What Made You Smile Today, v6

Getting my nose pierced! I’ve wanted to do it for a long time and today there was a shop doing a fundraiser for animals in need. It was the perfect opportunity!
So…yes @dawn_of_night @Biggalute was talking about me 💕
Go PG! Am sure it looks awesome!
A while ago I got a second piercing in my ears.. after many, many months of thinking about it!
 
OK, last night. But a rainbow at sunset covered the whole sky. Everything inside the rainbow was pinkish-orange, and everything outside was dark blue. The rainbow was like a picture frame around a beautiful colored set of clouds at sunset. So weird and cool at the same time.
 
Talking about a female coworker who was a delight …and her ability to cut through sexual dithering by simply saying “I want to have sex with you.”

Why can’t it always be that simple?
Wow I'm jealous. I have never ever been that forward! Even the thought of it is making me feel panicky 🤣🤦🏻‍♀️
 
Talking about a female coworker who was a delight …and her ability to cut through sexual dithering by simply saying “I want to have sex with you.”

Why can’t it always be that simple?
Because contrary to what they say, a lot of men cannot handle a woman being that forthcoming (ask me how I know).
 
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Because contrary to what they say, a lot of men cannot handle a woman being that forthcoming (ask me how I know).
I think you are 100% right. Lots of double standards abound and fragile egos. I’m sure she got judged by men and women.
But much more interesting is …yes, I really want to know how you know!! 🤣
 
I think you are 100% right. Lots of double standards abound and fragile egos. I’m sure she got judged by men and women.
But much more interesting is …yes, I really want to know how you know!! 🤣
Many men want women to pretend like they have to be swayed/charmed into wanting to have sex with them. I (and I'm sure lots of other women) know pretty quickly if we are attracted to someone/want to have sex with them. I'm either sexually attracted to you or not. Now, the likelihood of that sex happening can either be increased/decreased by the person's behavior.

Let's just say I've had men talk a big game, but when presented with a straightforward "Are you sexually attracted to me? Would you like to have sex?" they start hemming and hawing. For some men, they can't fathom women 1) having a sexual appetite just as large as theirs, and/or 2) being upfront about it.
 
having a sexual appetite just as large as theirs
And indeed considerably more than guys at certain times of life.

Yes, it’s odd how some people react. I’m very pro equality and generally open minded, but even I have felt a bit “caught off guard”? I think it requires a shift in my mode, from “try not to be THAT guy” to “oh! Looks like I don’t need to do all the subtle testing the waters type stuff”. If that makes any kind of sense?
 
And indeed considerably more than guys at certain times of life.

Yes, it’s odd how some people react. I’m very pro equality and generally open minded, but even I have felt a bit “caught off guard”? I think it requires a shift in my mode, from “try not to be THAT guy” to “oh! Looks like I don’t need to do all the subtle testing the waters type stuff”. If that makes any kind of sense?
It makes sense; you go from thinking you need to "chase" to no chase needing to happen at all, effectively. Men say they wish women would be more straightforward, but their actions belie this.
 
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