issue bigger, so to speak. I ended up getting her a really big realistic dick and some good lube. I recommended that she practice with it on her own to see if she could make that work comfortably. Then, see if he would be OK with using it on her during foreplay to get it pre-stretched and lubed. Seems like he should be up to it, although she doesn't know if he's comfortable using toys with her. That's about all I could think of. If there was just a way for him to give me a couple of those un-wanted inches. Ha ha. Thanks.

 

[subdued_passion]

I had never heard of Xylocaine. That is a desensitizer, right?? Will it slow down her response? It would defeat the purpose if she can get it in but then not get off to it!! Ha ha. Where would you apply it?? On the inside of the lips? Deeper inside? She's hoping to get him to do some pre-stretching during foreplay with a large dildo. If he can get her lubed up good, and get the opening stretched in a way that she stays relaxed, I think that gives her the best shot, so to speak. Thanks.

Xylocaine gel works as a muscle relaxant so her muscles will relax and allow for comfortable penetration. IF you think that will prevent her from getting off then you need to learn a bit about the female orgasm and how to induce it.

There's a strong chance that she will already know how to get herself off.

 

[soflabbwlvr]

Sandpaper.

 

[subdued_passion]

I have a good friend that really likes a guy, and just had sex with him for the first time. It was so big that she was in pain afterwards. A couple days later they tried again with a good lube, and she took top. But, it still was too big. She really likes the guy, so she is desperate to find a way to make it fit. I don't know if it makes a difference to this, but he is also uncut, which is a first for her, too. Never thought too much dick could be such a problem.

^^^Your friend needs to learn a thing or two about pleasing her boyfriend from the poster below.

i like anal.pain is part of the act.I felt i was oblidging my bf by submitting to him.His sprits soared because he could penetrate into my colon. whimpering and cursing vile adds to the pleasure and the climax of receiving the juce in the colon is a reward.

If her vag won't, her colon will.

 

[subdued_passion]

Sandpaper.

It's a vag, not a piece of wood that you buff it to size!

And buffing with sandpaper would take too long (unless you use a 320 grain sheet).

 

[tustin92614]

^^^Your friend needs to learn a thing or two about pleasing her boyfriend from the poster below.




If her vag won't, her colon will.

I will let her raise that particular topic herself! As a friend, I can only do so much.

 

[subdued_passion]

Kind of a stupid question... But when she says too big, does she mean too thick or too long or does the guy have a Pmann cock?

 

[tustin92614]

Kind of a stupid question... But when she says too big, does she mean too thick or too long or does the guy have a Pmann cock?

I have no familiarity with the Pmann member, but she only says it is too wide to go in. I assume that its an issue with the initial opening. I have never seen his dick, but apparently the shaft gets much wider toward the base, as she says that even when they get it in, it gets stuck half way in. I know way too much about this.

 

[soflabbwlvr]

I have no familiarity with the Pmann member, but she only says it is too wide to go in. I assume that its an issue with the initial opening. I have never seen his dick, but apparently the shaft gets much wider toward the base, as she says that even when they get it in, it gets stuck half way in. I know way too much about this.

I've got a belt sander that could fix that problem

 

[tustin92614]

I've got a belt sander that could fix that problem

I was more thinking of asking for him to donate some to me for a transplant. That would help him, my friend, and me out.

 

[Miles Long]

I love anal sex but that description was enough to put me off it for life.

But his sprits [sic] soared.

 

[Emerson40]

It's a vag, not a piece of wood that you buff it to size!

And buffing with sandpaper would take too long (unless you use a 320 grain sheet).

I think the poster was suggesting a little come off the top and sides of Mr. Hymen Buster, not the girl.

As for 320 grit... fine for polishing and a soft, smooth finish when working at the Yankee Workshop, but I would suggest a coarser 50 or 40 grit to quickly bring down the girthy-girth.

I love anal sex but that description was enough to put me off it for life.

Perhaps you are just lacking the intestinal fortitude.

 

[subdued_passion]

As for 320 grit... fine for polishing and a soft, smooth finish when working at the Yankee Workshop, but I would suggest a coarser 50 or 40 grit to quickly bring down the girthy-girth.

See, if this was an Indian site no one would've spotted my gaffe. Coz the guy who knows the stuff wouldn't know how to type in English, and the guy who types in English is clueless about woodworking.

I think the poster was suggesting a little come off the top and sides of Mr. Hymen Buster, not the girl.

Emerson, I would think that as a guy, you would promote waxing a man's knob and not buffing some off.

 

[subdued_passion]

I love anal sex but that description was enough to put me off it for life.

It's quite obvious that you don't really love anal or else you'd have appreciated the visual poetry of the highlighted text.

i like anal.pain is part of the act.I felt i was oblidging my bf by submitting to him.His sprits soared because he could penetrate into my colon. whimpering and cursing vile adds to the pleasure and the climax of receiving the juce in the colon is a reward.

 

[subdued_passion]

I love anal sex but that description was enough to put me off it for life.

It's quite obvious that you don't really love anal (or your partner... just like the OP's friend) else you'd have appreciated the visual poetry of the highlighted text.

i like anal.pain is part of the act.I felt i was oblidging my bf by submitting to him.His sprits soared because he could penetrate into my colon. whimpering and cursing vile adds to the pleasure and the climax of receiving the juce in the colon is a reward.