What is your first choice - sex, passion or love?

[badkiwigirl]

What is your first choice - sex, passion or love? (coutesy of another fellow literotica friend here in Korea).

I am a non-military person working in a professional capacity here in Seoul.. I have a thing for men wearing uniforms and if they are intelligent and have a thing for women with accents (sorry guys am not Korean or into Asian men so that cuts down the likely pool of candidates). Sorry the dating pool in Korea is a small and rather murky pool of lets say rather simple minded individuals who have one thing on their mind. I would prefer to have an ocean to swim through to see if I like anybody and if we connect we can go out and share an evening of talking, flirting, dancing, romance in which to form the basis of a friendship and to see whether it has the potential to blossum into a beautiful thing or crash and burn.

Candidates need not be attached in anyway shape of form, as if you are wearing a uniform, you are most likely to have a loved one waiting for you at the end of your tour of duty here and I have no intentional to break into a commited relationship as I would like to have a positive outcome.

I am looking forward to hearing from anyone here in Korea who loves fun and being happy and up to the challenge of meeting new people

 

[Machiavellix]

In my opinion, the three together is the greatest force on this earth. Love alone is wonderful, as long as your object of affection returns the feeling. Passion without sex can really be frustrating, considering one begets the other. Really, the same can be said the other way around. So I suppose if I truly had to pick one, I would say love. Cause that can exist without sex. It's not easy, but it can be done.

Besides, that's what they make porno for.

 

[sinnamongyrl]

i dont know,,that is hard to say.As much as i would be inclined to say sex,,i wont because sex without love is till amazing,,,but sex without passion is shitty,,,,LOVE?maybe its great when you have it,,,and nice memory when you dont,,BUT love without passion is going to die(for me anyway)after a while,,,SO i am thinking for now,,,,and how I feel today,,its passion,,GREAT THREAD by the way,Thanks!!!

 

[badkiwigirl]

If I put it this way, sex is a commodity that we can get anytime anyplace with a real or cyber parter, passion comes with the right person and love encompasses them all. I love sex, I love passion but if I can love and have love returned then I have hit my o-spot.

 

[vibes]

i find that love + sex without passion tend to suck: sex becomes shallow, love becomes boring fondness

have you found what you were looking for in korea yet?

 

[chin_butterfly]

love, passion, sex

hmmm.....when you're young...it's love, passion, sex
a bit older...it becomes passion, sex, love....yet older....either one is always missing

 

[snakebyte]

hmmm.....when you're young...it's love, passion, sex
a bit older...it becomes passion, sex, love....yet older....either one is always missing

At 28 I'd say Love, Passion then sex. Sex is fun and all but I want to feel love. But I want that love to be very passionate. I think Passion and Love should go hand in hand. Without one the other doesn't work as well.

 

[gypziedoll]

Passion.....you can't have great sex or love without it

 

[thiscouldbtricky]

Definitely love.... it encompases all.