what signs do u look for.....?

rallas40

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I was just wondering how do u know if u r giving a good kiss. Cause the girl(not g/f yet) i have been kinda seeing, whenever we start to kiss she starts to move her head from right to left and starts grinding on me... So i was wondering if this is a sign of A DAMN GOOD KISS or what... Also i was wondering what signs to look for to know if u r giving a good kiss or not...

Also she said that i am BY FAR the best kisser she has ever kissed:D
 
well... if she said it, then she's either lying or telling the truth. my guess is she's telling the truth if she's grinding into you. I only grind into someone when I'm turned on by them. I think that a lot of other women are the same way (I could be mistaken though). just keep doing what you're doing, and if she doesnt like it then she'll tell you eventually.
 
Welcome to lit rallas! You are so cute! Sounds to me like she's enjoying every second while you're kissing her. Don't worry too much about it. We've all been there, and we've all survived. The more you can relax, the more you will both enjoy.
 
Willing and Unsure said:
well... if she said it, then she's either lying or telling the truth. my guess is she's telling the truth if she's grinding into you. I only grind into someone when I'm turned on by them. I think that a lot of other women are the same way (I could be mistaken though). just keep doing what you're doing, and if she doesnt like it then she'll tell you eventually.

Agreed.....
 
I wouldn't say that grinding is the sign of a good kiss, but it is a sign that she is enjoying herself.

But yeah, just relax and enjoy. :) Overanalysis will kill that stuff.
 
I gotta agree...I believe that the gyrating of the hips is a instinctual function of the body, caused by sexual arousal, no? If you're kissing her and she's grinding into you, then yeah you're doing well. :) then again, she could just be lying...but that's not something a "normal" person would fake, would they??
 
Unless you just won the lottery, that is. :) Or your rich uncle just got diagnosed with cancer. Then you'd have to watch out. Those women are tricky.
 
I just wanna say thanks to all u for saying something and what not. I just want to say i never really paid attention if i was kissing good while kissing... I just always wood think if i was or not at a later time.

But i really do thank you all:D
 
rallas40 said:
I just wanna say thanks to all u for saying something and what not. I just want to say i never really paid attention if i was kissing good while kissing... I just always wood think if i was or not at a later time.

But i really do thank you all:D

To be more general, I dislike people who leave their tongues at the bottoms of their mouth while they kiss. To me, the point is to entwine the tongues and press your mouths against each other. And if you're more comfortable with the person, you can fellate the other's tongue a bit, which can feel divine sometimes. :D I like to alternate giving little kisses too, with full mouth-contact. Kissing the neck and ears is great too, and girls seem to love it. :)
 
Man i love to be kissed on the neck!!!!! IT FEELS SO GOOD!!!! but something that surprised the girl i am "seeing" is that one time she just decided to bite down as a joke and i told her it felt INCRIDABLY GOOD. And it does. anyways THANKS TO ALL U AGAIN FOR REPLYING....

I also don't like it when people leave their tounges at the bottom of their mouths it makes them seem like they don't care and r bored.
 
rallas40 said:
Man i love to be kissed on the neck!!!!! IT FEELS SO GOOD!!!! but something that surprised the girl i am "seeing" is that one time she just decided to bite down as a joke and i told her it felt INCRIDABLY GOOD. And it does. anyways THANKS TO ALL U AGAIN FOR REPLYING....

I also don't like it when people leave their tounges at the bottom of their mouths it makes them seem like they don't care and r bored.

Really? I'll have to tell my girl to put a little tooth into the neck sometime. I never thought of that. I like the sensation, but i never find it's very strong unless it's a bit rough.

Plus there is something about a nice, sweet girl being rough that is great fun.
 
no joke

If she is grinding into you, take that as a good sign.

I would like to think she would say something or back off a bit if the kisses weren't that good.

PowrDragn
 
You must be doing something right if she's responding like that. I love kissing... mmmm....
 
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