What should I do?

[superlittlegirl]

It's Saturday night and I have yet to decide what I should do. Will you please vote for the option you think would be the most fun?

 

[PacificBlue]

Phonesex with PacificBlue is ALWAYS a good option.

 

[superlittlegirl]

Phonesex with PacificBlue is ALWAYS a good option.

I didn't know that was an option!

 

[PacificBlue]

I didn't know that was an option!

You didn't get the memo? I really need to have my fax machine looked at.

 

[WaxNWane]

I vote other...PM the boy you like and tell him you miss him and you'll talk to him soon, call Kily and see if she wants to go dancing, and if she's not up for that, see if she's down with a movie.

 

[LukkyKnight]

You didn't get the memo? I really need to have my fax machine looked at.

A lot of memos got re-routed recently owing to a freak problem. I, for instance, haven't been propositioned in over a day!

 

[lilminx]

I think that if you feel comfortable going out alone, go dancing.

I wish I had the nerve to go out by myself, but I always seem to get into trouble when that happens. Either that or I feel incredibly self-conscious.

 

[superlittlegirl]

You're so smart. And diplomatic.

How do you figure stuff like that out? I agonize over decisions like this every day. Clearly, I just need to mush the options all together and go for it!

Thanks!

I vote other...PM the boy you like and tell him you miss him and you'll talk to him soon, call Kily and see if she wants to go dancing, and if she's not up for that, see if she's down with a movie.

 

[superlittlegirl]

I love to go dancing alone.

I feel less self-conscious because there's usually no one there I know. I can be less restrained than I would if I were with someone.

What kind of trouble do you get into? The only trouble I get into is with people who won't respect my personal space, but a well placed heel and an "Oh my God, I'm so sorry!" usually fixes that. Accidental tramplings can be handy.

I think that if you feel confortable going out alone, go dancing.

I wish I had the nerve to go out by myself, but I always seem to get into trouble when that happens. Either that or I feel incredibly self-conscious.

 

[LukkyKnight]

~stepping back carefully~

 

[superlittlegirl]

Don't worry, as long as you don't try to grope me without my consent, we'll be fine. People can get really boorish on the dance floor.

Booze + Testosterone = Cruisin' for a Bruisin'.

~stepping back carefully~

 

[WaxNWane]

You're so smart. And diplomatic.

How do you figure stuff like that out? I agonize over decisions like this every day. Clearly, I just need to mush the options all together and go for it!

Thanks!

Danka for the complement...though it'd be more impressive if it weren't vicarious decision-making.

 

[P. B. Walker]

Why not rent your own movie (or do pay-per-view, etc). Pop some popcorn and get your favorite beverage... and enjoy

PBW

 

[Shaq]

Clean my room

 

[superlittlegirl]

Bitte.

I have quite an easy time deciding things for others, too. Funny how that works.

Danka for the complement...though it'd be more impressive if it weren't vicarious decision-making.

 

[LukkyKnight]

Don't worry, as long as you don't try to grope me without my consent, we'll be fine. People can get really boorish on the dance floor.

Booze + Testosterone = Cruisin' for a Bruisin'.

Let's work out this consent thing, then. I've no need for bruises.

 

[lilminx]

I love to go dancing alone.

I feel less self-conscious because there's usually no one there I know. I can be less restrained than I would if I were with someone.

What kind of trouble do you get into? The only trouble I get into is with people who won't respect my personal space, but a well placed heel and an "Oh my God, I'm so sorry!" usually fixes that. Accidental tramplings can be handy.

I usually end up drinking too much when I go out alone, hence the reason I don't go out alone anymore.

I feel weird when I go out alone too- like everyone's looking at me and saying, "Why is this chick out by herself?"

 

[islandman]

"Why is this chick out by herself?"

Happy to know I'm not the only clueless man in NYC.

 

[superlittlegirl]

It's like this.

When I go dancing, it's for me. It's not for the benefit of anyone else. I don't go dancing to be sexy, and I don't go dancing to hook up. I dress modestly, and try to downplay my physical features so people will mostly leave me alone.

I generally don't like to talk to random guys, because if I'm talking, it means that I'm not dancing. If I approach you, it's okay to see where it goes. But I generally won't.

If you offer to buy me a drink and I accept, it does not mean that you get a blowjob later.

If I'm dancing, do not tap me on the shoulder to ask me any questions. It's rude, and it's not appreciated. If I'm standing on the wall, do not ask me why I am not dancing, do not tell me to smile, and do not tell me to lighten up and have fun.

I have to be a bitch when I go out. It's an armor of sorts. When you're small, somewhat cute, and all alone, you hafta overcompensate the toughness angle, or there's trouble.

If you grab my tits or ass, expect to get your toes stepped on, or worse. I've never hit anyone, but I've been feeling rather wound up lately. I would probably not get physical, but I'd definitely make a scene.

It's kind of stressful and exhausting to go out dancing when you're not interested in being picked up. The rewards are immense, though, when everything works out right.

Let's work out this consent thing, then. I've no need for bruises.

 

[superlittlegirl]

I have a physical 3 drink limit. After that, I no longer feel confident in defending myself.

And I don't give a fuck what people are wondering. I'm a pro at tuning everyone out. I've been doing it for years.

I usually end up drinking too much when I go out alone, hence the reason I don't go out alone anymore.

I feel weird when I go out alone too- like everyone's looking at me and saying, "Why is this chick out by herself?"

 

[lilminx]

Happy to know I'm not the only clueless man in NYC.

I don't get it. Clueless about what?

SLG, I understand what you're saying about the armor bit. I'm like that even if I go to the bookstore. I hate it when people tell me to smile. If I wanted to look like a schmuck with a permanent smile attached to my face, I would. Obviously I don't want to.

 

[riff]

Looks like you are surfing Lit. heh.

 

[superlittlegirl]

Nothing happens until after midnight.

Only the dorky kids show up this early. While I enjoy a spacious dancefloor, I do not want to be the only one out there. Draws too much attention.

Looks like you are surfing Lit. heh.

 

[Romial]

I vote for movies personally. Never under estimate of watching a good movie with someone you care about(as a friend or other wise)

 

[Saint Peter]

I voted for other. Tonight is a good night to stay home and search the dictionary for those killer Scrabbbbbbley words that ding in with 100 points. That or go out and get groped on the dance floor by some testosterone laden dickhead. Tough choice.