What is...

[lost_littlegirl]

Umm I'm not sure if this is the right place to post this or not, please forgive me if it is not.

Ok, so my question.. What is breeding?

Now, let me explain a bit of why I ask this. I met a Dom online, we have been talking and getting to know one another, getting to know each others likes and dislikes, as well as things that we are interested in but maybe never tried. Which, for me is a lot. Well, I like erotic stories, and I have a paticular fondness for furry stories. The half human half animal stuff? Well, when he found out I liked those stories, he asks me if I "want" to be a furry. And umm yeah it's kinda a fantasy, though I don't see it ever really happening yanno? Well, when I told him it was a fantasy, he asked if I was also interested in breeding.

Now, my mom used to breed pure bred huskies when I was a kid, and thats about the only breeding I know anything about. When I told him this, and aske dhim to explain what he meant, he told me "never mind" and "don't worry about it". All of which make me very curious, as well as a little nervous as to why he refuses to tell me what he meant.

Can anyone here enlighten me a bit? Any idea what he meant by "breeding"?

Thanks

 

[WillowPuss]

I may be well off the mark here - but many people who are into animal sex call the act of an animal taking a woman 'breeding'.

Dogs (and other animals, I suppose) can be encouraged to 'breed' with a woman.


I would suggest that you head over to the 'How To' board as there is a thread on sex with animals and a link to a site that speaks of breeding (and even demonstrates it).



*sicking my neck out here*

Please, if this is your first taste on BDSM - be careful of on-line Dom/mes - not all are what they say they are or seem to be.

 

[Richard49]

Please, if this is your first taste on BDSM - be careful of on-line Dom/mes - not all are what they say they are or seem to be.

I agree

 

[Pebbles2play]

Definately be careful with this one.

~smile~

 

[Richard49]

Definately be careful with this one.

~smile~

Which one?

 

[Pebbles2play]

Oops I meant on-line Dom/mes ,

~smile~

 

[Richard49]

Oops I meant on-line Dom/mes ,

~smile~

You sure?

OK

 

[Pixie Mischief]

breeding

I believe is having sex with the intention of getting pregnant. Being aroused by the idea of getting pegnant or causing someone to become pregnant.
I had talked with a Dom in a chat room. He came up to me I was like uh? what do you want? LOL He was talking about breeding I was clueless. I'm pretty innocent here. Only had one bf and my sex life is much kinkier then the average person but pretty tame to most in this forum. anyway he was a black dude he was saying how he was so aroused with the idea of getting a white girl pregnant and so on.

 

[WynEternal]

In light of what you and he were talking about, it's probably referring to a sexual act between a woman and an animal. This isn't always what "breeding" means, however. In some circles, it can mean impregnating the female.

A story:

My Mistress had a Dom friend of her's over and they were talking as I knelt beside her. After some time, the conversation focused on me. I don't quite remember the rest of it, but there was a part that I do remember. They were talking about how young I was and just other things when he asked her if she ever intended to have me bred. At this point, my ears started turning red because pregnancy wasn't a thought in my mind. She said something to the effect that it depends on if we ever meet the right guy for me. He said something to the effect that he wished he was the one, and the conversation went elsewhere after that.

 

[James G 5]

The use of the term "breeders" in regards to male/female sex is almost exclusively the province of the gay community
K-9 fans DO refer to woman/dog sex as "breeding"....this came up in one of the Bestiality threads.
From the original post, I belive this is what was meant.

 

[lost_littlegirl]

Thanks

Thanks for the insight guys, and yes, I will be careful. I've met several friends from offline allready, as well as a couple past boyfriends, so I know well the dangers involved with meeting anyone from offline, not just Dom's. I don't know if it will get far enough to actually meeting this guy or not, there is another guy I talk to as well, they both want to be my Dom. And yes, they both know about each other. lol

Some of the answers I recieved here gave me another question. If your Dom decides to breed you *assuming here its to a man not a dog..* umm what of the baby? I mean, what role will the baby play? Or for that matter, how do you have a D's relationship when kids are involved. I mean, I met a woman online once, and her Dom controlled every aspect of her life, including the decision to have her give up her catering business, and send her grandkids back to her daughter who was ill equipped to care for them properly. Now me, I don't know, I can't see myself ever giving up control to that extent. My son is my life, and I'm kinda leary about how any relationships I get into might effect him, especially with a Dom.

 

[lark sparrow]

Re: Thanks

Some of the answers I recieved here gave me another question. If your Dom decides to breed you *assuming here its to a man not a dog..* umm what of the baby? I mean, what role will the baby play? Or for that matter, how do you have a D's relationship when kids are involved. I mean, I met a woman online once, and her Dom controlled every aspect of her life, including the decision to have her give up her catering business, and send her grandkids back to her daughter who was ill equipped to care for them properly. Now me, I don't know, I can't see myself ever giving up control to that extent. My son is my life, and I'm kinda leary about how any relationships I get into might effect him, especially with a Dom.

I think for most this would work better and is in the realm of fantasy. Unless of course "breeding" is the act of having children and starting a family with the man who happens to be your Dom. Make sure the issue of your son and the mutual interest level in creating more children are discussed with any Dom you feel you may like to get serious with IRL, of course. And if you decide to allow a Dom to "breed" you, make sure you ask the above questions first and agree with the answers given.

 

[FungiUg]

A relationship needs to be geared up to handle children. It's a commitment after all -- emotional, physical, environmental and financial.

It's not something I personally would even begin to consider unless I were in a relationship that had already shown it had long term staying power.

When you add a child to a relationship, at the very least the relationship is going to change to include dealing with a child. After all, this is what families are about.

I don't think it's really possible to live the dream of 24x7 D/s, and have children as well. Some time needs to be taken to act as a family.