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Mister_Chris
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For no discernible reason, I found myself researching swinging as a cultural phenomenon. The Wikipedia article seems to have a very positive, supporting attitude towards the concept of swinging; many advantages are listed, and the few disadvantages are contested within the article. Other websites, which I suspect were created by swinger advocates, also spoke positively of the lifestyle.
The best article I found was on Psychology Today. They made the point that swingers were young, old, short, tall, doctors, hairdressers, lawyers, car mechanics, and everything in between. Salaries range from $40,000 to $200,000, and the dispersion between blue collar and white collar professions is no different than that of the general population. In fact, there was no external characteristic that identified swingers, except for one thing: an open and flexible attitude towards sex.
Pretty much everything I found suggested that swingers were happier, healthier, and had longer - lived marriages than non swingers (I have excluded the data from Dr. Phil).
Interestingly, almost all swingers are white; and a statistically significant majority are both republican, and religious. It sorta paints Ted Cruz in a whole new light.
I found it interesting that most articles suggested that, while most women swingers identified themselves as bisexual or bi-curious, only a small percentile of male swingers did so; one article suggested that male bisexual or homosexual behavior was actively discouraged. Apparently men and women don't mind watching women go at it, but the same is not true of male/male encounters.
It's also true that different nations have different swing rates. Interestingly, Brits are the most randy of the lot; they swing so much that it's amazing that anyone gets to work on time. England really does swing like a pendulum do. Canadians also swing a lot; after all, the winter nights are six months long, and you have to do something, and the polar bears are getting scarce. The primary difference seems to be that Canadians are more polite. Except to the polar bears.
But the really difficult data point to pin down was the percentage of Americans who swing. Some articles suggested 1/10th of 1 percent; other articles suggested 50%. Wikipedia suggested 2 - 4 percent, and Psychology Today didn't address the issue at all.
Part of the issue seems to be what constitutes Swinging. Are we talking the occasional secret affair, or a quiet arrangement with one or two other couples, or regular club attendance? And there is the social stigma attached to the swinging lifestyle; this stigma makes it harder to get actual numbers.
So... what do you all have to day? How many American couples actively swing on a fairly regular, honest, and open (at least, within their own group) basis?
The best article I found was on Psychology Today. They made the point that swingers were young, old, short, tall, doctors, hairdressers, lawyers, car mechanics, and everything in between. Salaries range from $40,000 to $200,000, and the dispersion between blue collar and white collar professions is no different than that of the general population. In fact, there was no external characteristic that identified swingers, except for one thing: an open and flexible attitude towards sex.
Pretty much everything I found suggested that swingers were happier, healthier, and had longer - lived marriages than non swingers (I have excluded the data from Dr. Phil).
Interestingly, almost all swingers are white; and a statistically significant majority are both republican, and religious. It sorta paints Ted Cruz in a whole new light.
I found it interesting that most articles suggested that, while most women swingers identified themselves as bisexual or bi-curious, only a small percentile of male swingers did so; one article suggested that male bisexual or homosexual behavior was actively discouraged. Apparently men and women don't mind watching women go at it, but the same is not true of male/male encounters.
It's also true that different nations have different swing rates. Interestingly, Brits are the most randy of the lot; they swing so much that it's amazing that anyone gets to work on time. England really does swing like a pendulum do. Canadians also swing a lot; after all, the winter nights are six months long, and you have to do something, and the polar bears are getting scarce. The primary difference seems to be that Canadians are more polite. Except to the polar bears.
But the really difficult data point to pin down was the percentage of Americans who swing. Some articles suggested 1/10th of 1 percent; other articles suggested 50%. Wikipedia suggested 2 - 4 percent, and Psychology Today didn't address the issue at all.
Part of the issue seems to be what constitutes Swinging. Are we talking the occasional secret affair, or a quiet arrangement with one or two other couples, or regular club attendance? And there is the social stigma attached to the swinging lifestyle; this stigma makes it harder to get actual numbers.
So... what do you all have to day? How many American couples actively swing on a fairly regular, honest, and open (at least, within their own group) basis?