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[Wave_Rider]

What is the ONE trait/ characteristic you possess that you wish you could change?

I'm far too competitive, whether in Athletics or a silly board game


What is the ONE trait/characteristic you have noticed in someone else that you wish you possessed?

The ability to forgive others much quicker

 

[SJZ76]

Change: I put too much faith in the innate goodness of people.

Want: The ability to read people so very easily...

 

[bluemuse]

Change: I put too much faith in the innate goodness of people.

Want: The ability to read people so very easily...

Wow, this could be me.

But really, I procrastinate to the 10th degree. If I don't want to do something I put it off like crazy. My taxes are filed on the last day every year.


Confidence. I wish that I were more confident. And taller.....lol.

 

[Wave_Rider]

Change: I put too much faith in the innate goodness of people.

So you are often disappointed by those that you have put your faith in?

Want: The ability to read people so very easily...

Hmmmmmm, and why do I feel that I could read YOU

 

[Wave_Rider]

Wow, this could be me.

But really, I procrastinate to the 10th degree. If I don't want to do something I put it off like crazy. My taxes are filed on the last day every year.

So you are not able to FOCUS long enough to accomplish a task that you know needs to be completed? Smile

Confidence. I wish that I were more confident. And taller.....lol.

YOU have many many reasons to feel confidence in yourself from what I remember

 

[DaemonOfSin]

I wish I had confidence.

I wish I was nicer. Eh I'm a bitch and I know it.

 

[Riles]

To change: I wish my courage to voice my opinion didn't falter in the face of a loved one. Sometimes things need saying....even when the cost is high.

I want: To be more thick skinned. A good front only goes so far.

 

[Wave_Rider]

I wish I had confidence.

Confidence can be obtained slowly; each step, every affirmation and it seeps into your sub-conscience.....

I wish I was nicer. Eh I'm a bitch and I know it.

LOL, well at least you understand YOU

 

[Wave_Rider]

To change: I wish my courage to voice my opinion didn't falter in the face of a loved one. Sometimes things need saying....even when the cost is high.

True, its always harder to tell a loved one the truth, especially after spending so many years either sugar coating, or allowing yourself to cover up what you would prefer saying to them
I want: To be more thick skinned. A good front only goes so far.

I'm more of a 'backside fan' anyway Riles, so carry on

 

[NeverWinterNite]

Change: I am always procrastinating about something. I need to really work on that.

I want: To learn to be more assertive.

 

[Wave_Rider]

Change: I am always procrastinating about something. I need to really work on that.

Do you generally procrastinate due to indifference, laziness or a sense of you deciding I'll get to it when I really really really need to?

I want: To learn to be more assertive.

ahhhhhh the mantra of "I think I can, I think I can..."

 

[bluemuse]

YOU have many many reasons to feel confidence in yourself from what I remember

Thank you for that.

Oh, and as far as my focusing problem......there's always something more fun or interesting to do, isn't there?

 

[Wave_Rider]

Smiles, at being thanked for simply telling the truth about you

 

[NeverWinterNite]

ahhhhhh the mantra of "I think I can, I think I can..."

Basically, until I chicken out again. Lol!

 

[Wave_Rider]

Basically, until I chicken out again. Lol!

Next time your ready to "cluck cluck" again, just feel a hand not letting you run, and slowly guiding you forward

 

[NeverWinterNite]

Next time your ready to "cluck cluck" again, just feel a hand not letting you run, and slowly guiding you forward

Thanks for the encouragement!!!

 

[MsTexas]

Change ... My quick temper

Wish ... More self confidence

 

[Wave_Rider]

Change ... My quick temper

A Texan with a temper? Imagine that, smile.

Wish ... More self confidence

A Texan with a temper? Imagine that, smile.

Would that be more confidence in your outer shell or inner self?

 

[MsTexas]

A Texan with a temper? Imagine that, smile.

Would that be more confidence in your outer shell or inner self?

LOL .... yea imagine that!

Inner will seap outward, yes?

 

[Wave_Rider]

LOL .... yea imagine that!

Inner will seap outward, yes?

Archs a brow, 'seepage' in some respects can be yummy. However, if a lack of self confidence from within, lets others notice by your body language, facial expressions,....then NO.......tsk tsk....... Inhale and just strut your stuff like a True Texan

 

[MsTexas]

Archs a brow, 'seepage' in some respects can be yummy. However, if a lack of self confidence from within, lets others notice by your body language, facial expressions,....then NO.......tsk tsk....... Inhale and just strut your stuff like a True Texan

Oh I have excellent body language ... trust me on this one! lol

Strut? I never ...

 

[Wave_Rider]

Oh I have excellent body language ... trust me on this one! lol

Strut? I never ...

what about Shimmy?

 

[MsTexas]

what about Shimmy?

Only for an encore ...

 

[EnglishEm]

What is the ONE trait/ characteristic you possess that you wish you could change?

I'm too trusting and friendly...it gets me into trouble


What is the ONE trait/characteristic you have noticed in someone else that you wish you possessed?

I wish I had more will power...

 

[Wave_Rider]

What is the ONE trait/ characteristic you possess that you wish you could change?

I'm too trusting and friendly...it gets me into trouble

Is it friends or family that use your trust in them, in ways that make you frown?


What is the ONE trait/characteristic you have noticed in someone else that you wish you possessed?

I wish I had more will power...

Willpower can be self-taught. It just takes willpower to do it