What Started Your Kink?

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What Started Your Kink? Masturbated into a sock for a foot/stocking fetish? Spanked a lot as a little girl? An older woman (mother) walked into the school cafeteria when you were 11 and yelled at you in front of 200 kids and now you like women bossing you around?

For me, my ex-wife used to get mad that I masturbated. So I invited her to watch/help. At first she was into it every morning and participated lots. Later, she'd just lift her shirt up so I could cum on her chest. Later, she didn't even bother to wake up as I stood over her sleeping body.

Whatta got folks? Let's hear your stories.
 
For me, it's CFNM (clothed female, nude male), because growing up, there seemed to be a lot of TV shows & movies about a guy reluctantly winding up naked in front of one or more sexually-aggressive ladies who tease and take delight in the male's predicament.

Both Lobo and a tv pilot, Three Eyes, had identical plotlines about a cop having to go undercover and reluctantly pose nude for a Playgirl-style magazine and having to deal with a smirking female photographer.

Another one was the movie, Wimps, where the main character is running from cops and accidentally runs on stage of a strip club and then gets stripped and groped by the dancers.

Other stuff too.
 
I'm all about thigh high stockings and hosiery. That just goes back to the day when I was 13 years old and my neighbor's Victoria's Secret catalog was misplaced in our mailbox. Getting a magazine full of Frederique Van der Wal, Stephanie Seymour, and Heather Stewart-Whyte in all their mid-1990's bodysuited glory was manna from heaven to a hormone-saturated teenage boy. Happiest day of my life.
 
My grandfather's refused lover of youth, neighbor local school teacher and known witch choose 'secret' spot on the creek for her granddaughters to skinny dip and sunbath nude so that I couldn't miss the sight, no chance. Girls were very punctual, come every day almost the exact same time, with few variations for weekend and really hot time when they sometimes spent the entire day there. Initially only one, the grandma's apprentice, learned I do wath. She's predatory like me and didn't mind me, but we reached an agreement that her sister and mother shouldn't know. For that she invited other girls over, and made a show specially for me sometimes. The show run for ten seasons... Then, one summer I become greedy... for a short time it was fun, but after that autumn they never come back.
 
For me it was a particularly beautiful pregnant lady who was known to the family. It was summer and she wore very little. She had medium sized but clearly full of milk tits and a sexy bump. I remember thinking about her bring laid on her back, taking a cock until it came inside her to put her in such a position. I got some family photos of us all and cropped out the family....
 
I think it was when I ran my car over it. Damned garden hasn't been right since!
 
When I was younger I was mistaken for a girl by two guys. By the time they found out we were so far along that they just took me. That window into how sexy and empowering it is to be a woman has left a lingering craving.
 
I suppose it was well into my relationship with my wife when i realized how much i love and trust her that the flood gates on my perversions opened
 
My love of shemales started when I found my bosses stash of porno mags 20 plus years ago and there was some pics of a shemales threesome with a man and woman ever since then I've loved them.i wish I could remember that magazine.
 
My love of shemales started when I found my bosses stash of porno mags 20 plus years ago and there was some pics of a shemales threesome with a man and woman ever since then I've loved them.i wish I could remember that magazine.
 
Definitely it started on my honeymoon when my wife first stuck her finger up my ass. She said she never wanted our sex life to get boring. Well it never has
 
I used to be a bully and mock people. Now that I am older I realized I became worse then those I used to tease so the humiliation fetish comes from that
 
It started for me many years ago. My wife started a new job in a coffee shop. She soon developed an attraction to a regular customer. He ended up taking her to a hotel where he screwed her! I was livid! It also ruined us. But we kept it together and moved on. Soon after though, her tryst flipped a switch. I started liking the idea of another man fucking her. I started fantasizing about it and hoped she'd do it again. Now we're in a hotwife lifestyle where three other men have fucked her!!
 
Seeing an Asian woman in Playboy circa 1969 with pubic hair. That started my love for Asian women.
 
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I may have posted this somewhere on this site, it was a couple of things, when I was about 10 I moved into a new town and became friends with some kids my age. There was a girl about 12 or so who started hanging with us, I had sisters so I knew the difference between boys and girls, but didn't know much about sex. This girl one day said she had a club house up the street, we followed her and went to this old abandoned large pool which was part of a old hotel that was torn down. She opened up this trap door in the ground and climbed down, it was the filter and pump room I guess. The room had some old chairs and blankets. She took three of us down there and said had we ever touched a girl before, we all shook our heads no, she proceeded to get naked and I got a hard on on my little dick. She proceeded to be our "teacher" for many different things... Then one day she apparently moved and there was construction at the pool which totally dug everything up and that led me to find other ways. Hopefully this is okay to post. The other main thing was , we moved again, a couple of years later, one of the kids I became close friends with had me over his house , we went out on the back porch which was a screen porch or maybe a three seasons room. He brought out some nudist magazines, after reading through a few, I was very hard, he then whips his cock out and says, go ahead you too, we then began regular masturbation sessions, and his parents and sister would watch, but they never did anything directly to us
 
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It was an older porn flick, Chamelons with Ashlyn Gere and Diedre Holland. Seeing Ashlyn Gere with a strapon was incredible. Have never gotten that o,age out of my mind.
 
1974. Making out with my girlfriend after church. She always wore pantyhose and the first time she pulled out my cock during a handjob and rubbed it against her thigh, I was hooked.
 
Define "kink". Is it kinky to prefer cumming in a woman's mouth over anywhere else? Pulling out while fucking when I'm ready to cum and then jerk it into her open mouth or have her suck me off? I suppose that started very early when I saw some 8 mm "stag flicks" that belonged to a friend's dad. My friend found the hiding place and we watched several times. Several featured cunt to mouth cum shots and I was loving it. Finally found a girl in college that let me do it. Over the years there have been a fair number of cooperative and even enthusiastic women into it, but never enough. The ones into it are goddesses in my book.

Or is fucking a bound open and vulnerable woman kink. Got into that later in life when I had a married lady friend who herself wanted it. The first time I got the erotic jolt of knowing that when she was bound and helpless I could fuck her any way I wanted. Add a blindfold so she didn't know what's coming next and it's something I love. Again, I've had some that loved it and some that flat out refused. There's a special place in my heart and memory for those ladies into it.
 
well, I don't know if I would call them kinks, but some might

um, the flashing. It was just simple young truth or dare games. Dare - flash that security camera, dare - flash the next car that drives by, dare - flash the next man that walks by. And it was fun. Thus I started doing it for fun often. Voyeurism was simply because finding places that entertained my exhibitionist urges had others who enjoyed showing off and performing too, thus you watch.

Lingerie, well like many a young lady, I went through the older men phase, because it was fun, and I enjoyed the relationship style. Older men with young girlfriends tend to be a bit heavy on the gift giving, and often lingerie is a common gift. They buy you something, wanting you to wear it because they think it will look good on you. And damn, they are right. It looks really fucking hot. Thus I caught the sexy underthings bug decades ago. Hands down, my favorite introduction was garters and thigh high stockings. But so many sexy things. It is my favorite thing to shop for, and I do love shopping. It combined well with the exhibitionism too.
 
For me it was the "I'll show you mine if you show me yours" games and dares as pre adolescent that had an effect on me. That and mutual masturbation with my best friend when we were very young ternagers
 
Mine came from here... Lit opened my sexual world wide. I have since played around with fantasies and sexual acts and found what revs me up and what doesn't.
 
My exhibitionist tendencies probably came from getting my bikini top pulled off at a pool party by my then friend. As embarrassed as I was I also got a major thrill from it.
 
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