What the fuck?

Recidiva said:
I'll keep you posted.

My guess is I won't hear back.

This leads to another question, one of compliments and pressure.

Although it's nice to begin a conversation with a compliment, one does hope it goes somewhere.

Often I've said a simple "thank you" and get back "IS that all you're going to say!?" sorta thing.

To which I respond. "Yes."
Well for the pervs....yes...I agree, no answer to the perverts

For the sincere...No......remember, they honestly like you,...they deserve an honest, but polite response....No?
 
smy3th said:
Good form letter. Maybe you could add at the beginning: "Dear Sir/Madam/Recipient/Occupant/Degenerate"

And at the bottom, add: "This is an automatically generated response. No humans participated in the sending of this message. Please do not respond to this message. You have been added to our mailing list and may from time to time receive commercial messages from us regarding products that may be of value to those in your interest category. If you wish to be removed from our e-mail list, please click the following link: http://www.you-are-screwed.com/eat-shit-and-die.htm"
*chuckle*....
 
garbage can said:
Well for the pervs....yes...I agree, no answer to the perverts

For the sincere...No......remember, they honestly like you,...they deserve an honest, but polite response....No?

Well, this is hard to tell.

This is why I'm asking guys.

Because I love conversations that start somewhere. "I love what you said" or "I disagree, tell me what you think" or something with context.

An unsolicited message about how I look?

This is just one of those things that illustrates a gap I'm trying to define. It's one of those things that might be different about the genders that I'm trying to clarify. I don't really care how someone looks, don't particularly care how I look.

Being complimented on looks isn't always a compliment.

Yes, it's flattering if you have an opinion about the person giving it to you, but it can sound like the catcalls that come from a random construction site as you walk by. Do I stop each gentleman and thank him kindly for his interest in my breasts and expressing appreciation?
 
Recidiva said:
Do I stop each gentleman and thank him kindly for his interest in my breasts and expressing appreciation?
that is a great idea. Do it randomly to the ones that glance at your chest as your walking by.


I didn't read the whole thread. Did you ignore the Pm or did you respond by saying, "what a strange way to start a conversation".
 
snasu said:
that is a great idea. Do it randomly to the ones that glance at your chest as your walking by.


I didn't read the whole thread. Did you ignore the Pm or did you respond by saying, "what a strange way to start a conversation".

Garbage Can composed one for me.

Tasteful and suits almost all occasions.
 
And I have to say I can't dismiss all of the perverts.

Some of them are the very clever people that make me laugh, and I like having them around, I simply can't sleep with them.
 
Recidiva said:
Well, this is hard to tell.

This is why I'm asking guys.

Because I love conversations that start somewhere. "I love what you said" or "I disagree, tell me what you think" or something with context.

An unsolicited message about how I look?

This is just one of those things that illustrates a gap I'm trying to define. It's one of those things that might be different about the genders that I'm trying to clarify. I don't really care how someone looks, don't particularly care how I look.

Being complimented on looks isn't always a compliment.

Yes, it's flattering if you have an opinion about the person giving it to you, but it can sound like the catcalls that come from a random construction site as you walk by. Do I stop each gentleman and thank him kindly for his interest in my breasts and expressing appreciation?
The last paragraph simply means the guys like what they see, you can just wave, and blow them a kiss.....or walk on by.

I have sent unsolicited Pm's, complimenting a woman on her av, her profile pic, or whatever......I simply say..."this is a compliment, not a perv"....I always get a positive response.

People can only compliment you on what they see....either your looks, your writings or your demeaner........ :rose:
 
garbage can said:
The last paragraph simply means the guys like what they see, you can just wave, and blow them a kiss.....or walk on by.

I have sent unsolicited Pm's, complimenting a woman on her av, her profile pic, or whatever......I simply say..."this is a compliment, not a perv"....I always get a positive response.

People can only compliment you on what they see....either your looks, your writings or your demeaner........ :rose:

Yes, but don't you think the pervs have caught on to your approach? :)
 
Recidiva said:
Yes, but don't you think the pervs have caught on to your approach? :)
You know what Recidiva.....methinks yer too much fer me.

However, pervs never catch on...

Catchcha again............ :rose:
 
Recidiva said:
Mostly so they don't become bitter, unloved and holding a deep and abiding hatred of the gender they wish to attract.
You are entirely too kind to perverts. Us perverts appreciate that.
 
Stuponfucious said:
Yes. Although I usually prefer to insult them instead.

Well, that works as a guy.

For some guys, though, that's like perfume.

"She wants me. She smells of pursuit."
 
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