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What the hell…Chilly’s little spot on lit

Not a Debbie downer moment but just a thought of thoughts…

Packing up this house is harder than I thought. Not just the physical act of getting rid of all this stuff. So many freaking memories. So many great moments and failures.

Realizing that I am the common denominator in all my failed relationships…my therapist would say that’s not true but how could it not be???

Amazing how you can make your life fit into a dozen Rubbermaid totes.
 
Chillygirl said:
Not a Debbie downer moment but just a thought of thoughts…

Packing up this house is harder than I thought. Not just the physical act of getting rid of all this stuff. So many freaking memories. So many great moments and failures.

Realizing that I am the common denominator in all my failed relationships…my therapist would say that’s not true but how could it not be???

Amazing how you can make your life fit into a dozen Rubbermaid totes.
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My therapist says the same thing....Who is the common denominator in MY failed relationships....in MY case...i's ME! dammit. Does NOT do much for my self esteem or ego. I can tell you THAT!
I have Rubbermaid totes all over the place too! Am here if you need to talk. PM me if you'd like
 
Chillygirl said:
Today my therapist told me I need to work on reconnecting with myself and finding my voice. I had thought I was confident in myself…until she pointed out that I was still letting my ex control my life.
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Do we have the same therapist and we don't even KNOW it? DAMN!
 
We are always going to have good memories mixed in with bad ones, that's just a fact. I think what we do with them is the important part.

I don't apply this to my ex-husband, but a Litster once told me not to cry for what we had to put aside, our feelings and desires, as he left Lit...but, to remember and smile at what we had. If only for a little while. My Bear was a very wise man.

I've tried to continue that, and sometimes it's hard, but it really has helped me appreciate the people who come into my life, if only for a little while.

Maybe these words might help you, too.
 
Chillygirl said:
Well I used to have a personal ad but it became more of something else and I deleted it…so let’s try again minus the personal ad part! I’ll post pics, thoughts, memes and whatever pops into my little brain. Feel free to contribute, ask questions or just chat!

The last 48 hours have sucked. Life is kicking my ass. Karma has not taken care of my ex like I had hoped. And the phone call with him tonight 😡🙄😤😫 so it’s time to sit back with a Skrewball whiskey and Coke and a good smut novel.

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Am sorry that happened. That was me 3 years ago. I can relate. Sending you a couple caring hugs with no hidden agenda.
 
Chillygirl said:
Not a Debbie downer moment but just a thought of thoughts…

Packing up this house is harder than I thought. Not just the physical act of getting rid of all this stuff. So many freaking memories. So many great moments and failures.

Realizing that I am the common denominator in all my failed relationships…my therapist would say that’s not true but how could it not be???

Amazing how you can make your life fit into a dozen Rubbermaid totes.
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It's better to have love and lost than never to have loved at all.

Time to hit the reset button. W/ that said, you now know what you like, want, and what to look for in the next person. The memories can never be taken away. Cherish the good ones and forget the bad ones. Enjoy life. Do what YOU want to do and don't worry about others. I'm working on that part. Don't have someone telling me what to do, where to go, and when I should be somewhere. Life is a little more peaceful and relaxing.

Good luck @Chillygirl
 
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