What makes them memorable?

[Hipshot1554]

When your mind drifts back to previous lovers, what is it about some that makes them stand out, (no pun intended)?

For myself it's those that made a special connection. A comfort level that is hard to explain unless you've experienced it.

 

[Ingenue844]

There’s mainstream sex which can be ok. But then there are those times when something new happens and

 

[Hipshot1554]

There’s mainstream sex which can be ok. But then there are those times when something new happens and

surprises you, in a good way?

 

[Ingenue844]

surprises you, in a good way?

Surprises me in the, “Holy Fuck…what just happened and now I’m cumming ,” kind of way.

 

[Hipshot1554]

Surprises me in the, “Holy Fuck…what just happened and now I’m cumming ,” kind of way.

Exactly!

 

[StrongMaster7]

To me it's just certain moments that become like snapshots. Often it's something sexy said in the heat of the moment.

First gf: I remember her laying on her front and I entered her from behind. That sweet round ass was memorable.
2nd gf: She would let me eat her pussy for hours and she would drift from one orgasm to the next.
3rd gf: Once a rubber broke as I was about to come. I pulled out and blew my wad all over her big tits, to her delight.
Another gf: She was on her period and quietly suggested that I 'tittyfuck' her
My wife: When she tells me to bite her nipples or squeeze her tits harder.

 

[gtnlynn]

I've only had one. My wife had 5 sexual relationships that lasted more than a few weeks in college, along with about that many shorter term lovers. The one thing that set the best apart from the worst was that they wanted to do whatever was necessary to make the sex enjoyable for her. They weren't just concerned with shooting their load into the best pussy on campus.

 

[georgerb]

Just that feeling their body and hearing them respond in an explosive way to whatever you were doing for mutual pleasure.

 

[HumpDayHoratio]

I guess most are memorable in one way or another. One that always brings a smile to my face was the first girl to fuck me…not my first mind you, just the first that actually fucked me.

I had returned from my first overseas deployment. A girl whom I grew up with, more like my sister, had a party. This girl was my wing-girl. She always made sure i was fed when hungry, had a date at any event she organized, and always had my six. Thumbs up/down on any stray women I’d bring around. Just one of my best friends. Still is. We maybe could have been an item if I’d of ever pushed it but we always had a platonic relationship.

Anyhow, she has this big rager out on a piece of property her husband and she had recently purchased. The girl she set me up with was one of her, uhm, wild friends. We hit it off instantly! She was cute, brown hair, country come to town type. Curves in all the right places.

As things are winding down, and I’m about to leave with some friends I drove over with, this girl grabs me and says “you ain’t going nowhere!, you‘re mine tonight!” Who was I to argue? Needless to say we ended up in the spare bedroom and what had been alluring curves in shorts and tight shirt didn’t disappoint when it all came off! She had true cone nipples, the likes I’ve never seen before or since. She proceeded to devour me like a she wolf! I had never been taken in this way. Had great sex before (and since) but this girl took it to another level. To this day I’ve never been fucked like that. The intensity, the passion, the determination.

I don’t know if it was the novelty of her body or the porn star audition she gave, but every time I think of her I just smile. Unfortunately she fell victim to the whims of my 23yr old self who thought if there was one there were a hundred! Other than the sex she was just a little too familiar in that hometown girl sort of way and it was something a late bloomer like myself was trying to move away from.

I’ve often wondered if the timing had been different, could we have made a go?

 

[Hipshot1554]

Great posts, with just the perspectives I was hoping for. Thanks.

 

[the_single_gal_unconfidential]

I think mine would be the bf I had 3 yrs after I got divorced. I had two bfs between my div and meeting him.
he'd just gotten divorced, I was his first gf.
he was older, 42 and I was 35 - I'd never had a bf with that much age difference before.
which was fine - the age difference to me meant that we were not going to be permanent.
just being divorced, he had an absolutely voracious sex drive. which was also fine w me - I just wanted affection and friendship w/o hassle I guess.
he'd come over to pick me up for movie, bite to eat etc. I'd wonder if we'd have sex before or after - it would be both haha.
anyway, besides all that, he was nice, considerate, thoughtful, introspective - we'd take drives and chat, try to figure out life.
one thing he said to me that I've carried my whole life - he said I was a survivor.
I've kept that motto or whatever for everything I do -
of course I didn't know what the future held - but I knew that I would have to make it thru life on my own, regardless of what happened.
so that kept me on a path of self making it.
I tell my grandkids that.
I'm sure glad I met him.

 

[Mtnmike]

Surprises me in the, “Holy Fuck…what just happened and now I’m cumming ,” kind of way.

Those are the best memories, they stay with you forever.

 

[CarlyAnn]

With me it’s happening right now with my FWB. He’s been my best friend for many years (long story) and we had never planned on the sex thing. We have so much in common that besides the sex we are always doing things we both love to do. We refuse to do the bf/gf thing because we don’t ever want to F up the relationship we currently have. He’s older than me which is a plus in my mind and he’s great friends with my Dad (No, my Dad doesn’t know what we’re doing).

 

[anniebaby10]

I think when you try something new.... be it a new location, a new way to cum, or back when I was single, a new lover. I learn new things on here from a lot of people and that keeps sex interesting for me. I like trying new things. that is what makes it memorable.

 

[Hipshot1554]

I think when you try something new.... be it a new location, a new way to cum, or back when I was single, a new lover. I learn new things on here from a lot of people and that keeps sex interesting for me. I like trying new things. that is what makes it memorable.

Yes. One of my most memorable times was seeing how someone reacted to something new.

 

[Midsmale69]

When your mind drifts back to previous lovers, what is it about some that makes them stand out, (no pun intended)?

For myself it's those that made a special connection. A comfort level that is hard to explain unless you've experienced it.

Usually a result of a new or greatly enhanced experience or particular skills.... My examples would include the first to allow me to cum in her mouth, and other who was insatiable and enjoyed sharing details of her past encounters, one who had the most exquisite taste in lingerie and was a demon in the bedroom, and another who was amazingly tight and had the ability to grip my cock like none other...all lovely ladies

 

[Deleted member 1655181]

Several stand out but one in particular. I wasn't "in love" with her, but she loved sex. It was back in the early 90s when this was not a thing, but she shaved her pussy for me. But the real stand out was she was the first to lick my asshole introducing me to that special pleasure, and she would lick me dirty!!! Almost every gal I had sex afterwards with got their bottoms licked!! Still love doing it and having it done.

 

[Midsmale69]

Several stand out but one in particular. I wasn't "in love" with her, but she loved sex. It was back in the early 90s when this was not a thing, but she shaved her pussy for me. But the real stand out was she was the first to lick my asshole introducing me to that special pleasure, and she would lick me dirty!!! Almost every gal I had sex afterwards with got their bottoms licked!! Still love doing it and having it done.

I met up with a newly separated older woman when I was in my 30s (her and hubby still shared a house but she was openly seeing others) She was very horny, and keen to try new things after years of vanilla sex. We were meeting after work at a hotel on my birthday.... she told me she had two surprises for me. I discovered the first when I put my hand in her knickers and found a totally smooth pussy - she smiled and said "that's number 1". After a pretty hot session of fingering and oral, she had my cock in her mouth. Her BJ skills had got better and better, and she would wait until I was about to cum and then wank me off over her breasts, rubbing it into her skin. I was stood and she was knelt before me, still in her lingerie and holdups and I was close to cumming so I told her. She took me deep in her mouth, caressed my balles and swallowed every drop of my semen before looking up and saying "that was 2 - Happy Birthday" What a birthday that was!!

 

[Ramone45]

My wife is European and she often talks about the men that fucked her with uncircumcised cocks.

 

[Unsure2022]

My first. She was skinny with C cups and shaved for me. She was also the first to peg me and that made me cum so hard I blacked out.

Another was a woman that I fell in love with and should not have. But, a handful of events are what pop into my head depending on what’s happening. 1) It was a warm but cloudy spring day with the windows open and a nice breeze blowing across us as we had slow, passionate sex all day. It was relaxing and beautiful. 2) We got fairly drunk during a party at her place and afterward she wanted to give me a BJ. She was doing an amazing job and I was moaning and groaning so much she yelled at me to quiet down so her roommate wouldn’t hear. 3) Having sex in a tent in the middle of a campground after adult trick or treating. She was getting loud and I said “sssshhh there are people” and she gasped out “I don’t care.” That was mind blowing.

 

[Shi_One81]

The connection and the experience.

 

[bookworm69]

Remembering old lovers? Passion comes to mind, springing from the physical and an emotional "connection." Also, an openness and a willingness to please that ran both ways. Oh, yeah, nice size butt.

 

[HoldYouDown]

Just the variety, it's like a slideshow sometimes.

Lying in bed naked after sex with a beautiful dark-skinned Indian while Dido plays on the radio.

Watching a Chilean girl with beautiful small boobs stroke me and beg me in castellano to cum on her.

Exploring our nubile bodies in the backseat of a car in the woods as teenagers.

Raw-dogging my hot, bitchy boss in her office.

Making love to a friend's lonely ex-girlfriend on a cold Christmas night.

Night time sex in a rooftop swimming pool in Miami Beach.

Taking a platonic friend to a wedding and having drunken sex at the hotel that night.

A friend and I both having our dicks sucked by a cute Chinese girl.

Just a few random memories..

 

[desire30]

Just the variety, it's like a slideshow sometimes.

Lying in bed naked after sex with a beautiful dark-skinned Indian while Dido plays on the radio.

Watching a Chilean girl with beautiful small boobs stroke me and beg me in castellano to cum on her.

Exploring our nubile bodies in the backseat of a car in the woods as teenagers.

Raw-dogging my hot, bitchy boss in her office.

Making love to a friend's lonely ex-girlfriend on a cold Christmas night.

Night time sex in a rooftop swimming pool in Miami Beach.

Taking a platonic friend to a wedding and having drunken sex at the hotel that night.

A friend and I both having our dicks sucked by a cute Chinese girl.

Just a few random memories..

I love seeing your memories ..

 

[HoldYouDown]

I love seeing your memories ..

It gives me an instant hard on reading your replies.