Ssbbw4u1974
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Omg, I have tokophobia, (the fear of getting/being pregnant) so I 100% don't do breeding fantasies.
Mother/son isn't my kink or fantasy AT ALL.
What Squicks You Out?
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Mother/son isn't my kink or fantasy AT ALL.
BiBunny
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Omg, saaaaaaame! Cuckolding is one fantasy I cannot get my head around, not even in theory. I do it regularly on calls, but it just doesn't make sense to me.
I feel you!
Yep, no to both of those for me, too.
cascadiabound
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I had a patient many years ago whose partner loved to make her pregnant in spite of not wanting additional children. Made a huge impression on me and not in a good way.
I think if I could get pregnant still I'd have a healthy amount of tokophobia, but the whole breeding fantasy kink is definitely a no thank you/squicks me out kinda deal. On the other hand, lactation fantasies don't squick me out at all. If it were practical and didn't require a full time effort and I could just lactate for a weekend, it would be great. Too bad bodies don't work that way.
Agree. Completely squicks me out.
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I’m not generally speaking very easily squicked. One thing that squicks me out, though, and this won’t be a popular opinion, is DDlg.
Active sexual age play scenes don’t generally squick me out, because I see it as two adults roleplaying. Age play is in many ways a very ultimate taboo, and lots of people like taboo. It’s a very clear power imbalance. I get it.
But the way people talk about DDlg (granted, I haven’t heard/read it talked about much for years because I actively avoid the topic, so maybe it isn’t like that anymore?), it doesn’t come across as a roleplay kink, but rather as a “label” or “ethos” that covers their entire dynamic/relationship. And that squicks me out.
Even though I actively avoid the topic, I still see mentions to it, and it bothers me a whole lot that DDlg is often framed as loving and caring as a juxtaposition to other dynamics. Like if someone new comes here and tells that she’s had a shitty experience and doesn’t want hard core masochism or to have her limits walked over, the answer (in my opinion all too often and too easily) is “check out DDlg”, as if it’s some sort of a silver bullet or a paragon of a non-shitty relationship model and a cure for mismatching limits or a lack of communication (skills).
Spit also squicks me out. I’m more than fine with pee, accidental poo is also okay, but it’s spit that makes me physically gag.
Active sexual age play scenes don’t generally squick me out, because I see it as two adults roleplaying. Age play is in many ways a very ultimate taboo, and lots of people like taboo. It’s a very clear power imbalance. I get it.
But the way people talk about DDlg (granted, I haven’t heard/read it talked about much for years because I actively avoid the topic, so maybe it isn’t like that anymore?), it doesn’t come across as a roleplay kink, but rather as a “label” or “ethos” that covers their entire dynamic/relationship. And that squicks me out.
Even though I actively avoid the topic, I still see mentions to it, and it bothers me a whole lot that DDlg is often framed as loving and caring as a juxtaposition to other dynamics. Like if someone new comes here and tells that she’s had a shitty experience and doesn’t want hard core masochism or to have her limits walked over, the answer (in my opinion all too often and too easily) is “check out DDlg”, as if it’s some sort of a silver bullet or a paragon of a non-shitty relationship model and a cure for mismatching limits or a lack of communication (skills).
Spit also squicks me out. I’m more than fine with pee, accidental poo is also okay, but it’s spit that makes me physically gag.
cascadiabound
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Respect @seela
Appreciate you saying your piece. I agree there is no cookie cutter answer to what to try if you've had a bad experience and any dynamic can have a whole range of how people behave, what they expect and find acceptable or not.
Also... I'm also squicked out about spit. Don't spit on me, don't spit at me, just don't. Ewww.
Appreciate you saying your piece. I agree there is no cookie cutter answer to what to try if you've had a bad experience and any dynamic can have a whole range of how people behave, what they expect and find acceptable or not.
Also... I'm also squicked out about spit. Don't spit on me, don't spit at me, just don't. Ewww.
IrisAlthea
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Hm, I agree about how some people talk about it, being hard to digest.
I’m sure that my own parental unit issues are inserting themselves (nothing super bad, but still issues), but I do get the same feelings when people get very close to the fetishism that is/was(? )in the diagnostic manuals. It’s a one track mind that is too close to the pavlovian - like the rat manically pushing that lever in the lab.
I think it’s that behaviour/way of thinking that I would call a squick for me and why I was happy about the birth of the fetish forum.
Oh, and bugs. So squick I forgot.
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BiBunny
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Oh, God, I have so many opinions on DD/lg. If I aired most of them here, I'd get run off the boards. So I do not begrudge anybody dislike of the whole thing, lol.
There was a time when it wasn't something people talked about a lot. Now, the whole world has jumped on the bandwagon, and I feel like the kink has suffered as a whole for it. But I'm just old and tired, and that's strictly my opinion.
Spit and bugs are also gross, I agree.
There was a time when it wasn't something people talked about a lot. Now, the whole world has jumped on the bandwagon, and I feel like the kink has suffered as a whole for it. But I'm just old and tired, and that's strictly my opinion.
Spit and bugs are also gross, I agree.
BiBunny
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Yeah, that sounds pretty icky to me, too!
naughty_stories
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The spit thing causes me to gag.. not just as a D/s thing but there was a mainstream movie with a lesbian couple where one basically drooled into the others open mouth, who then swallowed with this look of pure joy on her face. Had to close my eyes.
BiBunny
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Oh, ew. Absolutely not.
BiBunny
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I'm fascinated by the idea of sounding in theory, both giving and receiving. But I'd hate to screw someone up medically somehow by doing it, so that one will probably remain in fantasy!
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Feet. Not yucking any yums but ... I don't want to touch your feet, I don't want you to touch my feet, I don't want to look at feet or think about feet. 
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No disrespect intended, whatsoever, but that made me a little sad...Feet. Not yucking any yums but ... I don't want to touch your feet, I don't want you to touch my feet, I don't want to look at feet or think about feet.
The feet take such a beating, carrying the full weight of the body, that I think they need a good, thorough massage to undo the effects...
PrettyLilPussy19
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I totally appreciate your appreciation of them!!
It's a personal squick though. I enjoy things on this list that squicks others out.
Boat1
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I completely understand, as it's the same for me!I totally appreciate your appreciation of them!!
It's a personal squick though. I enjoy things on this list that squicks others out.
Heck, I'm a Capricorn Goat... I don't have feet, I've got hooves and I wouldn't want anyone to have to touch them. Lol
BiBunny
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Feet. Not yucking any yums but ... I don't want to touch your feet, I don't want you to touch my feet, I don't want to look at feet or think about feet.
Not a personal squick for me, but I see why it would be!
twister947
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My wife talked me into getting a pedicure; never again.
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LMAO!
Mine's been wanting me to get one.
I told her that IF I do, the tip will be 4 times the price of the pedicure....
Britva415
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The first time I ever even heard of it at all was when a guy, not quite a stranger, but almost, casually asked me if I thought sticking a AA battery in there sounded fun.
Jeez, I get it, you're kinky, but you haven't even flirted with me at all. Talk about moving way too fast!
I try not to let that insane first impression color my view of all sounders. But even the "starting small" idea has never held any appeal.
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I've had enough medical issues that involved catheterization and sounding that I will NEVER see that in a sexual context.
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I wish I could give you 1,000,000 "likes" for that!
I've had ONE "up periscope" voyage made into me, no dope, no booze, no nothing...
I bet the railings on that hospital bed are still bent beyond use.
twister947
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You guys are making a big deal out of nothing.
