what should I do?

[sinnamongyrl]

ok,,,i have abit of a problem,,and i need you help,I hope I dont ramble on and confuse you like i have a tendancy to do,,OK....so today,,,we were SLOOOOWWW at work in the morning and I called my sweetie(MMMM),,,,,,right after I got off the phone,,,standing RIGHT behind me was this man that i knew from my last job,he liked me and asked me out....at the time he asked me out,,,I had fallen for the said sweetie on the phone,,,so i said NO..he was like,,,Oh MY GOD,,,,called my name,,,,,,hugged me,.,,,i did not hug back,,,,why did you not tell me you were leaving?(last job)....i did not think i needed to i guess......he goes onand on..I have known you for almost 5 years,,,,you were always so damn sweet,,,smelled so beatiful,,,,i knew you were not happy with your husband,,I know how bd he treats you,,,please give me chance,,all i want to do is take care of you,,,,you treat you like a princess,,please please let me,,,,,damn,,,,,OK,.,this went on,,,,lemme explain..I AM NOT INTERSTED AT ALLL<<<<<because i am in love with someone else,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,i told him i was in love,,,he still kept on,,,he said he wont give up.....what the fuck do i do now?I dont want this man,,,,really,,,,,but i dont wanna sound like a bitch either,,NO does not work,,,I love another man does not work,,WHAT SHOULD I SAY?,,,nothinh wrong with him..very attractive,LOADED,smart,...but I dont want it,,,,,should i just be mean and say FUCK OFF?

 

[appleapps]

ok,,,i have abit of a problem,,and i need you help,I hope I dont ramble on and confuse you like i have a tendancy to do,,OK....so today,,,we were SLOOOOWWW at work in the morning and I called my sweetie(MMMM),,,,,,right after I got off the phone,,,standing RIGHT behind me was this man that i knew from my last job,he liked me and asked me out....at the time he asked me out,,,I had fallen for the said sweetie on the phone,,,so i said NO..he was like,,,Oh MY GOD,,,,called my name,,,,,,hugged me,.,,,i did not hug back,,,,why did you not tell me you were leaving?(last job)....i did not think i needed to i guess......he goes onand on..I have known you for almost 5 years,,,,you were always so damn sweet,,,smelled so beatiful,,,,i knew you were not happy with your husband,,I know how bd he treats you,,,please give me chance,,all i want to do is take care of you,,,,you treat you like a princess,,please please let me,,,,,damn,,,,,OK,.,this went on,,,,lemme explain..I AM NOT INTERSTED AT ALLL<<<<<because i am in love with someone else,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,i told him i was in love,,,he still kept on,,,he said he wont give up.....what the fuck do i do now?I dont want this man,,,,really,,,,,but i dont wanna sound like a bitch either,,NO does not work,,,I love another man does not work,,WHAT SHOULD I SAY?,,,nothinh wrong with him..very attractive,LOADED,smart,...but I dont want it,,,,,should i just be mean and say FUCK OFF?

How about "if you dont stop bothering me, after i have told you i am not interested, i will get a restraining order"?

 

[sinnamongyrl]

hhhahah...maybe i should try that...i was gonna try to be nice,,,,,maybe thats not a good idea,,,,

 

[appleapps]

hhhahah...maybe i should try that...i was gonna try to be nice,,,,,maybe thats not a good idea,,,,

it sounds like you have been nice and he isnt getting the hint, so now is time to take off the gloves, and you still arent being really mean, it isnt like you are saying "look asshole if you dont get out of my face i will put a hit out on you" lmao

 

[sinnamongyrl]

hahha,,,yeah,,,,i think I may have to,,,and he is such a nice man,,,really,,,got a lot going for him...but somebody else has my heart rigth now,,and I am happy with him.......i would think that if a man,,,knows that you are married AND also invloved with somebody else,,and he STILL tries,,,,,i dunno,,,,makes me think he is a wee bit off,,,,,,,,invited me out of town this weekend,,asked me to go out to BLUE(a VERY nice restaraunt in town),,,,damn...dude...NO OK?

 

[appleapps]

hahha,,,yeah,,,,i think I may have to,,,and he is such a nice man,,,really,,,got a lot going for him...but somebody else has my heart rigth now,,and I am happy with him.......i would think that if a man,,,knows that you are married AND also invloved with somebody else,,and he STILL tries,,,,,i dunno,,,,makes me think he is a wee bit off,,,,,,,,invited me out of town this weekend,,asked me to go out to BLUE(a VERY nice restaraunt in town),,,,damn...dude...NO OK?

how come it seems when you are looking for a guy that none are available but the minute you stop looking BAM they are all knocking at your door?

 

[sinnamongyrl]

hhahah,,I KNOW<<<<<he knew me for almost 5 fucking years,,,had his chance,,,,,,,,,i probally would have..but now..hell no,,,,no way would I throw away what i have for this,,,,,funny though.....but true,,,,,always always flirted,,,,i thought he liked me,,,but I am not an ego maniac,,so did not assume,,,,,,came to the office way to much,,,,juits to be around me I guess,,,,and now,,,he fucking knows where i work now.....,,,,but god..he heard me say"I LOVE YOU BABY",,,on the phone...the more i talk about this,,,the kookier he is sounding to me......

 

[appleapps]

hhahah,,I KNOW<<<<<he knew me for almost 5 fucking years,,,had his chance,,,,,,,,,i probally would have..but now..hell no,,,,no way would I throw away what i have for this,,,,,funny though.....but true,,,,,always always flirted,,,,i thought he liked me,,,but I am not an ego maniac,,so did not assume,,,,,,came to the office way to much,,,,juits to be around me I guess,,,,and now,,,he fucking knows where i work now.....,,,,but god..he heard me say"I LOVE YOU BABY",,,on the phone...the more i talk about this,,,the kookier he is sounding to me......

maybe he is one of those people who dont want to be involved with someone unless they are already committed that way he doesnt have to worry about committment himself

 

[sinnamongyrl]

damn........did not even THINK of that,,,,ok keep in mind,,,when he asked me out the first time....he did NOT know i was invloved,,,knew i was unhappily married,,,did not know I was in love with someone else,,,,mmmmm,,,,,good point though,,,,,he is single,,i do know that,,,,i tried to get a friend to make a play for him to get him offf my back,,,BUT hahha...she is married as well to an asshole like I am,,he is ALWASY away on"business"(mmmm) and she is having an affair witgh a man from Michigan,,,,,such sordid lil lives we all lead at times.............